What are the five rules we must know about how to cultivate children's strong psychology? Children are always emotional. Although many people say that children are still young, they still don't want their children to be so fragile. They want their children to be strong enough and have a certain ability to withstand pressure. The following is how to cultivate a strong child in your heart.

Physical and mental health is equally important. Most parents will tell their children to brush their teeth and rinse their mouths, eat more vegetables and exercise more, but rarely talk about the concept of mental health. Parents should take it as an important daily task to shape their children's strong hearts. The family should practice psychological literacy together and talk about the benefits of psychological strength. If necessary, they can invite a group of psychologists.

The scientific research on emotional feelings shows that 60% of college students are ready for early admission in their studies, but they are not psychologically and emotionally. Most college students expect their parents to teach them how to deal with bad emotions, such as fear of cold, anxiety and powerlessness. Parents seldom show their emotions in front of their children except anger and excitement. Conclusion: Children don't know how to identify various emotions and lack solutions. Why don't parents add some words to express their emotions in their daily conversations, tell their children how they feel, help them identify their emotions, and manage their emotions actively and healthily.

Teach children to think realistically. When children show pessimism, guilt and negative emotions, parents should educate their children to look at problems from different angles and solve difficulties after rational thinking. For example, parents can tell their children what they think: "I always have all kinds of worries before giving a speech, but I can give myself some positive psychological hints and tell myself that I am ready. As long as I try my best, I will definitely play well."

Take positive action and set an example. Parents should tell their children that their means will change bad emotions and feelings. If today's campus is not satisfactory, you can do something to make yourself feel better when you get home. Parents also need to set an example for their children. For example, they can say, "I feel a little tired, but cooking dinner for the whole family needs my special satisfaction."

Many parents like to help their children solve difficulties, but their children's development can't be smooth sailing, and they need many opportunities to shape their problem-solving methods and work ability. When children encounter problems, parents should restrain the idea of helping them deal with them, and encourage them to think about what to do first, and then discuss it together to find the best solution.