Now some so-called "Buddhist youths" are already depressed in their twenties, cautious, pessimistic and world-weary, or pretend to be superior. They have already seen through the clouds, dare not fight for anything, and call themselves Buddhists, and everything in the world has been put down. As far as I know, the Buddha himself was born as a prince, and he had a beautiful wife and concubine for a long time before he could talk about "seeing through". If he has nothing, he has never succeeded, how can he talk about "letting go"? In fact, nothing can't be put down, and nothing can't be put down. Only by striving hard can young people practice, and this is the "Buddha system" that should exist at this age.

When people are in their thirties and forties, that is, middle age, it is the golden age of all aspects of life, especially men-because they mature relatively late and the peak comes relatively late. Taoism believes that women have a cycle every seven years. At the age of seven, they are children; At the age of fourteen, they have menarche; At the age of twenty-one, they are at the best stage of pregnancy; At the age of 28, they reached the peak in all aspects; At the age of thirty-five, they began to decline; At the age of seven or four or nine, many people will go through menopause and then take care of themselves. Men take "eight years" as a cycle. At the age of eight, they were just sensible. You can be born in society at the age of sixteen. Twenty-four is the best age to be a father. At the age of thirty-two, they reached their peak, and then they began to enter old age at the age of fifty-six. So thirty or forty years old is the most important moment in life. Of course, there is also a lot of pressure, old and young, and work and family can't let go. The "pressure mountain" collapsed, so it is often said that middle-aged men are not as good as dogs, and so are women-and it is sad that their husbands are not good, and it is also a heart disease to be afraid of fooling around outside. The middle age of Buddhism should be to let go of those meaningless fetters and troubles, accept the responsibility of family and society, and move towards a higher stage of life through the release of the soul.

? No matter how good you are over 60 years old, you can't help but admit that you have reached the last stage of your life, and there are still a few people who can live to be over 100 years old. Physical and mental decline. I used to run a few kilometers, but now I may be panting on the fifth floor. There will be more and more people outside to make way for you, and children and even the third generation will fly away. Young couples are always together. When they are young, they feel bored, but when they are old, they become a habit. Once one of them leaves first, the rest will be so sad that they can't even find someone to quarrel with. This is the real moment of Buddhism. I have been busy for most of my life, fighting for fame and fortune, and fighting for various desires and goals. Now I have to learn how to let go of these external things, instead of being full of desires and ambitions like young people.

The so-called "Buddhism" of every age group has its own differences. When you are young, you should run with all your strength, not "speak hard for new words"; When you enter middle age, you must learn to find a balance between family and work; When you get old, you should learn to let go, stop having so many desires and persistence, and finish the last journey quietly, wisely and peacefully.

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