The book of the sage, which teaches people sincere filial piety, prudence and fame, has also been prepared. When Wei and Jin Dynasties came, they all held hundred schools of thought, each with its own emphasis, giving each other an example effect and putting a ear on the bed. The reason why I came back to this place today is that I dare not follow the example of the world, clean up the door and tear up my children and grandchildren. Husband believes in the same words and believes in his loved ones; Walk with the same life and do what you serve. It is better to forbid boys' violence and banter than to give orders from Fu's handmaid. To stop the dispute between mortals, the way of Yao and Shun is not as good as the teaching of widowed wives. I hope this book is believed by you, Cao Cao, and it is more virtuous than Fu Maid's widowhood.
Morality and doctrine in my family are all about integrity. In the past, I was tempted to teach; Every time I follow my two brothers, Xiao Xi is warm. Rules, words and colors, wings and wings, if strict. Give excellent words, ask what is good, encourage short lead long, and be sincere. At the age of nine, at tea, at home. The kind brother raised and raised, and he worked hard; Kindness without power leads to irrelevance. Although I read the book of rites and biographies, I love essays very much, which is quite tainted by ordinary people. I want to speak softly and don't want to cut my profits. At the age of eighteen or nineteen, I know very little, and I learn naturally, which is hard to wash away. Twenty years later, it is greater than sparse; Every constant heart * * * enemy, sex and love compete, night feeling is small, today regrets yesterday's loss, self-pity, and even self-pity. Recalling the fingers of the past and remembering the bones is not a commandment of ancient books, but also an eye. So, I left these twenty articles, thinking that you are Cao's people.
No.2 wenjiaozi
Wisdom is made without teaching, although it is useless to teach fools, the moderate people do not know without teaching. The ancient holy king had the method of prenatal education: pregnant in the third month, leaving his palace, seeing no evil, hearing nothing, and listening with courtesy. The jade edition of this book contains all the essentials of the golden chamber. The child coughs, and the teacher Bao Gu understands filial piety, benevolence, propriety and righteousness, and guides the ambition of Xi. Where ordinary people can't do anything, when it comes to infants and young children, we should understand people's colors and emotions, so we should teach them, and if we can, we should stop them. Compared with a few years older, you can save punishment. Parents are dignified and kind, and children are timid and filial. I see the world, there is love without teaching, and everyone can't; Eating and drinking, doing whatever you want, should be forbidden and rewarded, should be ridiculed and laughed at, and should be knowledgeable. This is called the law. If you are arrogant and slow to learn, you will copy, and if you have no prestige, you will be killed. When anger grows, they will increase resentment, catch up with growth, and eventually be defeated. Confucius said, "small people succeed, and habit becomes nature." As the saying goes, "when a woman is new here, she will teach her baby." Sincere and sincere!
People who can't teach their children don't want to be trapped in their own sins; But it's not just great anger Hurt its color, can't bear to hurt its skin, hurt its ears. How can Andrew be saved when the disease is an Oracle without the help of decoction? Can those who should also be diligent and thrifty treat their own flesh and blood cruelly? If necessary.
Mrs. Wei, my mother, is very solemn; When Wang was in Cannes, he was a general of three thousand people. He is over forty years old, and he is not satisfied. He is still sighing, so he can be his meritorious service. When Emperor Yuan Liang was in power, there was a bachelor who was smart and talented, loved by his father and lost his education: in a word, he was always famous on the road; If you make a mistake in one line, slap the Tibetan ornaments and hope that they will correct themselves. When I got married in 2008, I was suddenly slow, but I didn't choose words, which made Zhou Wei cry.
The strictness of father and son cannot be abolished; Love with flesh and blood, not Jane. Jane doesn't accept filial piety, but she is lazy. It's okay for father and son to live in different palaces. Itching, aching, and hanging pillows are not simple teaching. Or ask, "What gentleman's distant son does Chen Kang like to listen to?" Yes, it is. Mr. Gai refused to teach his son by himself. There was irony in the poem, doubt in the ceremony, chaos in the book, ridiculous in the Spring and Autumn Period, and easy to prepare: father and son can't speak, so they don't teach their ears by themselves. "
Wu Qi, the son of the evil king, became emperor, the mother and brother of the prince. He was born smart and was deeply loved by the emperor and later. Their clothes and diet were consistent with those of the East Palace. The emperor called it all around: "This son should also be successful." And the prince acceded to the throne, Wang Ju did not enter the palace, and the tyrant with superior statecraft did not associate with the kings. The queen mother still says it is not enough, and often thinks it is said. Ten years old, arrogant and unruly, playing well, you must plan to take advantage; Chang Chao went to Nansi Temple and found that the imperial palace had brought in new ice and offered early plums with a hook shield, but he could not claim them. He was furious and said, "I have the supreme. What's it to me?" "I don't know, the ratio is the same. Many people know, such as Uncle Duan. After suspecting the Prime Minister, he ordered him to be beheaded, fearing salvation, and was a sergeant under Nale, guarding the temple gate; I didn't turn my back. I just stopped at work and sat in this secluded place.
