An old lady has two daughters. The eldest daughter married an umbrella shop. The second daughter became the supervisor of the laundry. In this way, the old lady was afraid that her eldest daughter's umbrella could not be sold in sunny days, and that her second daughter's clothes could not be dried in rainy days, and she was on tenterhooks all day.

Later, someone said to the old lady, "Old lady, you are really blessed. The second daughter's home is full of customers on sunny days, and the eldest daughter's business is booming on rainy days. " The old lady thinks so, alas, really! Simply looking at the problem from another angle, the old lady who has been worried all day has become carefree.

2. Inventor Edison?

Edison, a great inventor, after studying more than 8000 kinds of materials that are not suitable for filament, someone asked him: You have failed more than 8000 times. What's the use of continuing to study? Edison said, I have never failed. On the contrary, I found more than 8000 kinds of materials that are not suitable for filament. Looking at the problem from another angle, the problem is completely different.

Sometimes, coming out of failure is also a kind of success. The real gain is to see the gain from failure. If you are immersed in the pain of failure all day, you will never succeed.

3. Is there anything interesting on the mountain? ?

On the way to climb the mountain, a group of enthusiastic people met the tired people who came down from the mountain. So, the climber asked the people who came down the mountain, what's the matter? Is there anything interesting on the mountain? Some people who went down the mountain said disappointedly, no, nothing, just a ruined temple ... while others said that the scenery on the mountain is very good and the scenery in the distance is infinite!

If you are a climber, after hearing these words, are you stagnant, disappointed, or continue climbing? At this time, you should learn to look at the problem from another angle. Everyone may have different views on the same thing. Give yourself a smile and a chance to climb up and have a look. In fact, the scenery you see is the same as what others see, but it feels different. ?

4. Is wealth incomplete or boundless? ?

Yu, a famous painter in China, is good at painting peonies. Once, someone asked for a peony he painted. When he came back, he happily hung it in the living room. A friend of this man saw it and shouted unlucky, because the peony was not painted completely, and a part was missing, and the peony represented wealth and a corner was missing. Isn't it "getting old before you get rich"?

This person is also very surprised at first sight, and thinks that peony is always inappropriate without one side. He took it back and prepared to ask Yu to draw a new picture. After listening to his reason, I had a brainwave and told the buyer that since peony represents wealth, if one party is missing, wouldn't it be rich and boundless? After listening to his explanation, the man felt reasonable and went back happily with the painting.

The same painting has different views because of different mentality. Therefore, we should take a positive attitude in everything, think on the bright side, don't look at anything unpleasant, and learn to look at the problem from another angle, so that we will have less troubles, pains and complaints, and more happiness and peace. ?

People who are full of complaints might as well look at the problem from another angle. ?

According to legend, the abbot of a temple made a special rule for the temple: at the end of each year, the monks in the temple should say two words to the abbot. At the end of the first year, the abbot asked Xinhe what he wanted to say. Xinhe Shang said, "The bed is hard." At the end of the second year, the abbot asked him what he wanted to say most, and he replied, "Poor food."

At the end of the third year, without waiting for the abbot to ask, he said, "Goodbye." The abbot looked at the back of the new monk and said to himself, "It's a pity that you have a demon in your heart and it's hard to achieve positive results! Unfortunately! " The new monk chose the opposite of life. He has a negative attitude towards the world. He doesn't know how to look at the problem from another angle, and he always complains. It is because of his complaints that he lost the opportunity to make a positive result.

Whether you complain or not, it's because you have the wrong attitude and look at the problem from the wrong angle. If we can look at the problem from a different angle with a positive attitude, I believe people's mood will suddenly get better.

The quality of a thing in a person's mind lies not in the thing itself, but in the person's mentality. As Mr. Wang Guowei said, "Everything looks at me, so everything is my color." People who are full of complaints might as well look at the problem from another angle and let optimism dominate themselves, and their mood will definitely be different.