Pay attention to where to eat, what to eat and who to eat with, so the dining table has become a witness of human relations and eating has become a science.
No matter in which country, people have a soft spot for "eating". When they see delicious food, they often make people feel happy and even get carried away. Many details will reveal your true self.
If you want to get to know someone, you should start by having dinner with him.
A person's diet reflects his family upbringing.
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The boss of an enterprise invited guests to dinner, accompanied by two new college students.
The guest is from the south, and the taste of the food is relatively light, so the food ordered is more in line with the guest's taste.
But the new college students are all Sichuanese and like spicy food, so they keep complaining that they don't have their favorite food.
Although the boss was unhappy, he was not easy to get angry, so he ordered two spicy ones.
As a result, after these two dishes were served, they were "dominated" by the two college students in front of them, chatting and eating, and didn't care.
After eating, he boasted, "These two dishes are not bad."
After returning to the company, the boss immediately dismissed the two college students without any explanation.
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A large enterprise recruited a logistics minister, and after some sea elections and written interviews, ten people were finally selected.
The company invited these ten people to the company at the same time. The examiner chatted casually with everyone for a while and invited everyone to have dinner together.
After dinner, the examiner announced that the interview was over and the candidate for logistics minister had been determined.
No one thought that the last exam was actually a meal, and it was a buffet. By the time everyone understood, the candidate for logistics minister had been decided.
It's the man who takes as much as he eats and even pours the last mouthful of soup into porridge to drink.
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Xiaoming from high flyers went to apply for a job in a Fortune 500 company. Because of his outstanding achievements and various performances, he was successfully invited to attend the interview dinner of company executives.
During the dinner, he consciously behaved appropriately, but it was not him who successfully applied for the job.
Xiao Ming is very angry. He thinks there must be a shady behind this.
Finally, the recruitment department told Xiao Ming that he was really superior in ability, and the reason why he was screened out by the executives was because at the dinner, which was the last link of the interview:
He never thanked any waiter.
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On the eve of the Spring Festival, Mei Mei's parents came to Beijing to celebrate the Spring Festival with her. When Mei Mei's boyfriend found out, he quickly booked a familiar restaurant and tried his best to show off at the dinner party.
But when I got home, Mei Mei's parents spoke: Your boyfriend is not in our eyes!
First, when he booked the restaurant, he didn't ask your opinion or the taste of our food.
Second, catching up with the pre-holiday banquet peak and serving slowly, he urged the waiter many times, and his attitude was very unfriendly. He often complained and called the manager.
Third, during the dinner, his mobile phone rang, so he can tell the other party that he has something to do and contact him later; If it's urgent, you can also say you're sorry and leave. But he answered the phone while eating and talked for more than ten minutes. All of us can only sit opposite him, eating awkwardly and listening to him on the phone.
Mei Mei hesitated after hearing his parents' judgment.
It is often said that a glimpse of the whole leopard can convey the spirit at a glance.
Meimei's boyfriend's behavior is enough to see his true character, and he is a person who is not worth entrusting for life.
Invite others to dinner, but don't ask for others' opinions and make decisions without authorization, whether the guests like it or not.
There is a joke that when a man is eating, his attitude towards the waiter is the attitude he will treat his wife in the future. For such a person who yells at the waiter and doesn't even understand the most basic etiquette, girls must keep their eyes open. Such a person can't marry.
How much respect do you expect you and your family to get in the future if you don't even have the most basic dining etiquette when eating?
He only has eyes for himself, only me. After a long time, he will boss you around like a nanny and be the shopkeeper of cutting.
A small dining table can reflect a person, his education and personality.
I can also indirectly see what kind of family he has behind him.
Those who know how to put down their mobile phones at the dinner table and talk to people around them are good people.
Those who always silently melt their deep love and careful care into plain three meals a day are the partners worthy of joining hands for life.
Seeing your personality at the dinner table, many details have exposed your truth.
Some people say that a man's attitude towards a waiter before marriage is his attitude towards his wife after marriage.
Although this is a bit extreme, how you treat waiters at business or private dinners reflects not only politeness and upbringing, but also emotional intelligence.
Accusing and threatening the waiter blindly may slow down the serving speed.
Friends with high emotional intelligence will say, "Little girl, you are so beautiful and move so fast, which will definitely make our dishes serve faster." Thank you! "
Encouragement and praise are valid for anyone. At this time, what you show others is the ability to easily resolve things.
You can consider other people's feelings, book a restaurant that is convenient for everyone, consider whether the food suits everyone's taste, and arrange comfortable seats. ...
A etiquette teacher once said that her mother taught her that when inviting people to dinner, she should be careful to cooperate with the guests' eating speed, and she should not put down the chopsticks before the guests enjoyed themselves.
Because once the host stops eating chopsticks, the guests are embarrassed to continue eating.
Table manners, the sooner you know, the better
The word "personality" when eating reflects not only politeness and upbringing, but also emotional intelligence.
Being able to get together for dinner is mostly for feelings, whether it is family, friendship and love, or purely for career. As long as you want to better contact feelings, you must show good manners and character at the dinner table.
If you want to harvest a good interpersonal circle, you still need to do these things well at the dinner table:
About seats:
When dining with others, avoid competing for seats and be polite and humble; When seated, slow down, handle with care, and remember not to drag and drop to make noise; If you have acquaintances around you, take the initiative to say hello. If you are surrounded by strangers, you should also nod and smile to avoid embarrassment. You can only sit down if the other person agrees.
About ordering:
When ordering food before eating, you should distinguish between the attributes of the table and the host and guest; If it is a family meal, it is recommended to choose affordable dishes, business meals should choose the dishes that customers like, and friends should order the dishes that everyone likes; If it's a treat, the guests will order first, and then you can order after others confirm that you will order the food, and ask the guests about their hobbies, taboos, allergies, etc.
About politeness:
Politeness is very important when eating, the status is different, and the order of moving chopsticks. Remember to sit on the table, move chopsticks and grab food.
When picking vegetables, don't put the tableware in the dish bowl, flip the food at will, and don't talk until the food in your mouth is finished;
If you want to recommend food, suggest not to use chopsticks to pick up food for others and force others to eat it;
Toast pays attention to the etiquette of respect and inferiority, remember to toast casually, forcibly persuade and compete for wine;
During the meal, if there is an emergency, you should answer the phone or take care of others, and apologize before leaving. Don't talk loudly when eating, don't answer the phone, and don't deal with irrelevant things.
Be considerate to the people you dine with, and be polite and gentle to the waiter. Remember to be strict.
These table manners can make you a more popular person and help you see a person's personality clearly. Remember, it is polite to eat with others, but the most important thing is that they are relaxed, comfortable, happy and can talk.
I hope you can be a gentle and polite person, loved by everyone, and have a good personality at the dining table, which will bring you good luck.