However, because Jia Mu is so happy, she usually only goes to the Grand View Garden to sit in one or two places and comes back. This time, I accompanied Granny Liu to the garden, and I walked almost half, which exceeded the limit, but I had some physical problems. "It's hard to say that she fell asleep because of the wind." Wang Xifeng's daughter elder sister (later named Qiaojie by Granny Liu) also went to the garden to look for her, ate a cake sent by Mrs. Wang, stood in the wind and ate it, where she caught cold and got hot.
Granny Liu was embarrassed to learn these two things from Xifeng, but she solved the problem with her own life experience. Let's talk about the cause and treatment she pointed out first; Needless to say, it is quite symptomatic, and it contains simple health preservation methods. I'm afraid it is worth learning today.
Regarding the grandmother Jia's "being sick by the wind", Grandma Liu said: "The old lady and the old man are not used to being very tired."
This sentence is quite objective, but it is quite general, unlike any way of keeping in good health. In fact, it is not good for granny Liu to directly say that "the old lady should exercise more". This sentence should be compared with her activities with Jia Mu.
Jia Mu is an old man, so is Grandma Liu. She is 75 years old, several years older than Jia Mu. However, her eyes, teeth and other organs that mark the degree of aging are all right. "It is the left molar that is active this year", while Jia Mu is "blind and deaf, and her memory is gone". This is what she said, which may be slightly exaggerated, but it should be basically the truth.
Visiting the Grand View Garden and entering the Xiaoxiang Pavilion where Lin Daiyu lives, Granny Liu gave the middle gravel road to Jia Mu and others, and told the accompanying girls not to get dirty with embroidered shoes, because "there are bamboos on both sides of the road, the ground is covered with moss, and there are gravel roads in the middle". As a result, she slipped and fell. I wish I could be a grandmother, but Granny Liu got up before someone helped her. Grandmother Jia cared about her, asked her if she had twisted her waist and told the maids to hit her. Grandma Liu said, "I didn't say I was so delicate. It's not bad to have a meal if you don't fall twice a day. "
Of course, it is impossible to fall twice a day. What she means is that there are many such bumps in their farmers' lives, which is not a problem at all.
So she said that the old lady is not used to fatigue, suggesting that the old lady usually has too little activity. Once the activity intensity is higher, she can't stand walking a few more feet.
"Life lies in exercise", that's right.
Regarding the fever, Grandma Liu gave two points: "One is windy, the other is that he is clean, his eyes are clean, or he has met some god"; Xifeng asked Qiaojie why she was often ill. Grandma Liu said, "Many children raised by rich families are too delicate, so naturally some of them can't go wrong. It is too expensive for him to live in a small family. I hope my aunt will hurt him less in the future. "
Ignorant thoughts are worth learning except that "what happened to God" is a feudal superstition that needs to be corrected.
For Qiaojie's fever this time, Granny Liu judged that this young lady didn't usually go into the Grand View Garden. When she is in a strange place, she doesn't adapt. She caught a cold and had a fever when the cold wind blew. The sentence "I was born in a place, and my small family shouldn't have gone" should actually be interpreted in reverse. In fact, she gently told Feng that my young lady should really walk around and adapt to various environments. Children are like their cultivators, such as Banel. As long as they can walk, they "don't run in any grave", which means they are free to go anywhere, including some taboo places.
Run more places, my heart is naturally practical, and my body is naturally adapted. In other words, more activities are needed.
She said that she might have met God and wanted Qiaojie to "read this precious book". Xifeng sent someone to check the book and found that it was really a flower god. According to the instructions in the book, she gave a special gift, "If you see Big Sister sleeping peacefully", it is hard to count. You see, at granny Liu's words, Xifeng affirmed that "you elderly people have experienced a lot" and asked her why her daughter was often ill. Her "prescription" is "just love her a little less", that is, don't pamper children too much, don't raise children too daintily and decently, do more free activities, touch less and go less, enhance physical fitness and get better naturally.
Is it also suitable for us now?
