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Extraction code: 7qmq Topic: Children with spleen deficiency don't grow up, have a bad appetite and love colds.
Author: Luo Dalun
Douban score: 8.2
Publishing House: Jiangxi Science and Technology Publishing House
Publication year: 20 14-9- 1
Page number: 184
Content introduction:
★ Before this book, there was no book dedicated to dietotherapy and external treatment of traditional Chinese medicine to help parents adjust their children's physical and psychological problems, such as emaciation, short stature, loss of appetite, and love to lose their temper. This is the first book, and the methods in it have been verified and effective by countless parents who have benefited.
★ If the mountain is not high, there is a fairy. The diet prescription and massage method introduced in this book are direct and effective, as long as parents use them carefully according to the dialectical method introduced in the book.
★ For the first time, the book revolutionized another important reason that children's spleen deficiency has never been ignored by parents: in addition to improper diet, "children's developmental retardation and love to get sick are often caused not only by their parents' doting, but also by their parents' bad emotions and pressures. "This also sounded the alarm for parents. If you don't cultivate your mind, the root cause of your child's illness may never be removed. If cured, it may recur and even endanger the child's life.
Content introduction:
If "Let children not have a fever, cough and indigestion" makes parents understand how to deal with children's fever, cough and indigestion caused by external factors intelligently, then this book "Children with spleen deficiency don't grow up, have a bad appetite and love colds" makes parents understand that the internal root of most common diseases of children lies in spleen deficiency, and how to make children not have spleen deficiency is the most important thing for a qualified parent. What methods were used? There are very detailed dialectical methods and fundamental solutions such as diet therapy and massage in the book.
Wonderful summary:
An ignorant mother can't really protect her children.
The ancients said: "Parents don't know that doctors are not kind; If you are a child, you don't know whether you are filial or not. "If you don't, I will bully you!
I have a very good friend, who is not a fan of Chinese medicine and has never learned some knowledge of Chinese medicine parenting. Because I, a friend of Chinese medicine, whenever her child feels a little sick or slightly ill, she calls me: "The child has a fever again" and "The child has a cough again" ...
The frequency of her child's fever is still relatively high. I said, "Why don't you learn something about Chinese medicine parenting?" It is clearly stated in my book that if you study hard, you will have less troubles. "She said," no, why don't I call you directly? "? What else to learn! "
Isn't it troublesome for parents to deal with their children after they get sick? Because in the early stage of a child's illness, if parents don't know some parenting knowledge, they will miss the best opportunity to solve the disease. Finally, when they went to see a doctor for treatment, the child was already ill to a certain extent, and it often took a lot of effort to cure it. This is a kind of torture for children and parents. Because children with headaches often get sick, under my persuasion, my friends began to teach themselves Chinese parenting knowledge. Slowly, he can deal with some children's headaches and brain fever. For example, once he finds a sore throat, he will clean it up on the same day and be fine. Now, the child's physique has obviously improved.
What changes? Before the mother learned the knowledge of traditional Chinese medicine parenting, her children were almost the shortest among all the girls in kindergarten. She is anxious, but she doesn't know what to do. Later, she began to give her children chiropractic every day, and then cooperated with them to exercise more and eat more food to tonify the spleen. It took only one year for her children to grow taller and become the tallest girl of the same age in kindergarten. And before conditioning, children often catch a cold and have a fever, and take injections to take medicine. Now, after self-conditioning, the child has not had a fever or a cold for a long time, and is almost unaffected by external factors and begins to get healthy. This is the importance of being a child and protecting God.
There are many mothers around me. After learning Chinese medicine, children will be treated as soon as they have minor problems, which has indeed achieved particularly obvious results. For example, many mothers who participated in Chinese medicine parenting courses at Danggui Chinese Medicine School have completed their studies. It turned out that their children caught a cold ten times a year, but now they only catch a cold twice and stopped eight times. They did a good job.
What moved me even more was that once, when Danggui held the third anniversary party, a mother representative came. I chatted with her and asked her, "How is your study? The child caught a cold, can he heal himself? " As a result, her answer surprised me: "It's not cured, and now the child doesn't catch a cold at all!" "I'm so happy to hear the news. She has fought the war well in advance, which means that people don't let their children catch a cold at all, not how to treat them.
This is the fundamental goal for mothers to learn Chinese medicine parenting knowledge!
In fact, the fundamental purpose of sharing TCM parenting knowledge with parents is to let mothers learn to care for their children correctly and cultivate their hearts. It is not only to teach you how to deal with the disease, but also to call it back eight times ten times. If it is, it will never end; Is to keep the child from getting sick at all. Only by keeping children from getting sick all the year round can parents really succeed.
As Huangdi Neijing said, don't wait until the war to build weapons, and don't wait until you are thirsty to dig wells. That won't do.
In my private letter or Weibo's message, there are too many such examples. I think a mother who knows Chinese medicine is really happy and proud. Because she finally has the ability to really protect her children.
Children with spleen deficiency are prone to obesity.
Regardless of genetic reasons, spleen deficiency will not only lead to delayed growth and thinness of children, but also lead to obesity of children, which many parents may not realize.
