On the evening of May 25th, I attended the funeral of my best friend's mother, stayed up all night, and accompanied her to the last journey in the world.

My best friend's mother started coughing a few months ago and felt tired when she went upstairs. After a few steps, she stopped to catch her breath. At first, I thought it was just a small cold, and I didn't care much. I just bought some medicine to eat.

At the end of April, my best friend's mother coughed more and more. In order not to delay her daughter's work, she went to a small clinic to prepare an injection, thinking that she might get well soon. Who knows that the doctor in the clinic said after a simple examination with a stethoscope: "Your cough is not a simple cold, it is caused by your heart. I suggest you go to the hospital for a good check. "

My best friend's mother went to the county hospital alone and called her daughter because she was worried that her daughter didn't have enough change. After receiving the call, my girlfriend rushed to the hospital and saw my mother sitting alone in a corner. Suddenly, her nose hurts. "I have always felt that my mother is not old and still very healthy. At that moment, I realized that my mother was getting old, and I realized that I didn't care about my mother at ordinary times. " After arranging my mother, my best friend walked into the doctor's office. Without saying anything, the doctor handed me a piece of paper, and the words on it made her almost limp. Urgent notice.

My girlfriend opened her mouth for a long time, but she didn't react. "Is it not a cough?" Not that serious? "

The doctor said, "Your mother's cough is not a simple cold, but because of her heart." Now her heart has begun to fail! I suggest you go to the state hospital for further examination. "

Deal with family affairs. On May 3rd, my best friend took her mother to the state hospital for further examination. She thought her mother was just coughing a little, and the county hospital must have made a wrong diagnosis!

Who knows, after some examination, the state hospital doctor also handed her a notice of critical illness. "Your mother is really heart failure, sudden death is possible at any time. Now, the only solution is to replace the valve. If the operation is successful, the life of 10- 15 years can be prolonged. Moreover, the hospital has done more than 20,000 such operations, and only two cases failed. However, there are certain risks. I suggest you discuss it with your family before making a decision. "

If the family thinks it's okay to operate, do it. At least there is a chance.

My best friend's mother also heard that she can live 10- 15 years after the operation, so give it a try.

So with great hope, I decided to have an operation.

After the operation on May 23rd, my best friend and her family waited anxiously outside the operating room for more than nine hours. Seeing her mother being pushed out of the operating room, the doctor said, "The operation was very successful, and now all the physical indicators are normal." My best friend and family cried with joy. They thought they had finally taken their mother back from death.

My best friend said, who knows that in less than 20 minutes, doctors and nurses are in a mess, only to hear the doctor shout loudly: "The patient's physical indicators are declining, so hurry to promote the operating room."

My best friend said that I only heard the sound of rescue from the emergency room. I only saw the nurse pushing one instrument after another. It was not until 4 o'clock in the morning on the 24th that the doctor came out and said, "Our hospital is running out of antihypertensive drugs, and the situation is not ideal, but we will try our best to save it."

At one o'clock in the afternoon on the 24th, the doctor came out again and said, "Sorry, we have tried our best. Go in and take a last look at your mother. "

My girlfriend walked into the emergency room and saw her mother lying on the operating table with a tube inserted all over her body, holding back her tears. She said in her mother's ear, "Mom, don't worry, the operation was a success!" " She doesn't know if her mother can hear, but she hopes her mother will realize it.

At ten past two, my best friend's mother left forever. ...

I remember my best friend saying, "Mom walked into the operating room."

Who ever thought that this trip would never come out. This trip is farewell!

My heart can't be calm for days. I think if my best friend had known some health knowledge earlier, my mother might not have walked so fast! If I could share the concept of "three healthy supports" with her earlier, her mother might not walk so fast!

I can't help but think of the courses shared by the principal in the business school. Whoever solves the pain points of society will seize the opportunity. In this materialistic and competitive society, I personally think that health is one of the biggest pain points of this era! Although more and more people will start to pay attention to health care, have you found that most of them are people over 50 years old? Most people in their twenties and forties still think that health is important but not urgent. Since there is no hurry, let it go, there is no harm. Who knows, this release may lead to various sub-health, this release may lead to various chronic diseases, and this release may be life-threatening!

The best way to solve this pain point is "three branches of health", nutrition, maintenance and cultivation. Fortunately, I recently learned some common health knowledge and some ideas behind ternary health care from nutritionist Yun Dan. I will summarize and sort out my learning experience and share it with you in subsequent articles.

If nothing else, I only hope to share health and three educations as my lifelong mission, and I only hope to help more people stay away from hospitals!