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Women don't have children until they are 40. What will life be like in the future?
Guess who this 43-year-old mother is?

Some women are 40 years old and their physical function is only 30 years old; Although some women are 40 years old, they are physically like old ladies.

In addition to physical quality and usual maintenance, personal psychological state is also very important. Good mentality and full secretion of pregnancy hormones are beneficial to pregnancy and delivery.

Therefore, it seems meaningless to judge whether life is good after giving birth by age.

A friend of mine, a 40-year-old baby, has a second child. The difference between the child and the boss is 17 years old. Boss is graduating from college soon. She discussed it with her husband and decided to have another one.

But she is in good health, loves sports and can be maintained. When she is with her eldest daughter, others always think that she is a big sister. The second child was born soon, and the child was born in 6 hours, and the child was also very healthy.

Now the family of four is happy, and the boss loves his sister very much. When her husband goes to work, she takes care of the children full-time and is very happy all day. I think she lives happier than me (my second child is a boy, alas! Too naughty).

The best childbearing age for girls is 18 to 28. But now people are under great pressure, and they have to buy a house to work, so it is common to marry late and have children late.

Women give birth to children at the age of 40, mostly second children. Although it is difficult to have a baby after pregnancy, it is no different from ordinary children after birth (some studies even think that children born to older women are smarter, but this statement needs to be verified).

Giving birth to a child at 40 is mainly difficult to raise.

Because the age gap with children is too big, it may be more troublesome for children to manage after school. Today's children are generally smarter and receive more information than the previous generation. Therefore, at the age of 40, it is best to take care of your baby full-time, update your knowledge, read more books and study more.

Of course, it is better to have children earlier, so that you can "retire" earlier. If you don't have financial pressure, it's no problem to have a baby at 40! With a correct attitude, it is equally wonderful for a woman to have a baby at the age of 40!

My 38-year-old son, who was pregnant unexpectedly, felt that God had brought too much joy and love to our little angel. My father and I feel full of energy and motivation to make money. When the children grow up, we are all ready to be 60 years old, and we dare not give up halfway.

I feel that when I am older, I have less energy to take care of my children than when I was young. In particular, sometimes children stay up late for several days when they are ill, and the old mother can only live by the gods. However, most of the time, Bao Xiao is healthy and easy to get along with, so he feels good and his home is very lively.

Raising children requires money to save. Children's diapers, milk powder, growing up and going to school all need money. Fortunately, it is not a large sum of money at once, but it needs to be spent day by day.

It takes time, energy and money to raise children, but we in China like to have many children, many children. We worked hard when we were young and enjoyed the happiness of our children and grandchildren when we were old.

One more child.

Very normal

To tell the truth, the first year will be very tiring physically and mentally. It will be easier if you have family help or better financial conditions. However, the fun of raising children will make up for these tiredness. The child is really an angel. Start your race against time with him/her!

My mother is my 42-year-old brother. She is my mother's sixth child, with five daughters in front. I don't need to say, it must be for a son. At that time, children were easy to raise and there were so many prostitutes to help, but the life of six children was also quite difficult.

Although the mother's son was born in his forties, he still lost his son's care in his later years. After all, daughters have their own families and grandchildren, and their mothers are mainly taken care of by their younger brothers. In the last few years, her legs and feet were not neat, and none of us girls had the strength to carry her. My brother is a boy, so you can easily carry her.

Therefore, if you still have a chance to have children at the age of 40, it must be a very big fate. Although it is hard to take care of children when they are old, children will still be very happy to enjoy the happiness of old children!

Everyone has his own way of life, and life is meaningful only if he is full of confidence and hope. So no matter how long you have children, as long as there is hope, a beautiful life must belong to you.

I think a woman will have a baby at the age of 40. First of all, economic conditions will be better. She doesn't have to worry about life. She can provide a better living environment for children and has some life experience. There should be no problem in life. It may be that the body and mind will be overwhelmed, and it will be difficult to restore the body shape after childbirth, because by the age of forty, women's physical functions in all aspects began to decline, especially in raising children. This is my personal opinion [shyness]

What will life be like for a woman who gives birth to a child at the age of 40?

This question is up to you. Most people who decide to have children at this age are second or third children. Of course, there are also cases of late marriage and late childbirth.

When a woman gives birth at the age of 40, she has no energy to go to work again. Most of them can only be full-time mothers, raise their children well and become old people themselves.

Therefore, the best way to have children at this age is to have a certain economic foundation and life planning, which is a responsibility to the children and themselves.

Because of age, it is not easy to raise a child safely and sincerely, but once something goes wrong, there will be confusion and schizophrenia without coping measures and stress resistance.

When you are old, having children is very harmful to your health. Therefore, you must sit still and relax. Taking care of your health is the greatest help to your child.

Personally, I was 38 years old when I gave birth to Bao Xiao. My physical fitness is not very good. All three children were delivered by caesarean section, so I became weaker after giving birth to Bao Xiao.

Because of limited conditions, I don't pay much attention to maintaining my body. Now, my physical condition has not been very good.

So, now I especially regret my hasty decision, but seeing that Bao Xiao is so smart and lovely, and I feel that the decision at that time was right, I am very contradictory.

This is the different feeling after being a mother!

Now my little Bao is almost two years old, and I don't go to work, but I take care of the baby at home full time. So the experience is a little stressful, and sometimes I feel helpless. While thinking about how to grow up with children, I also think about how to earn more money and give children better living conditions.

I think this is also a problem that many treasure moms have been entangled in!

Therefore, it is best to have children while they are young. At that time, my parents-in-law were also young and healthy, and they could help with the children. They also have the energy to travel and lay the foundation for their later life.

When you have a child around the age of 40, you must be mentally prepared ~ Only with an economic foundation, a plan and good physical quality can you and your child live a happy life!

Women are a little worried about having children at this age. It is ok if the economic conditions are good, but they are more worried about the life after having children. Of course, everyone has different ideas, different mentality and different life.

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