He told me: "This key middle school has just been established, and the principal wants me to help him. There's a chance. Life is rare. I have to push myself, otherwise I don't know how good I am. "
His voice was very excited when he said this to me. I just smiled and blessed him and told him to take care again and again.
I can totally understand him. He is a confident, positive and optimistic person, who dares to face the difficulties and challenges in his work and regards education as his life. In this township middle school, most teachers go all out, while he goes all out and works hard. Now, another opportunity has appeared. What reason do I have to stop him?
Originally in this township middle school, he was the mainstay and developed well. Going to a new unit, to be honest, in the eyes of my friend, there are indeed too many challenges, and its life is an adventure.
He works as a vice principal in a key middle school. We all said he could do it.
One afternoon three months later, I went to visit him at school. When I saw him again, I felt his haggard and I was surprised.
"More than three thousand students, more than two hundred faculty members. Grasp management on one hand and reform on the other. " He said with a wry smile, "I'm exhausted and miserable." I have to work overtime this Saturday. "
I just told him repeatedly: don't work too hard.
Two years later, he was rated as an outstanding teacher in the province; Three years later, the college entrance examination achieved remarkable results: the provincial line rate was the first in the city. He also contributed to this achievement. It's actually hard work. Because of physical fatigue and getting worse, my family is particularly worried. After more than a year, finally one day, he fell, almost like that.
I was shocked and appalled. When I went to see him, he looked "terrible" and my heart was sour.
During that time, he brought trouble to his family and the RMB. I can't help sighing that health is the pillar of life. Without health-it is equal to being busy in vain.
After more than ten years, he still hasn't fully recovered. He feels comforted that he can still be an ordinary teacher and give lessons to his classmates happily.
On the morning of last summer vacation, I met with the Wuji Studio founded by my friend on 1 month 15 the year before last.
He parked his motorcycle and I shook hands with him. He smiled and said eagerly, "Fortunately, I have been using Zengjian oral liquid and Ganoderma lucidum yellow for many years. I also insisted on watching Guangdong Satellite TV's "Health is coming" and CCTV 10 Channel's "The Road to Health" column. "
I said to my partner, "Here comes the health expert."
We chatted over tea. We are all talking about health-related topics.
As soon as he opened his mouth, he said a little helplessly: "Life is only 30,000 days, so don't care about right or wrong. Success or failure is calm, and health and happiness are the most valuable. "
I laughed: "It is rare to have such a deep understanding. Although I sympathize with you, I still admire you for your rhetoric and professionalism in those years. Indeed, for men, career is not only a job and a dream, but also a mission. Career is the value of life. "
"I pay too much attention to my career and ignore my health and family, which leads to an imbalance between the three. It is a pity." He said with deep feelings.
"My constitution is also very weak." I also blame myself for saying, "I used to stay up late, often eat midnight snacks, be addicted to alcohol and tobacco, lack exercise, and fail to live, eat, exercise and feel reasonably."
Keng was just about to speak. At this time, a very luxurious car stopped at the door of the studio on the left. I think she has come to buy skin care products, ladies' oral liquid and beauty-moistening oral liquid again. My wife and I both know her. Her name is Shanshan. It seems that she is in her forties, quite a bit feminine, comparable to temperament beauties Chai Lu and Yang Lan.
She is very talkative. I will always remember such a woman.
I said to Shanshan, "Is your car often maintained?"
Shanshan said happily, "Of course, valuable things need maintenance most."
Clang went on to say, "Our motorcycles and bicycles are worthless and don't need maintenance. Just put them aside. "
Unexpectedly, Shanshan's answer is classic: "My husband treats me like a BMW. The point is that I have always regarded myself as a BMW, more BMW than BMW. This is called high-quality life. I attach great importance to health investment and health preservation. If you don't cherish yourself, no one will cherish you. It is better to make yourself valuable than to complain. I am happy physically and mentally, and I am happy every day. "
I smiled and gave Shanshan a thumbs-up sign. She is really sunny and happy.
Shanshan pointed to my swollen belly with her index finger and quipped, "Men need maintenance more. Men are 20 Pentium, 30 Hitachi, 40 Zheng Da, 50 Microsoft, 60 Panasonic and 70 Lenovo. You two big men, both physically and mentally, should be aboveboard, and you must never have Panasonic ideas. Otherwise, before you are 70 years old, you really only have associations when you are 50 years old. " Keng Keng listened with great fascination.