People's love for children is rare and can have both; From ancient times to the present, this has many disadvantages. A virtuous person can enjoy his love, but a stubborn person should also pity him. Those who are partial to him are even more troublesome, although they want to be generous. * * * uncle's death, mother is it. Wang Zhao massacre, father really did it. Liu Biao's tendency to protect the clan and Yuan Shao's death can serve as a mirror for Gui Ling.
A scholar-bureaucrat in the Qi Dynasty said, "I have a son who is seventeen years old and quite knowledgeable. Teach him Xianbei language and play the pipa, and ask him to know a little so that he can serve his ministers. All of them are happy and important. " "I'm fine but I don't answer. Different, this man's adopted son is also! If this industry, since the Qing phase, it is not your wish.
Brother Wen 3
A husband has a person and then a couple, a couple and then a father and son, a father and son and then a brother: a family is close, and this is just three. Since then, as for the nine clans, they are all based on three relatives, so we should be loyal to those who value human relations. Brothers, fractal and even angry people, young, parents around, before and after, eating the same, wearing the same, learning is a career, swimming is a * * * party. Although people who are contrary to chaos can't help falling in love. And strong, each wife, each son, although there are honest people, not much decline. Compared with his brother, Dees is thinner; It is not appropriate to make people thin and generous today, but to be square and round. Only friends are too deep to be moved by others.
Two relatives are dead, and brothers care for each other. They should be like shapes and shadows, sounds and sounds; Love the remains of ancestors and cherish the separation of self-identity. Why not be brothers? When you are brothers, you are different from others. It is easy to complain if you look deep, and it is easy to regret if you look close. For example, if you still live in a room, you can plug a hole and paint a gap, so you are not afraid of being destroyed; If the sparrows and mice have no sympathy, the wind and rain are not prevented, and the wall falls, everyone is trapped and hopeless. Servants and concubines are birds, and wives are violent. What a pity!
Brothers are not in harmony, then sons and nephews do not love; Sons and nephews don't love, and the group is sparse; If the group is sparse, the servant will be the enemy. In this way, when you walk on the road, follow your heart. Who can save you? People or people who make friends with the world have joy and love, but there are many people who disrespect their brothers! People or tens of thousands of teachers, who have gained their strength and lost their gratitude to their younger brothers, can't be reluctant to kiss!
Lonely people have more places to fight for, so that their own flesh and blood can settle down there, not homesick for frost and dew, and stand opposite the sun and the moon. Few people on the road are in a place of contention and have no leisure. Therefore, those who take this as their business and hold an affair are responsible for it and have bad intentions; If you can forgive yourself, change your son and caress him, you won't suffer.
A man's business, brother, can't be a father. Why not complain that you love your brother rather than your son? This is a reflection, it is unknown. Guo Pei, Liu Xian, tried to be next door to my brother's house, but the phone number should not be heard, and it took a long time to answer; The monster asked him, and he said, "I have never worn a coat or hat." "Brother, this matter can be avoided.
Xuanshao, the king of Jiangling, Xiaoying and Zimin, three brothers, are very friendly and get new experiences. If they don't gather for food, they won't taste it first, but they will look at each other politely. While Xitai was trapped, Xuanshao was surrounded by a crowd of burly soldiers; The second brother fought for * * *, and each begged for his own death. If he couldn't solve it, he died.
Article 4 articles after marriage
Ji Fu, a virtuous father, Bai Hua, a filial son, finally got along. Later, when his wife was idle, Bai Hua let go. When Zeng Shen's wife died, she said to her son, "I am not as good as Ji Fu, and you are not as good as Bai Hua." Losing a wife means people say, "I'm not as good as Zeng Shen, and my son is not as good as China and Yuan." Never marry, that's enough discipline Since then, countless people have been miserable, abused into orphans, separated from idle flesh and blood, and heartbroken. Be careful! Be careful!
