But having a baby is not a simple thing.
The older the mother is, the higher the risk of having a child, which will not only increase the risk of congenital malformation of the child, but also increase the chance of miscarriage.
In theory, once you are over 35 years old, the chances of pregnancy failure will greatly increase.
Even if the pregnancy is successful, the probability of child deformity will be more than twice as high as that of school-age women.
Although this teratogenic probability is not high, even if it is doubled, it is very low, but such data proves that there are indeed many risks in old-age childbirth.
In the existing cases of elderly birth at home and abroad, the elderly women around 50 years old account for the vast majority.
Even at this age, being able to successfully conceive and have children is already a major event that can make news.
The old woman's name is Tian Xinju. She was 67 years old when she gave birth, and she was old enough to be a grandmother.
Many families who have children early have great grandchildren even at this age.
However, Tian Xinju gave birth to a healthy baby at this age, which aroused the amazement of the medical community and the public.
Why did she choose to have a baby at 67? What's the story?
Speaking of the origin of this child, it is actually an unexpected joy.
Before the baby was born, Tian Xinju and her husband Huang Weiping had been living a dull and happy life.
Tian Xinju is a doctor in the Maternal and Child Health Hospital. Her husband Huang Weiping is one year older than her and is a lawyer.
Their professional income is not low, so their lives have been relatively happy. They gave birth to a son and a daughter when they were young.
Now all the children are married and have two granddaughters.
Tian Xinju and Huang Weiping usually live around their little granddaughter.
The little granddaughter was in junior high school at that time. Because parents are busy at work, Tian Xinju and Huang Weiping take care of the children.
The two old people are responsible for the little granddaughter's school, food and shelter.
Although a little busy, in the eyes of the two old people, this is also a kind of family happiness.
What the two old people didn't expect was that such a dull but happy life would be completely disrupted by the arrival of a child.
On 20 19, Tian Xinju found that she was not feeling well.
At that time, Tian Xin Ju didn't pay special attention, because four years ago, she had such physical discomfort.
It was because of high blood pressure that I felt weak and had difficulty walking. After taking Chinese medicine for a while, it's much better.
As Tian Xinju is a doctor herself, she knows a little about it.
So this time, she guessed that, like last time, she took the initiative to go to the hospital and prescribe some drugs for promoting blood circulation and removing blood stasis to eat at home.
After taking the medicine for a few days, Tian Xinju not only didn't get better, but felt more and more unwell.
One day she even found some bleeding in her lower body.
This frightened the two old people. They doubted whether Tian Xin Chrysanthemum would get any serious illness, so they hurried to the hospital for examination.
The results of the examination surprised everyone, even the doctors-Tian Xinju was pregnant!
When Tian Xinju first heard the inspection results, she repeatedly called it "impossible".
Because she is a doctor, she knows that the older a woman is, the lower the probability of natural pregnancy.
What's more, I have been menopausal for many years, and it is impossible to conceive a child long ago.
However, the results of B-ultrasound are irrefutable. The doctor even saw the gestational sac and was 100% sure that Tian Xinju was pregnant.
Knowing the news, the two old people looked at each other and didn't know what to do at the moment.
After giving birth to a son and a daughter, the two old people no longer have the desire to have children voluntarily.
Now I have a third offspring. Should this unexpected child give up or stay?
At first, Tian Xinju thought that children could not stay.
Because Tian Xinju is too old, 67 years old is especially dangerous for children and pregnant women.
The child may be born deformed, and Tian Xinju may be in danger during childbirth.
Especially considering that Tian Xinju had a cerebral infarction on 20 18.
Although the treatment is timely and the prognosis is good, with such a body, it is difficult to guarantee that Tian Xinju will not have any accidents when giving birth to a child.
Tian Xinju's husband, Huang Weiping, said that if his wife is healthy, it will be better to have a baby.
In Huang Weiping's view, he is 68 years old and his wife is 67 years old.
At this age, they can even get a offspring through natural pregnancy, which is a gift from God.
