For the role of Xiaomei, I may give you the impression that she is shy, simple, compassionate and affectionate. In fact, there are many interesting things in it. Xiaomei's shyness is actually a precaution against trees. Xiaomei didn't like trees at first, but it was really hard for her to find a better man. Finally, she was moved by the frankness and sincerity of the tree. At first, the motivation for the tree to find Xiaomei was nothing more than the desire of older single young people for women, rather than the simple expectation of love. So two people have no love at first, and they are both helpless choices. There are two details that I don't know if you have noticed. Actually, it is Xiaomei who smokes. She is very skilled in dating a tree. Second, Xiaomei is actually very experienced in that kind of thing. When she got married, the tree had entered a "meditation state" and she was able to take the initiative to do things. This ability is by no means a gift. It is impossible to do it so skillfully without experience ... this suddenly subverts everyone's impression of Xiaomei's innocence and shyness. In fact, Xiaomei's role is still relatively hidden. If you pay attention to where she works, you can guess some clues. "Massage for the blind", there are many hidden rules in the domestic massage health care industry, so I don't want to elaborate. Moreover, Xiaomei is deaf and dumb, but she is not ugly. There should be men interested in her. In fact, Mr. Tree first meant that to Xiaomei. So Xiaomei is probably a "lost girl" who has been bullied, struggled and unfortunately lived in a helpless life. So she doesn't believe in love. She is not easily impressed.
Because of its weakness, the tree doesn't believe in love, and it has no ability to pursue the love it craves. Xiaomei doesn't believe in love because of her misfortune and tortuous experience.