Why obesity is also a manifestation of spleen deficiency? When I shared the knowledge of Chinese medicine parenting with my parents, I always emphasized an idea to everyone. Don't think that if you cook a good meal for others, they will absorb it because of the rich food and comprehensive nutrition. In fact, it may be just the opposite. Among the adults I met, those who eat well, socialize all day and enjoy delicacies every day have the worst nutritional status. For example, your spleen and stomach can accept extraordinary things. If you give it seven or eight points, it will hurt your spleen and stomach. It's like a computer can open five documents and ten documents at the same time, but open 10 thousand documents at the same time, and the computer will definitely crash. Therefore, we can see that many adults in society are fat, delicious and well-fed every day, and often in the worst physical condition. When I went to the hospital for examination, all the physical indicators were not up to standard, and diseases such as hypertension, diabetes and hyperlipidemia were all together. This is because they don't need much in their bodies, but they need too little nutrition.
Now, because the child is given too much nutrition that the child can't actually absorb, the child is out of order-spleen deficiency, spleen accumulation, blockage, what should be discharged in the body can't be discharged, and metabolism can't be discharged. The stomach keeps adding things, and finally another pattern is formed. All nutrients are accumulated in the spleen and stomach, which is excessive phlegm and dampness, which causes the child's obesity at this time.
There are many chubby children now. Statistics in Beijing show that one out of every five children is chubby. Many children's obesity affects their studies. When they grow up, they will have all kinds of diseases. Such children may suffer from diabetes, cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases in the future, and often come out when they are young. Some children basically ruin their lives.
Parents often do not understand this truth. Many old people said, "Oh, great! The fatter the better! " "Thinking that the more children eat, the better their health will be, so try to give them food that they think is nutritious. What is the result? The child is in poor health.
Parents must remember that children must maintain a reasonable diet to avoid obesity. Obesity is a fatal blow to children. Everything else is easy to adjust, but obesity is difficult to adjust.
Long-term spleen deficiency may cause TIC disorder in children.
A child is ill, and his parents have basically visited all the famous Chinese medicine practitioners in the country, and there is nothing anyone can do. How sick is this child? He doesn't usually twitch. First, he twitched and shouted, just like when Bruce Lee was fighting. He convulses and yells every 30 seconds. We were in a restaurant at that time, and there were few guests during the day. These people looked at it for a while and then ran away. It is no exaggeration to say that everyone was frightened. The behavior of such a little boy is frightening. I couldn't feel his pulse when I was sitting opposite him, because the child couldn't control himself, convulsing and shouting, and his voice was particularly horrible. I can't see the doctor at all, and I can't even feel the pulse.
So, how can I judge that a child's illness is caused by emotion? His mother said that children can do magic, and in the process of magic for me, the children are very quiet and orderly, and there is no problem at all. After the magic, he put the props on the table and began to twitch and shout again. From this, I judge that the child's illness is not a physical illness, but an emotional illness. I also observed the child's face, all green and gloomy.
I said that the child's family atmosphere is not good. What happened? His mother didn't tell me, so I said, "Well, it may be inconvenient for you to tell me. Please write me an email. " As a result, I read the email Oh, my God. Why do I say that a bad relationship between parents will lead to a serious illness of children? It's been like this since this kid. The child's father had an affair and divorced his mother. When a mother takes care of her children alone, she will pin all her hopes on her children. The requirements are particularly strict, the exam must be among the best, and you still unconsciously take it out on your children. The child used to be in good health, but now the strange disease is getting worse and worse, so he can't attend class. He has left school for several years.
How to treat this situation? I said to this mother, "You should completely adjust yourself to a good state. If you don't adjust well, your child will get heavier and heavier. " Mother said, "Can I give up? I can't stand sending my children to an orphanage! " Why? "The child doesn't go to bed until three o'clock every night and has been convulsing! I can't even sleep. Do you know what medicine western medicine gave him? It is a medicine for the treatment of mental patients, just to let him sleep. " Actually, there is nothing wrong with this medicine. I advised her that TCM conditioning is a long way, but the effect is very good. If a mother has confidence and strong will, she must first adjust herself before treating her children. There is hope. But his mother has given up now and just wants to send her children to an orphanage. She said she would be devastated and she couldn't go to work.
A bad relationship between parents may make children suffer from a serious illness that is difficult to treat.
I'm afraid of diseases caused by emotions, because I don't know how much it will affect children. Many seriously ill children are basically caused by bad family atmosphere.
I'm having more and more problems with children, which are actually related to the atmosphere at home. Are parents always anxious? Is it stressful? Wait a minute. Children are in such a family atmosphere. If affected by external factors, children's minor problems can easily develop to wide and deep, some are Tourette's disease, and some are other diseases. ...
Once I was on a business trip in Henan, I met an old man who chased me to high-speed railway station for advice with his 18-year-old grandson.
About the author:
Luo Dalun: A famous Chinese medicine practitioner, a special guest of CCTV lecture room, former editor-in-chief of Yangshengtang, a science and education channel of Beijing TV Station, and a special lecturer of Danggui Chinese Medicine School. He is also a kind doctor who embraces "children and young people" and a disseminator of Chinese medicine parenting wisdom. He has always maintained that only by actively learning relevant medical knowledge, especially mastering some concepts and methods handed down from generation to generation by Chinese medicine, can parents really be children. He has published bestsellers such as "Let children not have a fever, cough or accumulate food", "Regulating Yin and Yang to eliminate all diseases" and "The doctor sees a doctor like this".