What's more, the child has already formed in the stomach, and it is also a small life. If objective conditions permit, being born is the best choice.
The couple disagreed, so the matter was not decided on the spot.
Because the child is still young, Huang Weiping suggested that the two should go home first, and then observe the situation for a period of time before making a final decision.
When the two old people came home and looked at the home where they had lived for decades, they suddenly felt different.
After entering the old age, the lives of the two old people are very happy, but they are somewhat rigid.
Before leaving this home, they were still worried about whether Tian Xinju had a big problem.
Now back home, Tian Xinju's stomach has been confirmed to have a new life.
Such a small accident made Huang Wei and Heping Tian Xinju feel that life suddenly felt a little surprised.
In this way, the couple spent some time at home.
During this period, Huang Weiping took care of his wife everywhere, as if he had returned to the time when he gave birth to his first child when he was young.
During this period, Tian Xinju and Huang Weiping still haven't reached an agreement, but Tian Xinju's view on children has been slowly changing.
The feeling of giving birth to new life is not new to Tian Xinju.
However, the last time I had a baby was many years ago. Now the baby in her belly makes Tian Xinju feel as if she were a few decades younger.
At the same time, to Tian Xinju's surprise, her body is getting stronger with the arrival of this life.
Tian Xinju had a cerebral infarction before, as well as hypertension, diabetes and arthritis. These senile diseases have been bothering her.
However, after having a child, Tian Xinju's hypertension miraculously became normal, and the arthritis that once tortured her gradually ceased to be painful.
Tian Xinju used to grab the handrail next to her when she went upstairs and downstairs.
Now Tian Xinju can go up and down five floors in one breath without having a rest at all.
Tian Xinju's experience can be explained scientifically.
Because in the process of pregnancy, estrogen and progesterone in the human body will increase, greatly improving the health of pregnant women.
This is probably produced in the process of human evolution, which protects individuals who are about to give birth to the next generation.
It is also recognized as one of the only advantages of older women in academic circles, that is, "it can delay the aging of older women to a certain extent."
With this experience, Tian Xinju has greatly changed this unexpected little life.
She also began to agree that this little life may be a gift from God in her husband's mouth.
Finally, the two decided to give birth to this child.
What they think is that they have reached retirement age anyway, and the usual pension is enough to support a child.
At the same time, they also decided that since both of them thought it was a gift from heaven, they would name the child "Huang Tianci".
After making the most important decision in life, the two old people breathed a sigh of relief and prepared to have a baby and welcome the arrival of a new life.
But what they didn't expect was that this decision caused unanimous dissatisfaction among their children.
Before this little life, Tian Xinju and Huang Weiping had a son and a daughter.
At this time, their children are over forty years old, and they all have their own children.
The children that the two old people are looking after now are their little granddaughter who went to junior high school, and the eldest granddaughter is now in college.
Such a family structure is very common, but as long as Tian Xinju's little life is born into this world, the harmony of this family may be broken.
At that time, the children of the two old people will be in their forties before they can welcome such a younger brother or sister.
This little guy is even younger than their own daughter.
Therefore, the children of the two old people think that this situation is really outrageous, and others will laugh at it.
Children not only care about fame, but also consider the reality of the two old people.
Huang Weiping's body is not bad, but Tian Xinju's body has many chronic diseases.
If a child is born at the age of 67, it's hard to say when the two old people's bodies can be sustained.
Once the children are underage, the two old people will be embarrassed at home in a hundred years.
It is unacceptable for the children of two old people to raise a small life again when they are in their forties.
Because of this problem, Tian Xinju and Huang Weiping have many conflicts with their children.
At the worst time, children don't even associate with two old people.
Children have their own opinions, which the two old people have long expected, but they didn't expect children to have such big opinions.
What saddens them even more is that on one occasion, their children even threatened themselves with the statement that "if we give birth to this child, we will sever the parent-child relationship".
For a time, this originally happy family became fragmented because of the arrival of a new life.
