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What is good and what is bad?
It snows heavily and beautifully today. I saw the traffic outside after work and thought there would be traffic jams. So I invited two good colleagues to go home for a party and find a place to eat and chat.

The snow is still falling, fluttering and spreading, and it feels beautiful. The three of us talked and laughed all the way to the old wolf saute spicy chicken near the company. This is an old shop, although the door is not so good, but the taste is really a must. Soon, a few bottles of beer and some side dishes were served.

The three people have a good relationship, are similar in age, have many common topics, and often have a good time in this shop.

"Last year was really a difficult year. I didn't make any money. My daughter-in-law is angry with me every day and bothers me. Now she always doesn't want to go home. " Ajie took another cup and said gloomily.

Ayang also raised his glass and said, "I'm fine now. It's good to have a surplus after paying off the mortgage every month. Now my family babysits for us, which relieves a lot of pressure, but my parents don't have any income. I told my daughter-in-law to give them a month 1000. After all, it is not easy for old people to buy food, cook, wash clothes and bring children every day. My wife just doesn't agree. " I think I've had a bad time, and it's even worse to give them living expenses. "

"Daughter-in-law always feels that the mortgage pressure is high and she is not doing well, but we obviously have some savings, and I will give her 5,000 yuan of living expenses every month. She actually said something bad. Alas, I really don't know what is good and what is bad. " Yang wry smile way.

I smiled and said, "Every family has its own problems. After I paid off the mortgage, there was basically nothing left, let alone anything else. "

"But I don't think it's too much to ask the elderly for living expenses. If the economy permits, I feel very good. " Ajie muttered while eating chicken feet.

"I am very depressed now. What is good and what is bad? I gave her all the money I should have given. Maybe I can't spend much money, but at least this is all we can give. " Ajie shook his head and sighed.

This topic was soon changed to another topic, and we are talking about it all over the world. In short, when people arrive, there are too many regrets and too many disappointments.

I came home at night and chatted with my daughter-in-law. I asked her, what do you think is good and what is bad? She thought for a moment and said that in fact, her family is harmonious, she gets along well with her mother-in-law, and her family is in good health. She can eat Haidilao once a week, watch 1 movie and travel once a year. Normal people usually eat whatever they want and buy whatever they want. This is her best life. She doesn't want much, and she doesn't want to buy expensive bags and jewelry. She feels that she has a house to live in and a husband to accompany her often. If you have a bad life, it's probably the opposite.

I didn't expect my daughter-in-law to say such a thing, and I burst into tears for a moment. She has done a lot for me and my family, but she always asks for little. Recently, I always feel backache with my children. I owe her this. In fact, what she said is just what I can do at present. I know that she is an ambitious girl who loves to dress up and be beautiful. Before she married me, she lived like a star, but now she is telling me with actions that she has not abandoned the life that most people can give to her lover. She thinks she is very happy now.

This makes me feel ashamed. How can I not try to give her a better life?

How lucky to have such a wife!