Jiang Zuo is outspoken and guilty. After the funeral, he had a concubine. Scabies, mosquito bites, or no exemption, are limited to bigger ones, and it is rare to be ashamed of World War I. Hebei despises going abroad and does not expect abortion, so it wants to remarry. As for the third and fourth years, the mother had fewer children that year. Stepmother's brother, ex-wife's brother, clothes, food, and marriage, as for the separation of ordinary people and nobles, it is commonplace. After his death, he resigned from the lawsuit, slandered Tao, falsely accused his mother of being a concubine and his brother of being a servant, spread the words of his ancestors, and revealed the strengths of his ancestors in order to clear his name. Sad husband! Since ancient times, traitors and concubines have trapped people in one sentence! What's more, the righteousness of husband and wife, knowing it with reason and emotion, servants asking it with capacity, helping it with each other, and filial sons with years? There's nothing to be afraid of.
Ordinary nature, the orphans of ex-husbands are favored by ex-husbands, and ex-wives will abuse their sons; It is not only women who are jealous, but also husbands who are puzzled and withdrawn. My ex-husband is lonely, so I dare not compete with my son for family, support him and love him, so I spoil him; The son of his ex-wife, who lives a higher life than himself, learned to get married, so he abused it for prevention. If you are spoiled by a different surname, your parents will be blamed. If you are abused by your relatives, your brothers will be embarrassed. If you have this at home, it will be a disaster for your family.
Lu Si and others come from my uncle, a foreign minister and a scholar in Boda. There is a son named Chen who has got married and married Wang. When Jimmy saw his stepmother, he sobbed admiringly, unable to restrain himself, and his family could not bear to look up. Wang is also sad and at a loss. He asked for a refund in the tenth month, so he gave it as a courtesy, which is also a pity.
The Book of the Later Han Dynasty said: "During the reign of Emperor An, Xue Baomeng in Runan tasted it, was eager to learn, persevered, lost his mother and even heard about it. Besides, my father hated this bag when he got married with his second wife, so let's separate. Bao cried for a day and a night and couldn't go until he was beaten with a stick. As a last resort, I stayed outside and spilled it when I entered. When his father got angry, he drove him away, but he stayed at the inner door and didn't waste it in the morning. After years of accumulation, my parents returned it in shame. I lost my life after serving for six years. Then the apprentice asked for money to live in a different place, but it was endless, but he divided the money: the handmaiden led his old man and said,' If you stay with me for a long time, it will not work.' When the poor snail said,' I was sensible when I was young, and I loved to eat.' Holding rotten utensils, he said,' I have eaten before, and my body and mouth are safe.' Disciples cut off their financial resources several times and got their relief. When building a light and distinctive bus, we should worship the attendants. All-encompassing emptiness is called illness and death. There's another letter for you.
No.5 Jia
Those weathered from top to bottom also apply to the latter from the beginning. Therefore, the father is unkind, the son is unfilial, the younger brother is not a friend, the younger brother is disrespectful, the husband is unjust, and the woman is unhappy. If the father is kind and disobedient, the brother is proud, and the husband is righteous and the wife is dead, then the murderer will be punished by punishment instead of discipline.
Anger will be too obvious if it is wasted at home; If the punishment is not correct, the people will be at a loss. The breadth of running a family is fierce and the country is also.
Confucius said, "Don't be extravagant, be frugal; It is better to be practical than to have no grandchildren. Another cloud said, "If the beauty of the Duke of Zhou made him arrogant and stingy, his other shortcomings were ignored." "But you can be frugal and not stingy. Those who are thrifty, saving contracts is also called ceremony; Miser is poor and anxious. Today, giving is luxury, frugality is meanness; If you can give without extravagance, you can be frugal and generous.
The foundation of the people should be cultivated and eaten. Fruits and vegetables of livestock are produced by gardens; The kindness of chickens and dolphins comes from the circle. Therefore, Dong Yu's equipment, firewood and butter candles are not cultivated. In order to keep his business, he can make a living behind closed doors, but there is no salt well at home. Today, the customs of the northern soil can be frugal, frugal and worry-free; Although Jiangnan is luxurious, it is not surprising.