Here, I think of a personal experience many years ago. At that time, the children at home were three or four years old and had a bad appetite. They took them to the province to see a doctor. At that time, it was difficult to hang the expert number, and finally I got one through the scalper. Sitting in a taxi to the hospital and talking about it, the master said that in fact, there is no need for children to see experts without eating. In my opinion, it is good to be hungry for two meals. If you don't believe me, see what the doctor says. It turns out that the expert and the taxi driver have the same words. It's actually an exercise.
Obviously, it's a pity not to love too much.
Keep a good mood.
You see grandma Liu said that she got used to dirt roads when she mentioned the garden, and she fell down. She immediately laughed at herself and said, "You just hit the mouth", which optimistically resolved the embarrassment.
Let's focus on the banquet arranged by Jia Mu.
Granny Liu went to Guo Rongfu because the Ming people didn't talk in secret, and she came to "make a fortune" (the written explanation was that she shared the property with the government or the rich by some relationship). Fu and Fu both know about it, so they obviously look down on it to varying degrees.
No, the old lady is going to give a banquet to Granny Liu. Yuanyang, the most intimate maid of the old lady, deliberately wants to make use of Granny Liu to amuse the old lady, saying, "Every day, I say that the old man outside has a" xianggong "when eating wine, making fun of him. We also got a woman today. " Make fun of granny Liu when discussing dinner with Xifeng; And asked grandma Liu to cooperate with the performance.
Granny Liu, on the other hand, really cooperated well. With her rustic and simple humor, she naturally contributed a lot of "golden sentences" and successfully let Grandmother Jia and others enjoy the "wedding banquet". For example:
Xifeng and Yuanyang specially brought granny Liu a pair of chopsticks inlaid with four stare blankly ivory. Grandma Liu said, "This fork climber is heavier than my shovel. I can't beat him."
When Grandmother Jia said "please" to open the banquet, Grandma Liu stood up and said loudly, "Lao Liu, Lao Liu, eat like a cow and don't look up after eating an old sow." (The punchline of this sentence is very strong, and the book is particularly wonderful. Limited to space, it is not quoted here. )
Xifeng deliberately picked out a bowl of pigeon eggs and put it on Granny Liu's desk. Grandma Liu said, "The chickens here are also handsome, and the eggs they lay are small and strange."
Granny Liu wants to eat a silver "little egg" in Xifeng's mouth. Chopsticks are too heavy. "There was a lot of noise in the bowl, and it was very easy to pick up one. She just stretched her neck to eat, but she slipped down and rolled on the ground. She was so busy putting down the chopsticks that she had to pick them up by herself. Someone underground has picked it up. " Grandma Liu said regretfully, "One or two pieces of silver disappeared without hearing the noise."
Grandmother Jia saw that there was something wrong with chopsticks and asked Xifeng to change a pair. Feng turned her into an ebony inlaid with silver. Grandma Liu said, "Those who have gold and silver are not as good as those we have." Xifeng said that if the food is poisonous, silver chopsticks can be tried. Grandma Liu said, "If this food is poisonous, our food will turn into arsenic. Even if it is poisoned, it will be eaten up. "
A seat is full of joy, and what we read from it, though teasing, is not humiliating. Why is this?
It depends on what granny Liu thinks.
After dinner, both Xifeng and Yuanyang came to apologize to Granny Liu, saying that everyone was joking just now and told her not to be annoyed. See granny liu's answer:
Granny Liu said with a smile, "What's so annoying about the girl's words? Let's make the old lady happy! I will understand if you ask me first, but let's smile. If I want to be bored, I won't say it. "
This smile is not an "embarrassed smile", but a sincere and frank smile. Because grandma Liu knows very well that she made a fool of herself on the table (either because she has never seen the world, or because she deliberately exaggerated it) just to make grandma happy. Jia Mu is kind to poor relatives and can only "add one more pole". What's wrong with making her happy? I didn't miss anything.
In fact, she has "gained a lot", including Jia's generous return and spiritual respect.
Originally, she was regarded as a pure object of ridicule, but her distinctive sense of humor, unpretentious and open-minded personality and envious but not jealous attitude towards rich and powerful people won everyone's respect. It's just that Rainbow Xifeng, an obvious snob, also trusts her quite, and her daughter's name is also given to Granny Liu. Of course, Granny Liu thanked her when she was in trouble, but that was another story.
This ensures granny Liu's mental health.
My humble opinion above, welcome friends to criticize!
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