In this difficult time, as a child, we must give our parents a lot of care and comfort. If you don't live with your parents, you must call WeChat more and tell your parents to respond to the government's call, don't go out less, and wear a mask when you go out. I believe that under the strong leadership of the party and with the joint efforts of the people of the whole country, we will definitely overcome the epidemic and return to a normal life track as soon as possible!
Different emotional energies need to be allowed to exist, clearly seen and guided out of the body in an appropriate way. Usually, when people channel others' emotions, the most common misunderstanding is that when others have negative emotions, they are eager to turn them into positive emotions, because the recipients can't bear it at this time. However, once negative emotions are generated, they will inevitably show for a period of time and will not be released until they are accommodated and understood. Moving too early and too fast will make the old man feel that you don't understand him, and he will be more angry. Usually, if you listen attentively to their fears, anger and sadness, their mood will be much better after about half an hour. Some old people can speak better, and four hours is the limit. For those elderly people who speak very well, they can ask community social workers and psychological counselors for help and guidance.
How to reduce the time that parents watch TV? It is best to take your parents for a walk, and outsiders will naturally have a balanced mood. Remote people will call their parents, video, recommend some health care, and change their negative information into other topics. For example, show some interesting positive energy videos about the epidemic they are concerned about, or other series, or drag them to play Pinduoduo and ask them to canvass for your child's WeChat. If parents can create some works of art, whether it is short videos, calligraphy and painting, handicrafts, etc. You can encourage them to make their own voices, and you can help them open a Tik Tok number if you have the ability. In this way, you first consume their time of exposure to negative information and make their lives more interesting. This is a radical measure.
If parents just want to watch negative news on TV, all they need to do is vent and listen more. If you are really angry, invite them to hit the pillow and tear up the most angry thing on paper. This time is not easy for middle-aged people, because they are still affected by emotions, and it is really difficult to capture the emotions of parents and children. Therefore, after grasping their emotions, middle-aged people can go back and talk to their counselors and partners, or find ways to guide them themselves. After all, you are a "back wave" and there are more ways to divert your attention than old people can think of.
Finally, I want to say: no matter old people, middle-aged people or children, when we stay somewhere to accept negative emotions, it may actually be that we have nowhere to go and have no choice. If there is a better choice in life, no one will want to stay in that uncomfortable place. Because human nature naturally pursues a relaxed, beautiful, calm and loving life, we are all trying to create this kind of life and invite those who are trapped in one place to go out for a walk.
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How to appease parents' emotions during the epidemic? This friend is really a filial person. He can see the negative emotions in his parents' daily life, and his mind is delicate. I think your family must be a happy family.
The epidemic is so serious that it has caused trauma to everyone. Especially those families who have lost their loved ones, they are also living in dire straits. Every organization, every family and everyone's thoughts in our country are inevitably affected.
Many people feel the same as your parents, including me. At first, I thought Sass was coming, but then I left slowly and didn't care. Then I began to pay attention. I am anxious, worried and scared, and I can't sleep at night. I've been checking the number of confirmed cases, deaths and various measures taken by the state.
Everyone has basically experienced this process. Because your parents are relatively old, their sense of responsibility to society, including their feelings for the country, is also different. They are worried about the country and the people, because the whole country has pressed the pause button, and the economic shutdown has to pay a high price for anti-epidemic and epidemic prevention.
This feeling is still common among the older middle-aged and elderly people, because we love this country deeply, and we can do nothing for it except stay at home and be isolated from the world.
Therefore, Professor Zhang Wenhong said: Each of you is a soldier. Staying at home for two weeks will suffocate the virus, which is a contribution to the country. I think your parents must feel this way.
Chat with them at home, talk all over the world, do what you can at home, kill time and enrich your life. You can also express your love for your parents, including your plans and expectations for your future life, so that they can feel at ease and feel that our life will be full of hope after the epidemic has passed.
Everything will be fine. I firmly believe that everything will be fine, including your family and your parents.