1. Don't gossip.
Don't gossip is to cultivate "sit and think about yourself, gossip is not in people."
On a small scale, gossip is just a few words of gossip after dinner; To put it bluntly, gossip is to speculate and evaluate the low-quality performance of others at will.
As the saying goes: "The depth of the water is silent, the stability of people is silent, the heart is good, and the line is long."
Gossip about right and wrong can kill people without seeing blood, but if you live a lot, karma will come to you sooner or later.
The most basic accomplishment and kindness of a person is to keep his mouth shut and not gossip.
Because you never know what others have experienced, you are not qualified to gossip and judge behind your back.
Be a man, don't go with the flow, learn to be a wise man who doesn't listen to gossip and doesn't talk about other people's affairs.
Kind-hearted, cautious in words and deeds, and not gossiping are our wisdom in life and our lifelong practice.
mind your own business
Dickens said, "The best manners are to mind your own business".
Minding your own business is respect for others and a person's cultivation.
Stay away from things that are not important to you.
Being a man is not easy. Mind your own business and worry about hundreds of other people's things. You might as well do something yourself.
Focus on self-improvement and spend less time on other people's daily chores.
The world is big and colorful. Everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, respect others' choices, mind their own affairs and be themselves.
Because, you can only mind your own business!
Don't be idle.
Shen Congwen once said with emotion: "I am most afraid of leisure all my life, and when I am idle, I lose all the meaning of life."
As the saying goes, "idle people worry too much." What kind of person you are with, what kind of person you will become.
Not messing with idle people is a person's greatest self-discipline.
There is an old saying in China: "Idle people are worried, lazy people are sick, and busy people are happy." It is a blessing to take a break from your busy schedule, but people who are idle will be discouraged and may even become a disaster.
There is something to do every day, someone to love, a certain degree of relaxation, a combination of work and rest, and life has hope.
People, when they are busy, will forget their troubles, forget their age and forget their time.
People who are restless, full of life and happy have no time to get old, but their bodies will get younger and younger.
Walking in the world, you can relax and adjust yourself occasionally, but you can't be an idle person and neglect yourself.
Being busy can cure all troubles, and it is also the best way to keep fit in the world.