Birth, aging, illness and death are natural laws, and no one can avoid them. It is only a matter of time. If you still have half to go, do you want to find another partner? Even as old as that, there are people around. However, many children object for various reasons. If you listen to your children, won't you look for them? Or do you want to find it?

I poured out my heart to a 67-year-old man. In my later years, trusting my children and not looking for a partner was my stupidest thing.

Xiao Wang is 67 years old.

My wife left early and my children were busy, so I became an empty nester. How many old people are facing this problem? There are children on the surface, and there are many children.

I don't want to live with children. I am old, and I don't agree with their three views. It's easy to quarrel. Although I am old, I have no patience. So I have a clear understanding of myself. It's good to feel uncomfortable. There is no need to spend time with yourself, children.

At the beginning of this year, an old friend said, I'm not going to live with my children again. It is dangerous to live alone. Who can save you if something happens at night? This sentence is right, yes, if something goes wrong, isn't it just waiting for death? But I don't want to be with my children ... why not find a wife? My sister-in-law has been gone for so many years, and everything should be light. There is no need to be so persistent. Yes, with a wife around, you can take care of each other and say something unpleasant. If something goes wrong at night, someone knows someone will call you. 120 ...

I want to discuss it with my children the next day.

Me: You are too busy to take care of me. If I find a partner to live with.

Woman: Dad, that's not good. I'm too old.

Son: OK, Dad, if you need help, please take care of me when you and your sister are free.

You're not here every day.

Child: "Call me if you need anything."

Woman: Yes, Dad, please don't do so many things.

Son: I'm looking for a partner now. Are you going to give her the property in the future? If she leaves first in the future, should she find another one? If dad goes further, will your house and hometown be left to her?

Me: I dare not say anything the child says. Laughter, silence.

I can't help it, and I don't want to quarrel with them. Listen to the voices of the children.

soon

I began to feel a little sick during the day and had a fever at night. I was lying in bed, unconscious. I thought I was just walking. It rained heavily that night. I called the child as soon as it rained. I'll come back at dawn. Please take care of yourself.

It was hot to cover the quilt that night, but it was cold to leave it uncovered. I don't know what to do. I can't sleep well, and it's hard not to sleep. Late at night is unbearable. Although it rained heavily, I went to the hospital decisively. 39.6 。 Come back the next day, and it will be cold.

After that, even if you have children, you can't always be around. Even when you need them most, they may not appear immediately. This is a realistic problem.

I want to find another companion for my children, but I really need one this time. They didn't refuse. So I politely avoided the topic.

I really think. What I'm worried about is nobody else's business. I don't care about the children, but they think they should divide the property in the future. If they came to me, would they still say that?

The older people get, the more afraid they are of facing death. I know it's inevitable, but I'm still scared. So I really want someone to accompany me. Said the third time to find a partner for the child. I didn't expect to fall out this time.

Son: "Dad, why are you so cheeky?" Can you still do this when you are old? Please don't give you face. We still need it. 」

Me: "Where is the most time needed? Please don't mind me. 」

Son: "You are right. You said that. We don't need management. Since you don't love face, do you have anything to say?

Woman: Brother, please don't say a word. Dad, please don't do this. Hello, everyone, we are here. That's enough. "

Me: "…"

Son: "If you want to find a partner, please think that I have no son."

Me: "…"

We didn't convince anyone. The result is this result. However, the palm of your hand is full of meat. How to choose? Won't children give me a problem?

Finally, I haven't found a partner yet. Or do you live alone? Later, I asked the children, can we live together? They said they were busy. Even if I go to him, I can't take care of me. You'd better stay in your hometown. What do you want to do freely? There are no restrictions like those in big cities. Do I want to find them or not?

As time went on, I gradually regretted it. Why didn't you find a partner before? You can do it now. I can't find a partner and become such a relationship with my child.

With the growth of age, the body is getting worse and worse. Can't sleep at night. If I do, I may not get up.