First of all, the relationship between husband and wife is good and the atmosphere of the whole family is good. It's better to hold a family meeting and tell our family that we have this plan. Talk about the benefits and threats to family members, and the whole family will make this decision with one voice. Don't sneak around, maybe the boss doesn't agree, or the lover is still considering divorce, saying that I want another child to keep my husband. It is best not to have a second child in a similar situation. It's very important for you to be prepared psychologically and at home to ensure the stability of your rear area.

2. Pre-pregnancy physical examination

The elderly should have a comprehensive physical examination before having a second child. Including measuring your height and weight, whether it meets a normal body mass index, basic blood pressure and blood sugar, and some tests, whether there are any deviations or dangerous situations, to find out what kind of physical condition you are, and then to see if it is suitable for pregnancy.

There are also some elderly people who may have fibroids, cysts and cervical lesions. With the increase of age, these diseases will occur. We should know what to do about it first. If these things really grow out, we should discuss with the doctor whether to have children or to have surgery first, to treat the disease first or not to have children. If all these are clarified, it will be easier to reduce the risk of pregnancy.