Unacceptable. The gap between ideal and reality is so great that you have not considered the "weakness" of human nature! Personally, I really don't recommend that ordinary people choose to hold a group. There are indeed too many security risks, and their physical condition cannot be guaranteed. I can't even understand my own children, let alone bring a group of elderly friends who can't take care of themselves.

First, what to eat is not uniform.

Some elderly people usually like to eat vegetarian food, which they think is good for their health. However, some of our elderly people think that eating vegetarian food every day has no nutrition at all, and we should eat more meat, fish, eggs and other foods to increase nutrition. Even when cooking, we sometimes have serious differences on whether it is light or spicy.

Second, different lifestyles.

The old man has never experienced too few husband and wife running-in, and each has a temper and character developed over the years. Suddenly, I will find that their lifestyles are very different, their living habits are very different, and their living customs are different in details. All this leads to unhappiness, but it will breed a series of troubles. Especially for the elderly with strong personalities, if they live together for a long time, there will only be more contradictions, not less. And maybe there are many couples, and they will quarrel if they disagree. In the end, they will either become the aggrieved party or the angry party. Therefore, it is risky for the elderly to hold a group and need careful heating. There is an unexpected gap between the imaginary group heating and the real group heating.

Third, my heart will be unbalanced.

Different old people have different interests. Since they are not husband and wife, they are not the same interests. Economic expenditure related to daily life, no matter who is more or less, will be controversial. Not to mention doing housework, some people are diligent and some are lazy. Since no one owes anyone, the inner balance of the diligent party will be unbalanced sooner or later. As for the lazy party, it will change from habitual laziness to natural laziness, treat the diligent party as a free domestic servant, and often live a life of putting on clothes and reaching out. When they are not equal to each other, when they are unable to provide for the elderly, they will get together if they want, and they will leave if they want, which will still become extravagant hopes, and it is very likely that they will break up in discord. Since we are disappointed in each other, let's die of old age. It can be seen that the price of pension failure is the social circle of Skyworth coefficient for ten years.

Fourth, I think that for a long time, at least for now, this new way of "supporting the elderly" is basically difficult to achieve.

Mainly because everyone's living habits, temperament, personality and so on are completely different. Maybe it's ok for everyone to live together for a short time, but after a long time, everyone is likely to have contradictions and conflicts because of these differences.

At the same time, everyone's different economic situation and specific consumption habits will make it difficult for everyone to live and live together in the future. After all, everyone's pursuit of material life is completely different.

Most importantly, many times, each of us has a different view on the three things. People with different things will not only be tired, but also difficult to last long, because people with different things are like parallel lines, no matter how far they go, they are not people on the same road. They are different and do not need to be strongly integrated.

Therefore, if our old people want to realize this new way of providing for the aged, they must meet the following conditions as much as possible.

First of all, for the old people who support each other to support the elderly, we must be open-minded, don't care too much about everything, and be more tolerant and understand each other. Only in this way can the probability of contradictions and conflicts be greatly reduced. Otherwise, we will often have conflicts because of some trivial things in our lives.

Secondly, it can't be said that the three views of the elderly who decide to support the elderly together are exactly the same, but at least they should be basically the same. Only people with the same three views can get along for a long time. The so-called "bitter, bitter, bitter, bitter" actually means this.

Finally, for the elderly who decide to support the elderly together, it is best not to concentrate their daily life together, but to do it separately. In other words, everyone should have their own independent space and life. If we have to be together, more time is limited to chatting, entertainment and leisure. As the saying goes, "distance makes beauty", so does the old people's pension.

Holding a group to support the elderly is a wonderful way to support the elderly, but it actually has many disadvantages. If other elderly people want to choose, they must be careful.

Finally, I think it is really the best choice for the elderly to save more money, pay attention to their health and not worry about their children. Give up those unrealistic and beautiful "hugs". Everyone underestimated the weakness of human nature!