Indeed, all posts now need pre-job training. Although the certificate is not a complete proof of ability, it can at least give people a systematic understanding of future work.
However, on the road of child-rearing, parents, as the children's first teachers, bear the important responsibility of guiding their children throughout their lives, but they know nothing about their growth laws and even their physical development. The unqualified products can be returned to the factory for a new one, but what about the children? Can a child's life start over?
Growth is an irreversible journey, and improper upbringing will ruin a child's life.
No one is born a parent, and being a parent is also a parent for the first time; No parents don't want their children to grow up, but only wishes are not enough. Parenting also nurtures oneself. As parents, only when they have enough knowledge reserves can they be comfortable in parenting and cultivate excellent children with scientific parenting methods.
After reading more than 100 parenting books for so many years, I carefully selected this 10 parenting book and recommended it to novice parents from the aspects of children's physical growth law, psychological growth stage, emotional cultivation and rule establishment. Armed with these knowledge, I believe it will help you to be handy in raising children and cultivate excellent children.
This is an absolutely authoritative encyclopedia of knowledge in the field of parenting.
The authority comes from the American Academy of Pediatrics, which is a respected authority on children's health all over the world. The contents and experiences in the book come from the collective discussion conclusions of its 62,000 pediatric experts, pediatric sub-experts and primary care doctors. After the book was published, it was revised six times, which fully guaranteed the timeliness and accuracy of information.
In terms of content, it comprehensively covers the relevant knowledge of parenting, from pregnancy, childbirth, breast milk, child growth, disease, nutrition and so on. How do children behave at all stages? What will happen? How to deal with ... This book gives full scientific guidance and suggestions, and is a necessary scientific parenting tool for every novice parent.
This is a comprehensive book on parenting methods from the perspective of intimate parenting. I recommend this book for two reasons.
First, its theoretical research comes from the author's personal practice. Dr William Sears and his wife Martha Sears raised eight children together. This book is a first-hand summary of their experience in raising children. Moreover, Dr. William Sears himself is a doctor of medicine, a member of the American Academy of Pediatrics and one of the most famous pediatricians in the United States. His wife, Martha Sears, is a registered nurse, parenting consultant and breastfeeding consultant. The couple's medical knowledge background makes this book scientific and instructive.
Secondly, in terms of content, the intimate parenting theory advocated by the author, such as breastfeeding, sleeping with the baby, holding the baby with a scarf and responding to the baby's needs in time, enables parents to establish intimate relationships with their children as soon as possible, which is in line with the development of human nature. Children's growth feedback is lagging behind, and countless facts are in front of us: whether a child has intimate relationships in infancy will affect his life-long growth. Sears intimate parenting will tell parents how to be a parent who raises children with love.
In the process of children's growth, we often get mad at their stubborn performance at a certain stage:
Stuff everything in your mouth, always like to pick small things, suddenly like crazy graffiti, eager to maintain some order, keen on imitation, always like to say "no" ...
Have we ever met a "problem" child? Actually, it is not.
At a certain stage, children are stressed by life and show the characteristics of focusing on something, which actually indicates that they are going through a special sensitive period. If parents have an insight into the child's growth trajectory, can grasp the child's sensitive period and give good guidance, then after the child successfully passes the sensitive period, his psychological level can rise from one level to another.
Facts show that many children's problems when they grow up can be traced back to the wrong sensitive period.
In this book "Capturing the Sensitive Period of Children", Teacher Sun Ruixue collected more than 200 real cases of children (0 ~ 10 years old) in the sensitive period. All cases are recorded by parents or teachers, and Sun Ruixue's comments are a golden key for parents to know their children's passwords in a wide range and in all directions. Understand the law of children's growth, crack children's inner secrets, and recommend this book.
There is a saying in China: "Without rules, there is no Fiona Fang."
When children are young, they often don't know the boundaries of doing things. Establishing good rules for children is a way to help children cultivate their awareness of rules and establish a harmonious relationship with society.
But we will find that some children are very sensible and polite, while others are stubborn and annoying. There are also parents who are distressed: the rules are clearly set for the children, and the children have promised, but they often say one thing and do another. What should I do?
