Cultivate children's rules and habits from eating.
Eating is an important opportunity to cultivate children's rules and habits, and parents need to start from the details. For example, teach him to hold the tableware correctly, and the younger generation should wait for the elders to move chopsticks before eating. Don't smack your mouth when eating, swallow the food in your mouth before speaking, and it is forbidden to beat the plate with chopsticks and don't pull out the dishes on the plate at will. Table manners are the most important thing for us in China. While observing these table rules, we also cultivate children's rules and habits. Some parents may ask, when will the training begin? In fact, it should be cultivated when children can eat by themselves, but parents can teach their children from the most basic tableware and bowls to help them develop the habit of using bowls.
Cultivate civilized habits from speaking.
From the day the child was born, he started the "crazy" learning mode. No matter what an adult says, he will answer with his only "eyah". At the stage of babbling, he began to learn the words and sentences he received, so the words "Thank you, please, I'm sorry …" will spread to the children's ears word for word from their parents. If parents are gentle and polite on weekdays, coupled with the influence of parent-child reading in the later period, children's language cultivation will certainly not be bad. If parents curse all day, children's language will be equally "vulgar".
Social habits of getting along well with others
Language is the basis of social communication between people. Now most parents have begun to attach importance to their children's social skills, such as whether they are gregarious in kindergarten, whether their children play with him, whether they will share food and fun with others, whether they will be bullied by others, and so on. This can directly reflect children's social skills. If the child's social skills are not good, parents and teachers should make correct guidance to guide him to get along with others, help others and learn to share. After a long time, he will naturally develop good social habits.
Cultivate work habits from dressing up.
Work habits should be cultivated from an early age. Now most families are children, and parents will take care of everything. They think that the baby is still young, the child grows up very hard, and they feel distressed that they study too hard, so they will do the little things in life. In this way, the child repeatedly loses the opportunity to do it himself, and it is difficult to cultivate his labor habits. Therefore, when children are young, they should start to exercise their labor habits by dressing themselves. Only in this way will he not "sit back and enjoy the success" when he grows up.
Children's habits can not be formed in one day, but under the patient guidance, reminder and supervision of parents. Therefore, if children are not "abandoned" by society when they grow up, parents should start to cultivate them from the details of childhood, so as not to find "regret medicine" to eat later.