Because the mother-in-law has no blood relationship with herself, no matter how good the relationship is, it will not be as good as that of the mother-in-law, because different roles and status will make each other have different views. As daughters-in-law, we all want to treat our mother-in-law as our own mother, but some things are really difficult. Many mothers-in-law say that they will treat their daughters as their own daughters. Because of different ages and different ideas, we can't agree on anything, so there will be many contradictions.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, as long as we respect each other, we can't force others to follow our ideas, so as long as we respect our son, our wife respects her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law respects her daughter-in-law. When the son and daughter-in-law form their small family, the mother-in-law will give up the position of hostess and stop interfering in the life between the young couple, making the daughter-in-law feel that she is the hostess of the family. In many families, some of the main reasons for the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are that mother-in-law has not found her position correctly. She even thinks that when a daughter-in-law marries into her own home, she must obey her own arrangements. Keep a certain distance between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which will also reduce some contradictions.
When we get along with our mother-in-law, we don't have to be as close as mother and daughter, and we don't have to talk about everything. We only need to communicate with our mother-in-law what we want to say, and we can also make the relationship more harmonious. We can respect each other, and when we treat our mother-in-law sincerely, her mother-in-law can feel it. As long as we pay, we will also get the reward from our mother-in-law, so this is also mutual.