25 years old, an awkward age in life. Some people travel all over the world for their dreams, some people get married, some people work hard for their lives at their posts, and some people work hard for their future at school. Everyone is doing different things at this time, either for themselves, for their relatives or for their parents.
Before the age of 25, we entered this complex society with a simple and beautiful heart. At that time, we didn't know what was sinister and what was the bait hides the hook. We only know to be kind-hearted, honest and trustworthy, and learn to be grateful after being helped. After entering the society, the reality gave us a hard slap in the face, which made us completely re-recognize it.
25 years old is the beginning of maturity and the end of youth. At this watershed age in life, we should learn two things, one is to let go, and the other is to be down to earth. Knowing how to be down-to-earth is for yourself, for your family and for your elderly parents. Learn to let go of your impatience and arrogance in order to grow and mature.
People over the age of 25 have spent a quarter of their lives and have a certain degree of understanding of society. At this time, people's cognition of themselves is much more important than that of society.
Young man, we need to keep our feet on the ground.
"Health preservation" was originally a favorite of a group of old people, but somehow, it has quietly spread among the post-90 s groups in recent years. Colleagues my age bring a thermos cup and a bag of Lycium barbarum to work every day, and the supervisor two years older than me also soaks American ginseng in the cup. Although I try my best not to admit that I am old, we are no longer young.
Although we are not middle-aged at the age of 25, the word teenager can never be used to describe us. This is an embarrassing era, an era in which trial and error can no longer be carried out, and an era in which hands and feet are bound by reality. At this time, we will face many choices, and there are many things that we need to consider and weigh.
Life has cornered us, and there is no way out. If we want to succeed, we can only live upward. Recognizing the reality and ourselves is the premise of our upward life. Down-to-earth efforts are the foundation of our success. Arrogant people are always impetuous, and impetuous people are often unable to keep their feet on the ground.
In order to get married, we need to keep our feet on the ground.
25 is a good age for dating. At this time, lovers in love will not feel childish when they just graduated, nor will they feel the pressure of urging marriage at home when they are 30 years old. I met at the age of 25, fell in love for a year at the age of 26, got engaged at the age of 27, and got married and had children at the age of 28. It seems that all this is taken for granted.
However, these are just appearances, and the pressure of falling in love and getting married is enormous. Few people can live such a natural life, because love can be supported by feelings, but starting a family needs to be based on material things. Love without material can be "full of affection and water", and marriage without material can only be "but not as people who have been poor together know"
When you are in love, you need money to give each other gifts, meet each other's elders, buy a house and a car, get married and have a wedding. A 25-year-old should have more desire and pursuit for money and less longing and imagination for the future. Working hard and saving money is responsible for the future.
Our parents are old, so we need to keep our feet on the ground.
Before the age of 25, we always like to go where we want to go, see our favorite scenery, meet our favorite people and dream our favorite dreams while we are young. In fact, our parents were like this when they were young. They also squandered their youth like we used to, but now they are old.
By the time we were 25, most of us were over 50. At this time, they are about to enter old age, and most organs of the body are gradually aging and failing. The burden of family life will gradually shift to us, and we need to learn to take care of our elderly parents while supporting this family. How can an impetuous person support the whole family at this time?
Society and reality will never be polite to young impetuous people, but will be more cruel to them. He will tell you what is the cost of living pressure; Tell you what it means to do what you can with the results of things; He will also tell you what is the degree of investigation with the attitude of others. He is like a whetstone of character. Under his unremitting polishing, each of us has become different. Only by following his established rules can we pass the screening and not let ourselves be black and blue.
After the age of 25, I advise you to be less impetuous in your heart and more practical at your feet!