Why do old people nag? There are many situations in which the elderly nag. Generally speaking, it's not a psychological problem, so you don't need to see a psychiatrist. The elderly are a special group. They are lonely and talkative. As an old man, we should try our best to restrain ourselves. As the younger generation in the family, we should try our best to understand and not criticize easily? Why do you say so much? 、? Bored to death? This will cause tension in the family atmosphere, which is not conducive to family harmony.
However, if the old man's nagging is manifested as nagging all day, caring about other people's affairs, making his family restless and affecting the whole family, it is a psychological problem and should be treated with psychotherapy.
In addition, experts reminded that what happened to the old man's nagging? It may be caused by physical or mental decline, so try to understand them. There are three main reasons why the elderly love to nag:
1, the old man is too confident
Old people are sometimes overconfident, always treat adult children as children, or try their best to safeguard their dignity, repeatedly emphasize their own views, or like to blame others because of personality changes, which are signs that their psychology is beginning to age.
2. Old people are stubborn and conservative.
Stubborn and nostalgic? Nostalgia? Psychologically, it will cause the elderly to nag. Generally speaking, their memory of the past declines slowly, so they always like to talk about what happened in the past, like to talk about their own past, and show off their skills and honors when they were young.
3. The decline of brain tissue can easily lead to the nagging problem of the elderly.
Physiologically, especially the decline of brain tissue in the elderly, it is easy to cause nagging problems in the elderly. First of all, their memory of recent events has declined, which is manifested as? Before you forget, can you say something? You made it clear, but you forgot it when you said it. Remind me when you think about it or ask me again.
How to deal with the nagging of the elderly 1 To deal with the nagging of the elderly, we should persuade them to be optimistic about the present.
Old people should be advised not to think about unhappy things in the past, but to look forward and look at life now. As long as they are well fed and healthy, they are better than anything else.
2, to deal with the old man's nagging to understand the old man
Old people have good intentions, and they all want their children to have plenty of food and clothing and have no worries. Therefore, in daily life, they oppose waste. In this case, they will nag and not get angry. Understandable. After all, old people have a hard life, so just pay attention next time.
3. Learn to absorb the nagging of the elderly.
An old man is the epitome of life, and the experience inside is enough to benefit us all our lives and absorb it with our heart.
4. Travel in response to the nagging of the elderly.
If conditions permit, the younger generation can also accompany the elderly to go shopping, travel, visit parks, visit supermarkets and so on. Let the elderly feel the care of their children while traveling with them, and then melt their inner loneliness and loneliness. At the same time, it can also sweep away the psychological shadow of the elderly. Especially when traveling, the elderly will feel suddenly enlightened when they travel with their children and enjoy the lakes and mountains, which has obvious curative effect on curing the psychological loneliness of the elderly.
When dealing with the nagging of the elderly, let nature take its course.
It is also a natural phenomenon for old people to nag. Don't take it too personally, don't be angry, and don't be angry with old people. Think of it as the wind, let it blow gently and don't want to listen. You can find an excuse to go out for a walk and put it behind you.
6. Learn to listen to the old man's nagging.
As a junior, you should learn to calm down and listen to the nagging of the old man. Listen to what the old man is depressed about and what he is nagging about. Listening itself is a kind of psychological comfort to the elderly. Seeing a child listening to his (her) nagging, the old man will take his (her) nagging more seriously.
The benefits of old people's nagging 1. Old people's nagging makes them psychologically healthier.
The White House health care doctor once gave George W. Bush a secret recipe for decompression: speech therapy, communicating with his family at least once a week 15 hours; Couples communicate for at least two hours every day, including dinner or lunch. This secret recipe for decompression seems to be completely summed up in two words: nagging. By the same token, if the elderly don't like nagging or even talking every day, they always bury unhappy things in their hearts. Over time, it will become unable to eat and sleep, which will easily lead to the dysfunction of the nervous system's defense function and viscera, and allow diseases to take advantage of it, such as essential hypertension, cerebral arteriosclerosis, coronary heart disease and tumors. If faced with these unpleasant things, the old people can nag through simple and trivial language, which will help them release pressure and insecurity, and the potential depression will be released through language, making the old people healthier physically and mentally. In addition, whether it is nagging with family members or with outsiders, it shows that the elderly are willing to communicate with others and avoid being isolated from the outside world. This is a very healthy state of mind.
2. The nagging of the elderly makes the brain more flexible.
Every time the human brain speaks, it needs logical thinking and language refining organization. Talking more can stimulate brain cells, keep them active and excited, and effectively delay the aging process of the brain. The brain has a functional area dedicated to language processing. If you speak too little, the excitement of the area responsible for language will be weakened, which is not conducive to the healthy operation of the brain. Talking more can promote the development of these functional areas of the brain. Some old people always have nothing to say, which shows that their thinking is uninterrupted and they can avoid suffering from cognitive impairment to some extent.
3. Old people nag to delay aging
Frequent talkers can exercise the oral muscles and throat, help to keep the eustachian tube unobstructed, keep the pressure balance inside and outside the ear, have a health care effect on tinnitus and deafness, drive the eye muscles and trigeminal nerve to move when talking, and can also prevent presbyopia, senile cataract and vision loss.