I nodded frequently. I said, "This is the real woman. She spoke vividly and was quite impressed. "
Shanshan said more and more vigorously: "The quality of life is linked to health. Many men and women dare to bask in the luxury decoration of cars, houses, LV and homes on WeChat Weibo, but they dare not bask in their physical and mental health. "
Long said to Shanshan, "You speak very well. Taking care of your health is a responsibility. Good health is the greatest comfort to your family. "
Shanshan also talked about some people, saying: "Some people always have no money to invest in health-no money, and they use thousands when they are sick-no money. When it comes to health-leisure, the prince summoned him to die-busy. " Shanshan made it very clear that I really took it.
If Shanshan's friend hadn't called her, we would have really forgotten the existence of time. Shanshan told us that her friends wanted her to dance and sing.
It's almost lunch time. We simply fried several dishes and bought a bottle of red wine. During the dinner, we talked about people and things related to education, but our good friend has always emphasized the importance of health.
It may be that chatting with people too much, promoting health and spreading positive energy often leads to a chapter: "Everyone needs wealth, but everyone needs health more. If health is represented by'1',family, children, money, villas, cars and so on are represented by' 0'. If you have 10000000 now, once you lose' 1', no matter how many' 0s' there are, 0s are still meaningful.
That's true. The wife said, "Many millionaires, multimillionaires and celebrities are fighting for their careers with health, but they ignore health. Sadly, they died before they could enjoy it. "
I went on to say, "Among the 2 1 corporate executives listed by Caixin. Who died early, the main cause of death from overwork is heart disease, followed by cerebrovascular disease and tumor. Among these 2 1 people, there are 6 people aged 30-40, 7 people aged 40-50, and 8 people over 50. "
Nevertheless, Jingjing knows this better. He said: "Karoshi-a chronic fatigue syndrome in medicine, is a life phenomenon of premature aging and sudden death caused by overwork."
"It's horrible." The wife said, "Wang Junyao, a business tycoon in Zhejiang, the chairman of Shanghai Junyao Milk Company, died young and had assets of 3.5 billion at the age of 38."
"Wang Junyao is not' overworked', but rectal cancer." I went on to say, "His wife remarried to the driver before Wang died. When the driver was happy, he said with emotion: In the past, I thought I was working for my boss, but now I understand that my boss has been working for me! We all think that God is unfair to Wang Junyao.
He said eloquently: "If a man loses his health, his wife will become someone else's bride;" When a woman loses her health, her husband will redecorate her new house; When a child loses his health, his parents will break his liver and intestines; Old people lose their health, and family happiness becomes a luxury; When the poor lose their health, it will add insult to injury. In this kind of life, people are busy without health. "
The wife actually said, "The cruel facts show that health is the most precious wealth. In Gao Shuai, health and longevity are far more important than wealth. "
I went on to say, "There was a boss who studied hard since childhood in order to get ahead, but lost the happiness he deserved as a child. It's a waste of time to start a business as an adult, and it's also a waste of time to fall in love with others. People around him praised his desperate spirit for his career, and he also recognized that he was extremely correct. Some people say that home is the kingdom of father, the world of mother and the paradise of children. He never accompanied his wife across the street and never took his children to the park. "
"This is called being different and great." The wife said: "I still appreciate the plain is the real life."
I said from the bottom of my heart, "I always feel that the ultimate goal of bosses and business executives is probably no longer just to win wealth, but their goal has gone far beyond the concept of money itself." The act of creating miracles at the expense of health and even life should be a kind of responsibility, and it should be a noble character and life realm of self-sacrifice. "
After hearing what I said, I was also very excited: "The boss is also a human being, and there are also bitterness and fragility that are not known to the world. They also need understanding and care, and the country and society need them more. "
I can't help feeling a little sad.
There is such a survey about happiness that three factors play a decisive role in whether a person feels happy, that is, health, family and career.
In fact, health, family and career coexist, and they complement each other, influence each other and promote each other. I have always respected the concept of infinite health: health is the pillar of life, without health, family and career will become bitter and colorless; Family is the destination of life. Without a family, the normal life order will be lost, and health and career will be unsustainable. Career is the embodiment of life value and an important link with society. Without a career, family and health will become "cooking without rice"
Some people say that happiness is a lasting satisfaction with life, and it is a pleasant feeling that life has great fun and natural hope for a long time. Bi Shumin said that happiness is short-term happiness and happiness is long-term happiness.
In order to achieve sustainable development, we must balance health, family and career. Only balance can make life wonderful, make life full of happiness and make success go further. (Original author: voyage)