A friend, who didn't have surgery for intestinal cancer, felt that there was no quality of life after operation, and he had been treated conservatively, because it was in the advanced stage when he was diagnosed, and he died about a year later. I was 30 years old that year.
A friend with lung cancer was about 36 years old when he was diagnosed. I don't know how he got lung cancer (I think it has something to do with his mood). After the operation, he received chemotherapy. At present, he is in good health and his mentality is really important.
Thyroid cancer, which belongs to "love cancer" in cancer, returned to the workplace after 1 year of treatment and recuperation. At present, it is in good health and is nursed back to health by Chinese medicine.
Sick people, when recalling the reasons for their illness, the influence of work stress and emotion are mentioned.
The dead friend was not feeling well until he was diagnosed. During that time, her parents were hospitalized at the same time, and eventually one was discharged and the other died. She has to take care of two old people, so it's hard to imagine, and she can feel it.
It's not that an optimistic person won't get sick, but that he is already sick and actively treated. There is still a chance for active treatment. If it is negative, it will be a dead end.
As we all know, in most people's minds, cancer is one of the incurable diseases in the world. Everyone talks about cancer and turns pale, fearing cancer like a tiger. As soon as I heard that I had cancer, I lost half my life and sentenced myself to death first, which is one of the reasons why some old people deliberately hide it after diagnosis.
Therefore, there is a saying in society that most cancer patients do not die of illness, but are scared to death. This statement is a bit one-sided, but it does make sense. It's false to know that you have cancer, but it's no use looking back and being afraid. Fear is a kind of death, and it will die faster. Maybe I can live for a few more days, just actively treat it.
Therefore, having a positive and optimistic attitude does not mean that it can replace treatment, but it is more conducive to cooperation with treatment and rehabilitation. There are many such examples in reality, even some extreme cases. A case in which patients with advanced cancer live optimistically day by day and give up traveling for three to five years after treatment.
However, we should not advocate giving up treatment unless there is no therapeutic significance or economic restrictions.
The correct attitude should be to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, actively cooperate with scientific treatment, try to be calm and abandon fear, because many cancers are not incurable, but can be cured.