There are also ways and means to make rules. This book analyzes the manifestations of children's problems and tells parents why rules should be made. How to make rules? What matters should be paid attention to in the process of establishing rules, so as to guide parents to cultivate reasonable, disciplined and more self-disciplined children.
China's parents don't lack love for their children, but they lack the correct expression of love. Guided by Montessori's educational thought, this book expounds the correct expression of parents' love for their children. Motherly love, in particular, has a great influence on a child's life.
Where is the boundary between "love and freedom"? This book explores from the child's heart and guides parents how to love their children warmly and respectfully. True love does not give children what we want, but what they want. From the first edition to the fourth edition, thousands of parents have changed because of this book, and thousands of children have grown up healthily and happily because of this book, and have grown into a new generation with strong psychology, self-strength and creative quality!
"It takes ten years to plant trees, but it takes a hundred years to cultivate people." Parents' methods of discipline play an important role in children's growth. Using effective educational methods for children from an early age will cultivate children into pillars; And if you spoil your child from an early age, or if you don't fight or scold after seeing the problem, your child will be rebellious and willful, and it will be difficult to grow up.
Positive discipline for children is neither punishment nor connivance, but to let children grow up in a kind and firm atmosphere and cultivate self-discipline, responsibility and problem-solving ability. Guided by positive education, this book teaches parents how to educate their children with authority, rules, freedom and restrictions. If you have something to turn over, you have nothing to spare. It is a powerful adviser on the road to parenting growth.
No parents are not eager to leave a loving impression on their children. However, in reality, we often carry out "mental violence" on children. When children are disobedient, when children challenge their parents' bottom line again and again, think carefully: have you used excessive words when educating your children? Blame, ridicule, deny, preach, interrupt at will, comment at will ... These casual words and deeds of parents will cause emotional and mental trauma to children, even more painful than physical injury, leading to children's personality becoming indifferent, alienated and hostile. ...
Non-violent communication gives an effective way of communication from four elements: observation, feeling, demand and request, which makes people feel the love in their hearts. This kind of communication ability is a compulsory course for parents on the road to parenting.
In the parent-child relationship, maternal love has the greatest influence on children's growth. However, in real life, mothers often fall into the dilemma of jumping with their children. Many times, our dissatisfaction and criticism of children are actually dissatisfaction with ourselves: blaming children for dawdling is actually complaining that they can't give reasonable arrangements; Comparing our children with other children is against our own frustration. ...
Although there is no perfect mother in this world, mothers need to make themselves strong so that our children can be excellent.
Based on the theories of famous psychologists and educators, this book gives parenting methods from the perspective of a mother and educator, helping parents understand the laws of children's psychological growth at different stages, and coping with children's various performances with positive and scientific parenting methods, making parenting easier and making children more and more excellent.
This is a series of books, starting from the age of 0, until the children go to college. Each book gives specific guidance on the characteristics of children's growth at this stage, what problems will occur, why there are such reasons, and how to guide children. Help parents of children of different ages and stages to carry out effective family education with correct concepts and help their children grow up better.
Raising children, as far as the ultimate goal is concerned, is to cultivate an optimistic child. Have the optimistic characteristics, even if you encounter difficulties, you can solve them step by step and always be full of positive energy. Optimism is always a child's greatest competitiveness and happiness, whether in school, in future job hunting or in the life after growing up.
This book is from Martin, the father of positive psychology? Seligman is an educational classic that brings together the essence of 30 years' research of adults and children. There are not only theories and experiments in the book, but also some important parenting suggestions. With the most scientific and cutting-edge educational ideas in the world, we will inject more rational and scientific ideas and methods into China's education and family education.
They all say, "Look at the old at 3 years old and look at the old at 6 years old". Family education is the first class for children, and parents' education for children is related to their lifelong development.
As a responsible parent, we can not only let our children grow up with food and clothing, but also cultivate their children to become talents and achieve their own lives.
Then, be a wise parent, learn to arm yourself with knowledge and grow up with your children.
(One for Mano/Aries Ma Xiao. The world is big and the ideal is small. Read, write, walk the baby, laugh at things outside the window, and write quietly in Chinese. )