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A couple of 60-year-olds in Guangdong committed suicide by jumping off a building. What should twins do?
Aunt Wen and her only son, Liu Yuejun, are 20 years old. According to Liu Weimin, Liu Shu's nephew, "Although Liu Yuejun doesn't study well, he can bear hardships in doing things." Wen Yi saved 200,000 yuan by scrimping and saving, and gave it all to him to start a business and set up a computer stall.

Liu Yuejun said, "Mom, the business has just started. When the business is done, I will work harder and earn more money. " I will buy you and dad new clothes and new furniture for our family! "

Aunt Wen's eyes were red and she said, "Mom, as long as we are together, we are not afraid of hard times." Under the shabby house, several people lived hard, and the windows didn't even have curtains. But as a family, we can support each other when we are in trouble. Thanks to Liu Yuejun's efforts, the business of computer stalls is booming and gradually improving. The family lives a happy and hopeful life. Until 1990, an accident took Liu Yuejun's life.

The news of the death of Liu Yuejun, a twin baby born after the death of a 60-year-old man, fell on the old couple like a heavy hammer. Aunt Wen cried in the house for many days, and her black hair turned white when she came out. When Liu Wei saw Wen Yi, he hardly recognized the white-haired old woman in front of him. Later, when interviewed by the media, Wen Yi said with red eyes: "After my son died, no one called me' mom' so sweetly."

She wants a child and wants to hear the child call "mom" again. Aunt Wen is old and basically menopausal. The only way to have another child is to try IVF.

However, IVF costs a lot. After the death of Wen Yi's son, the poor family was even more embarrassed and unfit to raise children. Everyone around me has tried. Liu Shu's eldest brother disapproved of it. He advised Wen Yi, "You are so old, don't regenerate." Wen Yi replied firmly: "You must be born, but you can't live without it! Without this child, this family would be incomplete! " Liu Shu looked at his grizzled and haggard wife, gave a long sigh and decided to support her.

Life in Wen Yi and Liu Shu is not rich. Wen Yi has sold coal for more than 20 years, while Liu Shu is a worker with a low salary. In addition, Wen Yi's 200,000 savings were all given to his son to start a business. His son died unexpectedly, and 200,000 did not return to his hometown, making his family even more difficult. Under such circumstances, Wen Yi chose to be a test-tube baby, and the test-tube baby spent all the savings of the old couple.

In August 2002, when reporter Shi Lei met Wen Yi, she was pregnant, but she had no scruples about pregnant women and even stood barefoot on the ground. Shi Lei saw her hunched over, carrying a gas tank, struggling to climb the stairs and delivering gas tanks door to door.

Sweat has soaked her clothes, and she said, "As long as you hear the child call me' Mom' again, it's all worth it." Before the baby was born, Wen Yi's face was always cheerful, and even Liu Shu smiled for a long time. Liu Yuejun's death still weighs heavily on her mind like a mountain. But the baby in the belly rekindled the hope of life. Through this pair of children, they also temporarily got rid of the grief of losing their independence.

On June 8th, 2002, 10, Aunt Wen successfully gave birth to twins. When the child was born, Wen Yi looked at the child as if she saw Liu Yuejun who had left her.

The old couple couldn't help laughing. They didn't fully understand that the birth of a child not only brought them joy, but also brought them heavier responsibilities. And they are pregnant with twins, which means they spend more money and energy than raising a child.

Behind the rags, in order to raise children, the contradiction of poverty is getting more and more serious, which is hard to ignore. Money is not everything, but you can't do anything without money.

His nephew Xiao Xie said, "All the furniture was picked up by neighbors and given to them. There are no curtains at home, only a piece of cloth hangs in front of the bedroom window. I have no money to buy new clothes for my children. My neighbors look at their embarrassment and donate more than a dozen new clothes to them every year. "

Aunt Wen and Uncle Liu underestimated the pressure brought by poverty. When Aunt Wen was pregnant with children with hope, it never occurred to her that their financial situation could no longer provide a good environment for their children.

When Wen Yi and Liu Shu wanted this child, they were eager to get compensation for the loss of the child. They didn't think so much at all. This brought poverty to children beyond their expectations and broke the original balance of life.

At the beginning of raising twins, Wen Yi and Liu Shu were too optimistic about the spending of money. People can't completely fall into despair in poverty, but they can't be too optimistic. Children's homework has become a big problem because they have no money to tutor their children and no academic qualifications.

Aunt Wen cried and said, "It's our fault that we can't train them both well." Liu Shu comforted her, but with a textbook like a child's gobbledygook in his hand, reality and the mountain of poverty were in their hearts.

In the process of raising a child by jumping off a building, there are not only external economic pressures, but also psychological pressures brought by the child's own rebellion to the old couple. The internal and external troubles have offset the joy brought by the child. They tried to save money, but to no avail.

On February 7th, 20 12, the old couple went to the neighborhood committee to find a suitable place for their two children. The two men finally realized soberly that they were incapable of raising children. What scares them even more is that the neighborhood Committee has not accepted it, life is still going on, and the two children still need to be raised and cannot turn back.

Getting old day by day, getting weak day by day, whether it is the economy, or your own energy and physical strength, you can only see despair in the future. They can no longer bear the increasing pressure of not raising their children well. Finally, I chose to end my life in the early morning.

Where should the twins go? Finally, Xu Xizhou, director of the Western Zhou Education Research Institute, adopted two children and promised to take care of them through high school and their daily lives. In the subsequent psychological consultation, my sister wrote on the paper: "Mom and Dad, don't worry, I am very happy now, and many people care about me. You can go with peace of mind. "

The younger brother wrote, "Mom and Dad, why did you leave? Why didn't you tell us when you left? Where have you been? You tell us, and we will be relieved. " The content on the paper is painful. Two young children lost their parents, but they were forced to say goodbye to their parents before they fully understood the meaning of death. These two children, who once thought Aunt Wen's cooking was not delicious and Uncle Liu didn't know English, are still thinking about their parents.

A few days later, Director Xu boiled eggs for two children. When he learned that he could eat eggs every day in the future, his younger brother obviously showed a happy expression: "I can eat my mother every day in the future!" " Such a sudden sentence puzzled everyone present. "Do you know my mother's nickname is egg?" Sister smiled and explained to everyone.

After learning of the tragedy, my brother cried badly, but my sister didn't shed a tear. When I came to my new home, my sister also forbade my brother to mention what happened at home. Now we are relieved to see that the two of them are gradually returning to normal.