After this contradiction lasted for some time, the two old people made a final decision after careful consideration.
They think parents should decide whether to have children, not children.
Since the children think that giving birth to this child will make the family relationship tense, so they want to sever the parent-child relationship with themselves, let them go.
The child in the belly enjoys the same rights as the child already born.
Brothers and sisters cannot have the right to decide their lives just because they came to this world earlier than brothers and sisters.
Regarding the concerns of their children, the two old people also said that the pension is sufficient and will not disturb their children.
After making such a decision, the two old people began to actively contact the hospital to protect the fetus and devote themselves to giving birth to children.
Knowing the firm beliefs of the two elderly people, the hospital also expressed its support for the elderly.
Due to special circumstances, the hospital also sent full-time staff to set up online groups to get in touch with the elderly and be ready to help them.
Relevant medical experts are also required to provide guidance for the elderly and help them raise their babies with peace of mind.
Be pregnant in October and give birth once.
In a blink of an eye, the time came to 20 19 10, which is also the best production opportunity arranged by the hospital and the two elderly people.
2019101October 25th is Huang Tianci's birthday.
On this day, in order to ensure the smooth production of Tian Xinju, Huang Weiping came to the hospital with Tian Xinju, who was pregnant for one month, and made a detailed examination.
The examination results prove that the fetus is healthy, and Tian Xinju is in stable physical condition and can give birth to a child.
However, Tian Xinju is old after all, and natural production is dangerous. The old couple chose caesarean section.
When Tian Xinju walked into the operating room, Huang Weiping felt anxious and afraid outside the operating room:
Although the children were born together by husband and wife, at first, they persuaded their wives to make such a decision.
Once there are any problems in the production process, it is hard for Huang Weiping to forgive himself if his wife or children have a good thing.
Fortunately, the operation went well. Not long after, the doctor informed Huang Weiping of a great piece of good news, which made Huang Weiping overjoyed-the mother and daughter were safe, and the fetus was very healthy, a girl weighing 5 kg.
At this moment, Huang Wei put aside all his worries and looked forward to the reunion with his wife and little daughter.
After a period of aftercare in the hospital, the physical condition of Tian Xinju and her children has been guaranteed.
Both husband and wife took their children home, and after many years, they began to raise their babies again.
The two old people have their own ideas about how to raise their children.
When they were young, the two old people did not pay much attention to nutrition and health care when raising their children.
But when Huang Tianci was born, the two old people had been paying attention to their health for many years.
They began to provide their children with a good life as much as possible by keeping healthy.
Tian Xinju tries her best to breastfeed her children, because this is the most natural way, and only in rare cases will children be allowed to drink milk powder.
At the age of three or four months, children began to resist milk powder and only drank breast milk.
So Tian Xinju began to gradually add complementary food to help children adapt to the normal eating environment.
When the child has a bad appetite, Tian Xinju will use her doctor's common sense to cook some hawthorn tea for the child.
When the child grows up, Tian Xinju basically stops feeding.
On weekdays, Huang Weiping does cooking, feeding the children and all kinds of housework.
Although Huang Weiping is very old, he is good at all these jobs.
In his eyes, his wife gave birth to such a good child for herself and suffered the pain of pregnancy for many months, so it is natural to make corresponding compensation.
In the backyard of the house, the two old people also planted many vegetables.
This was originally a couple's pastime, but after the child was born, this vegetable garden became the origin of the child's diet.
The vegetables you grow are the safest, without any pesticides.
Therefore, as long as vegetables can be planted in the backyard, Huang Wei Pingtian New House basically won't buy outside vegetables for children to eat.
When cooking, the couple also remember to eat less oil and salt, basically do not put monosodium glutamate, and do everything possible to ensure the healthy growth of children under the feeding of natural ingredients.
Although family life is very tired, Huang Weiping didn't give up his job.
Every working day, Huang Weiping will take Tian Xinju and her children to work in a law firm.
