I'm going to visit an elder who is also my leader. I hope to get help, because I have no experience.
Military leaders have a good relationship with you, which shows that people appreciate you very much. Make an appointment with the leaders to take their families out for dinner, go to a restaurant with a better environment, and bring a gift casually, indicating that it is good. Don't bring too much, don't bring alcohol and tobacco, and it is best to bring a special gift.