The phase is born from the heart, and the environment turns with the heart. Everything in the world can only be obtained by giving up. If you don't give up, you won't get it. Small house is small, big house is big. Learn to let go, learn to move forward lightly, in order to go further and walk more lightly.
As the ancients said, a bosom friend doesn't blame others, and know life doesn't blame heaven. After a miserable life, the soul is full of scars. If you live happily all your life, life will become happy. Like half a glass of water, some people only see that the glass is half empty. Some people will be content that the glass is half full. Ups and downs, this is the normal state of life. Do your best, and then know your destiny.
The monk's inscription on faith says, "A wise man does nothing, but a fool binds himself." In other words, the wise get rid of the secular, let nature take its course, and don't do what they can't do. Even a fool can't get over it. They always tie themselves tight and worry about things that cannot be changed.
The old monk and the young monk traveled and met a river. I saw a woman trying to cross the river, but she didn't dare. The old monk took the initiative to carry the woman across the river, then put the woman down and continued on his way with the young monk.
The young monk couldn't help asking in a low voice all the way: What happened to Master? How dare you cross the river with a woman on your back? After walking all the way and thinking all the way, I finally couldn't help but say, master, are you breaking the rules? Why are you taking a woman?
The old monk sighed: I have put it down, but you still can't put it down!
Be a person like this old monk, be frank and open, follow your heart, don't be too persistent, and learn to let go at the right time. For example, you will no longer control your emotions because of other people's words and deeds. For example, I don't care about other people's eyes and comments on you, but I care more about my feelings.
A young man came all the way to find the master with a big bag on his back. He said, "Master, I'm so lonely, so miserable, so lonely, and the long journey has exhausted me to the extreme;" My shoes are torn and thorns cut my feet; My hand is hurt and bleeding. I lost my voice because of the long shouting. Why can't I find the sunshine in my heart? "
The master asked, "What's in your big package?" The young man said, "It means a lot to me. It contains the pain of every fall, every cry after injury, and every lonely worry. I can bring it to you. "
So the master took the young people to the river, and they crossed the river by boat. After landing, the master said, "Go ahead with your boat!" "What, ship?" The young man was surprised. "It's so heavy, can I carry it?" "Yes, son, you can't take it." The master smiled and said, "when crossing the river, the boat is useful." But when we cross the river, we will put down the boat and continue our way. Otherwise, it will become our burden. Pain, loneliness, loneliness, disaster, tears, these experiences can sublimate life, but never forget them, it becomes a burden of life. Put the gun down. Children, life can't be too heavy. "
The young man put down his luggage and went on his way. He found his steps very relaxed and happy. It turns out that life is not so heavy.
The cloth bag monk has a poem: "Walking is also a cloth bag, and sitting is also a cloth bag. How comfortable it is to put down the bag. " Only by letting go can we unload the burden of body and mind and make the journey of life easier. Life, in fact, is like this, but you have to bear it in the face of helplessness. Sometimes, letting go is a kind of relief, a kind of turning back, a kind of calmness and a kind of indifference.
Bring a book, make a cup of tea, meditate and cultivate vitality. Be generous and willing to do things, strive to be a transparent and open-minded person in this busy earthly dust, and cultivate a sense of certainty and calmness. In my spare time, I prune hedges, plant chrysanthemums, live a happy and self-sufficient life and grow old slowly. In spring and autumn, do what you want to do, love the people you love, let go of greed, anger and worry, travel lightly in happiness and achieve better yourself.
Wise Leshan Mountain is picturesque, while benevolent people enjoy endless water. Have a drink and a cup of tea, and take your time. Small stone bridges with drizzle and small bamboo rafts with spring breeze. There is no bright moon and flowers dancing solo at night, and I am full of poems and books.
In order to live, we must let go of the past. We can't change the past experience, but we can change our attitude towards it. Learn to unload your baggage and let yourself go into battle lightly, and the natural situation will change from your heart and you will be at ease.
The past cannot be remonstrated, and those who come can still be chased. Only by traveling light can you run and dream.