However, many families are full of contradictions and scars because of "two concerns". The reason is that the male chauvinism of Putian People's Congress is at work, men are superior to women, men and women are unequal, and men are preferred to women. Male power should not be given to women, and absolute control should not be given to women. At the same time, women should be deprived of their inheritance rights. If you want to "take care of both", the man will feel humiliated and have a bad reputation. In order to control and save face, there are many contradictions between the two sides, and they fight endlessly, and both sides lose, which has advantages and disadvantages.