The clothes you like to wear are not necessarily the most popular, but they definitely have personality. I like sitting in front of the TV watching soap operas and eating a lot of snacks. Holidays like to stay in bed and sleep in black and white. Boys like PK with virtual characters in computer games, while girls like reading novels. Do not obey the discipline of teachers and parents, and stubbornly interrupt them to explain their ideas.
It is stronger to persist in "not hitting the south wall and not looking back" than to strive for the future on our own.
Ways to adapt to this state:
1, do what you can, don't push yourself too hard, try to let nature take its course, so that you can unload unnecessary pressure and understand that what you know is normal, and you can do it. Forgive yourself, don't be hard on yourself, let yourself see your own good and bad, focus on the future, and then slowly grow and change, so that you can live in peace with yourself, appreciate others and be yourself at ease.
2, learn to understand others, but don't be too serious, you can get rid of the pain of interpersonal relationships. In the end, there will be a way, and the soldiers will block it, and the water will come to the soil. Naturally, I will let go and worry too much about the future.
3, change the habitual thinking, for their own peace, put down the excessive demands on themselves, but don't pursue perfection, put down excessive persistence, and strive to let the results let nature take its course, and tension and anxiety naturally leave you.
4, keep the original goal, give yourself motivation and direction, don't always think about whether it can be achieved, what you have to do is not to waste every day, grow every day, and wait for the opportunity to achieve the goal. If there are no conditions, you can't reach your goal, and it's no big deal. Ordinary life achievements can also be wonderful.