The general story goes like this: the guest kept playing with his mobile phone, and the waitress thought that the guest had finished eating, so she took all the meals away and took them out of the trash can. Now the guest is unhappy and blames the waiter for taking the food away. The two began to quarrel until the waiter buckled the porridge at the next table on the guest's head.

A very ordinary little thing, if the two sides have a better attitude and the waiter apologizes in time, they can live in peace, but in the end, they are all angry with each other, which has caused such a farce.

Seeing more and more such news, I feel more and more deeply how important it is to be a calm person whenever and wherever. Calm, whether for yourself or others, is a very necessary attitude.

If the waitress and the guest don't urge each other, but negotiate calmly, I believe it will end happily, but both sides choose the worst way to deal with it.

Many times, we all say that taking a step back does not mean weakness, but an effective way to solve problems. Guests can reasonably claim their rights and interests when they leave the group, and should not defend their rights with emotion. It is not that the other party is wrong and will hold on to the whip; The waiter's resignation means that he feels his mistake, apologizes to the guests in time and seeks ways to make up for it.

Now there are more and more people with emotions in society, and they are becoming more and more impetuous with each other. Therefore, it is not wrong to solve emotions in advance. If your mood is right, the rest is easy to communicate. Don't get emotional when something happens. It is useless to occupy the emotional peak temporarily, and the problem will be solved eventually. It is the truth to occupy the peak of interests, and the peak of interests does not need to be won by emotions. Calm and more beneficial.

I hope everyone can be honest with themselves and others.