As soon as he entered the law firm, Huang Weiping changed his role as a peerless nanny at home and became a professional and experienced lawyer.
Receive the client in the office of the law firm, listen to the client's statement and provide the best help for the client.
At this time, Tian Xinju will take her children to the back room of the office to rest.
Because of Huang Weiping's special situation, the law firm specially arranged an office for him.
In this way, he can take his wife and children to work without worrying about his family, and Tian Xinju can take care of the children in the back room without being disturbed.
In the face of media interviews, Huang Weiping also admitted that such a life would be a little tired.
But due to good health, this level of fatigue is nothing now.
Children still have a lot to go in the future. Although the two old people have a lot of pensions, it is difficult to guarantee that they can always be used for the growth of their children.
Therefore, Huang Weiping decided to earn as much money as his energy allowed.
At the same time, Huang Weiping also said with a smile, that doesn't mean he doesn't care about his health. Every day, he takes time off to exercise for a while and tries to live to 1 10. He not only wants to see Huang Tianci grow up, but also wants to see him get married.
However, he also said in the interview that the couple have reached a consensus on Huang Tianci's future, and they will make a will before their death to ensure their children's subsequent growth.
It is not easy to live such a busy but dull life.
Many netizens expressed their blessings to Tian Xinju, and some netizens swore at each other, making Tian Xinju and his wife feel very sad.
Especially when the child proposes to sever the parent-child relationship, netizens are also divided into two factions, some in favor and some against it.
During that time, maybe it was because of pregnancy, or maybe Tian Xin Ju was too concerned about other people's opinions. She often loses her temper at home.
Whenever this time, Huang Weiping will tolerate Tian Xinju and try to comfort her so that she doesn't care about online opinions.
On the other hand, how to deal with the contradiction with their children is also a thorn in the old couple's mind.
Although it has always been said that "if they want to sever the parent-child relationship, let them go", the family relationship of more than 40 years will not be easily cut off because of such a sentence.
Although Tian Xinju said nothing, Huang Weiping could still see that his wife really wanted to restore normal relations with her children.
Fortunately, shortly after Huang Tianci was born, the children of the two old people gradually became less tough.
The child has been born, and no matter how the child opposes it, the fact cannot be changed.
It may also be based on this idea that the children of the elderly began to gradually restore their past communication with their parents.
Half a year has passed, and this family has basically recovered its happiness and warmth.
The sons and daughters of the elderly often come to the elderly to laugh with the young Huang Tianci.
The eldest daughter in college and the youngest daughter in junior high school often play God-given.
Although Huang Tianci is a generation older than them, in their view, this is just a lovely little sister.
At a family gathering, the children of the two old people even admitted to their parents that Huang Tianci was their good sister no matter what happened in the future. If parents can't take care of Huang Tianci in the future, they can take care of the children, and they will certainly live up to the expectations of the two old people.
Hearing the children's words, Tian Xinju and Huang Weiping were very moved, and the family raised their glasses to celebrate reconciliation.
In order to give back to the goodwill of netizens, two old people, Huang Wei and Ping Tian Xinju, recently opened accounts on social platforms and often recorded short videos or live broadcasts to show their children's recent situation.
20211kloc-0/October 25th, two old people, Huang Wei and Heping Tian Xinju, had a live birthday broadcast with their 2-year-old baby.
In the video, you can see the elaborate birthday arrangements behind it. Little Tianci wore a yellow hat and smiled happily.
Now Huang Tianci is over two years old. He looks dignified and strong, and he can also say simple words.
Every time I appear in front of the camera, I will attract the audience to shout cuteness, and therefore become the dry daughter of many netizens on the Internet.
The old man's eldest daughter has also become a crazy girl. She not only often buys clothes and toys, but also takes time to look after them.
In the following days, Huang Tianci may grow up slowly under everyone's gaze, and Tian Xinju and Huang Weiping are also healthy.
I hope they can continue to live such a happy life in the future and live up to this gift from God.