The relationship between family and blood is also inseparable. In the eyes of the ancients, there are essential differences between biological children and adopted children. At that time, people thought that only flesh and blood relatives could have true feelings for themselves and their families, and their property could only be inherited by relatives, but no matter how good the relationship was, it didn't work. People are people with social attributes and natural attributes. However, in the matter of raising offspring, everyone has it, and even the requirements of nature are the requirements of thinking and life. The ancients emphasized the need to provide for the elderly, and their children should provide for their parents and elders when they are old. Therefore, in some people's minds, it is particularly important to carry on the family line. It is often said that there are three kinds of unfilial, and none of them is the biggest. We can easily understand how important it is for China people to have offspring. With the needs of development, the state has also begun to encourage people to carry out healthy, scientific and developable family planning. This requirement is naturally aimed at the public, but not all. The ideal birth target is of course young, energetic and promising young people, or a small number of middle-aged groups.
This will not only greatly improve the physical quality of pregnant children, but also ensure their development and study. But there are always exceptions in the world. This article tells the story of such an old man giving birth to offspring. Unfortunately, Sheng Hailin lost her only daughter when she was nearly 60 years old. For various reasons, she gave up adoption. She broke through all obstacles and finally gave birth to a pair of twin sisters at the age of 60.
Sheng Hailin who still insists on giving birth over 60 years old.
You may not know much about families who have lost their families. These unfortunate middle-aged and elderly people are doomed when they are about to enter a happy old age. Most of the families of their generation are only children, and children are the only hope of a family, but for those unfortunate families, this only hope is difficult to maintain. In 2009, Sheng Hailin's only daughter Tingting just got married and happily returned to her husband's hometown with her husband. On May 5 of the same year, his gas leaked and Tingting died of poisoning. This is a short and tragic marriage, but it is a disaster that Tingting's parents can't accept.
At that time, mother Sheng Hailin was almost 60 years old and her husband was old. The only daughter passed away like this. Apart from sadness, they have to think about their future life. Although they have retired and don't need to rush about for their lives, their home suddenly becomes empty. Thinking of how happy their daughter was when she was still alive, Sheng Hailin suddenly had an idea that she wanted another child. At first, the couple decided to adopt or adopt a child, but they all failed for various reasons. In Sheng Hailin's mind, she still wants to have a child by herself more or less, but from her age, we can easily see that such an idea is not practical.
Sheng Hailin, 60, has been menopausal for five or six years, which is not an ideal method in terms of safety or success probability. However, as time went on, her idea of having a second child became stronger and stronger, and her relatives and friends around her were also very sensible to persuade her not to try these dangerous behaviors easily. After all, even though she is in good health and knows a lot of medical knowledge, it is difficult to do this without scientific planning and the help of professional medical institutions. However, Sheng Hailin's mind is very firm. She felt that she should try it whenever possible. Finally, after seeking help from many parties, she found a reproductive center in Hefei, where there are many authoritative experts.
It also has the most professional equipment and medical facilities. Since Sheng Hailin herself was engaged in medical work when she was young, it is normal for her to obtain these resources. Her persistence also touched the staff and experts in the organization. After repeated confirmation, she started the pregnancy preparation plan and made a complete IVF plan for her, but before that, she still needs to adjust her body to the physical standard suitable for pregnancy.
Either way, it is more dangerous for people her age. However, after three months of physical conditioning, she actually reached the institutional indicators. It may be that Sheng Hailin is in good health, or that she is too eager to have a child, which subjectively affects her health. After health examination, she finally had this extremely valuable opportunity to try.
From June 5438 to October 2009 10, Sheng Hailin finally waited for her dream to come true. After a long period of preparation, her pregnancy operation was finally carried out. During the operation, Sheng Hailin was transplanted with three pregnant embryos. A few months later, one of them died and the other two developed successfully. On May 25th, 20 10, about 40 days before the due date, Sheng Hailin gave birth to a pair of twin daughters, named Zhi Zhi and Hui Hui.
At the age of 60, she became the oldest parturient in China at that time, which not only broke the domestic record but also successfully attracted a lot of attention. Both the public and the media paid too much attention to her during that time. Most of them wanted to know how to give birth to a healthy baby at such an age. Many families who lost their children like her were more interested in her experience. But her answer is to advise most people not to try easily at this age. After all, they have rich medical knowledge, very healthy body and good wealth foundation. Even so, I'm not 100% sure, so I don't recommend all families who have lost their independence to try this method.
10 years ago, a 60-year-old widowed woman refused to listen to dissuasion and insisted on giving birth to twins. What's her current situation? However, after giving birth to two babies, life is not as happy as expected. When I was old, my husband didn't have enough energy to take care of the baby, so I had to ask for a new moon. Because of the birth of the baby, the old people with pensions don't want to be as rich as before. Various expenses are a great pressure on the two retired old people. But this is really just the beginning. In the future, children will spend more on school and education. Without some savings, these things can't be taken care of at all.
Since then, in order to increase his income, Sheng Hailin, who has retired, had to hold some health talks to increase his financial income and subsidize his family. In those years when the children were full of energy, it was a torment for the two old people. They have to work, and they have to face those trivial things when they get home. Not long after, her husband fell ill because of a stroke, leaving her alone at home. She needs to take care of her children and her husband's illness. This makes Sheng Hailin, who is already very tired, even more unbearable, but how can she give up when she has reached this step?
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When someone asked her how she felt now, her answer was very tired. If she was given another chance to choose, she wouldn't try it so easily. I have to say that for an old man like her, it is not just a short-term test to choose to raise children again, but a very long test process that not everyone can easily bear.