In fact, the so-called care is to pay with your heart and love your other half with your heart. In a sense, the intention mentioned here does not require much money, nor does it require much energy and cost. The value it wants to embody only exists in the bits and pieces of ordinary life.
For example, because of life reasons, I work outside all the year round and can only go home once every six months. Every time I go home, I keep my housework in order and don't let my lover get their hands on it again. Like getting up at dawn every morning to make breakfast, racking their brains to satisfy the tastes of their wives and children every time. Close the kitchen door gently every time you cook, for fear of waking your lover. After the meal is served, pour milk into the cup for the wife and children, squeeze toothpaste on the toothbrush for the wife and children, and then gently wake them up to have breakfast together. Every time I see them, I am very happy at work, school and school, let alone how happy I am.
After they left, I began to clean up the housework, wash clothes, mop the floor and so on, and then carefully prepared lunch and dinner, waiting for their mother to come back for dinner. In fact, life is like this. To put it bluntly, what I really care about is some trivial things that can no longer be dull. Many dull friends disdain to mention it. But it is these seemingly ordinary things that are the basis for a stable relationship and a long marriage.
Being away from home all the year round, WeChat and telephone have become common ways to contact family members. For example, when the weather turns cold at home, tell her that it is time to add clothes through contact at the first time. Don't forget your coat. Remind her to wear sunscreen in hot weather, drink more water in summer, don't drive too fast, pay attention to safety and so on. What is caring is actually seeing the truth in the ordinary.
What is a long-term love? My personal understanding is mutual tolerance, mutual understanding and mutual respect, just like these two old people. Love requires two people to run in, tolerate each other's shortcomings, and discover and affirm each other's advantages. It is said that long-term love is a sentimental thing, but I prefer that one party can accept the loneliness of the other and always insist on companionship. To put it bluntly, it is a long-term love to suffer hardships and experience poverty with you.