Liang, a scholar in the book, lost control of his family and was too strict. His wife and concubine killed them when they were drunk.
Celebrities in the world are generous; As for eating, drinking, reducing servants, generous wives, frugal wives, insulting guests, invading the Xin township party: this is also a huge family.
Fang Wenlie, assistant minister of the official department of Qi State, was not angry. After the rain, he was deprived of food, sent a maid to cook, and escaped for three or four days before he was caught back. Xu Fang said, "My family has no food. Where are you from? " No sad pies. After tasting the house, the handmaiden got a little salary and smelled it without saying a word.
Pei Yezi's relatives and friends who are hungry and unable to help themselves are all adopted; My family is poor, and when there are floods and droughts, two stone meters are porridge, so I can only live, bow my head, and often enjoy it. There are leaders under power, and greed is already high. His children are 800, and his vows are more than 1000. Every morning and evening, everyone cooks according to the standard of 15 yuan, which is even more difficult when there are guests' trips. After sitting in the back, he was in trouble. With his family property, Ma Xie has a house, a few treasures, and the rest are indescribable. Some people in Nanyang, living in Aobo, are extremely frugal and stingy. After the winter solstice, their son-in-law gave them a glass of wine and counted the meat. I hate my single rate, it's done overnight. The master was startled, and Ji Yang benefited all his life, and so on; Retreat and blame the daughter: "A certain lang is good at wine, so you are often poor." And after his death, the philosophers fought for money, and the elder brother killed the younger brother.
A wife's eating in China is the food, wine and clothes of the ceremony. The state cannot make a pre-government, and the family cannot make a dry law; If you have wisdom, know the past and know the present, and help the gentleman appropriately, there will be no morning bell and lead to disaster.
Women in Jiangdong, who have no friends and have never met each other in the wedding room, or for more than ten years, have given their inheritance by faith, which makes them very attentive. Under the custom of summer night, women hold the door and argue about the merits of the lawsuit. Please, please, please take a bus to fill the street, and then continue the Fu Ying Temple in the front, asking for officials on behalf of their sons and interceding for their husbands. Is this the legacy of constancy and alternation? The south is poor, everything is exterior decoration, and cars and clothes must be expensive and tidy; Family and wife are inevitably hungry and cold. Hebei's personnel, mostly by the interior, continue the front Cui Jin is responsible for, can't be abolished, horse strain slave, can only serve as; The gift of advocating peace is still you.
The women in Hebei, the knitting group and the beautiful work in Luo Qi are much better than Jiangdong.
Taigong said, "There are too many adopted daughters, and it costs nothing." Chen Fan said, "You can't steal five women." Women are very tired, but also very deep. However, steaming people is natural, and ancestors are handed down. What is this? The world does not abandon women, and thieves do the same thing. Should we do this and hope that happiness is in the sky? I have a close relative who forgives prostitutes at home and sends shovels to keep her upright when she is in labor. If you don't trust, you will peek through the window and lean against the door. If you had a daughter, you would go. Mother cried with a trumpet, which made people smell uncomfortable.
A woman's nature is biased towards her son-in-law, abusing him. If you spoil your son-in-law, your brother's resentment will arise; If you abuse your wife, your sister will behave badly. However, if a woman stays, she will offend her family, and so will her mother. There is a proverb that says, "Aunt Luo has food to eat." This is the same. There are always shortcomings at home, don't be admonished!
Marriage is right. It's the rule of Cheng. Modern married, there are women who sell money, women who buy silk, and parents who take care of money, which is no different from the market. Or the husband is at the door, or the arrogant woman is good at the room, greedy for glory and profit, ashamed and not lifting!
Lend people classics, so be sure to keep them well. If there is any defect first, it is to make up. This is also one of the things that a scholar-bureaucrat is best at. Jiang Lu, a native of Jiyang, has not finished his studies. Although he is in a hurry, he will wait until he is tied up neatly and then get up, so that he will not lose money and people will never cheat. Or there are a few cases where the wolf is confused and the scattered parts are destroyed. Most of them are polluted by children, girls and concubines, and destroyed by wind, rain, insects and rats. Really tired. Every time I read a saint's book, I have no disrespect; Its old paper has the meaning of the Five Classics, has the name of a wise man, and dare not misuse it.
My wizard's prayers are beyond words; Fu has nothing to ask for, as you can see from Cao Cao. Don't be silly.