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Everyone who exercises knows that running or lifting weights will make the muscles ache for a while because the muscles are slightly torn. As long as you don't exercise excessively, your muscles will be stronger than before.
People evolve every time they fail, even our muscles.
Shi Yuzhu said such a sentence:
Man, this animal, every time he succeeds, his IQ drops a little; Every time I fail, my IQ goes up.
Many times, we don't have to be so nervous to make mistakes.
1. It is a false proposition not to make mistakes all your life.
My friend Xiao Kai said to me on the first day of his employment: "I am a new employee, and I will try my best to minimize the error rate."
However, because he was not familiar with his own business, Xiao Kai made several mistakes in succession. When collecting data, the format is not uniform, the invoice arrangement format is wrong, and even the drawing style of WeChat official account has some problems. As a result, the person in charge called her over and said a few words.
Xiao Kai is depressed: Why are you so careful but always make mistakes? She was even so anxious that she wanted to resign.
In the eyes of many people, making mistakes is synonymous with being unreliable and unprofessional.
In fact, as long as we seek development in a new field, we can't avoid making mistakes.
Xiao Liu, who is also a newcomer in the workplace, is more calm than Xiao Kai. He said that people make mistakes anyway. The first time you make a mistake, instead of being scared, you should think about how to remedy it and how to avoid it next time.
Surprisingly, the leader has a good impression of him, feeling that the young man is highly involved and can correct his mistakes.
Being brave in taking responsibility and solving problems quickly makes it easier to win the tolerance and trust of others.
There is no god in this world, and there is no hero who doesn't come out of failed attempts again and again:
Amazon kept trying and making mistakes in the early stage, experiencing hundreds of failures and losing 2 million a year.
Wanda Group also experienced numerous failures before its success. It is said that he was charged 222 times in the first three years.
Yu Jianjun, co-founder of Himalayan FM, failed to start a business for more than 50 times, and only eight people were left at the worst.
There is no fairy tale on the road to success. Ren Zheng Fei was fired at the age of 44 and forced to start his own business at an advanced age. Ma Yun cried in the taxi, and Liu became old overnight. You are still young, but you have failed several times.
Many people forget that before "diligence can make up for mistakes", the first thing to face is to continue to stand up and fight after being knocked down again and again.
Before success, no one has not been visited by failure. The phrase "failure is the mother of success" has never been empty talk.
The price of fear of making mistakes is mediocrity.
It is difficult to make mistakes when we are faced with familiar fields or unchanging life. When you haven't made a mistake for a long time, maybe you should be alert:
Have I not made progress for too long?
I'm afraid a young man will tell me: I can't afford it. You are still young, how can you be old?
Why bother? Tossing means you are looking for new possibilities in a strange field.
Many great bestsellers come from mistakes. Without these attempts, the world will never progress.
Coca-Cola is the happy water for many people, but do you know how it came from?
John pemberton, an American pharmacist, concocted a medicinal drink "Coca-Cola" for refreshing, relieving fatigue and treating headache. This is the embryonic form of Coca-Cola, which initially contained no gas.
Once an alcoholic came to the store to buy this drink. The clerk wants to be lazy. Originally, he wanted to add white water to make it. It's a little far, so he mixed soda water nearby. As a result, the sugar water turned into carbonated drinks. Later, it was popularized, and there were bottles of Coca-Cola.
If there is no wrong blending, it is difficult for us to drink such refreshing and happy water. A mistake is like a gap in a thing, but a gap may also be where the sun shines.
Cowards are afraid of cracks, but wise people like to see the new world through cracks.
The popular potato chips are said to have been discovered by a bad-tempered chef in 1853 to amuse guests.
A guest didn't like the thick potato chips fried by the chef and asked to cut the potatoes thinner. The cook was very angry and decided to give the guests some color to see, so he deliberately cut the potatoes very, very thin, fried them crisply, and then added some salt to serve them to the guests.
The result surprised him, and the guest was very satisfied and ordered another one. Potato chips were born.
If you are always nervous and afraid of making mistakes, what can you achieve?
If you don't want to be completely mediocre, don't be afraid to make mistakes and try, because there is no other shortcut to success.
Every mistake is a new growth.
Successful people often experience dozens or hundreds of failures, but the world can only see their bright side.
However, when you accept failure and learn from it, you will eventually become one of the few winners.
Friend Xiaoying wants to start a business, so she asks her cousin who has succeeded in starting a business. My cousin told her:
No matter what kind of work you do, you have to accumulate for two or three years, because only by paying enough tuition through failure will you know where to start.
Xiaoying's cousin started selling online classes and lost everything. He realized that he was not the material for learning, and online classes could not be played according to this routine. He concluded that his specialty lies in affinity, not authority.
So I switched to sales and started selling health care products, and I was cheated. He also realized that he lacked the common sense of keeping in good health, which would take at least several years to accumulate. The important thing is that no one around him knows what to do.
In the third transformation, he learned a lesson and began to pay attention to whether there were experts around him who knew a certain line. He found that his daughter-in-law knew a lot about luxury goods, so he had a new idea: why don't I start retailing luxury bags?
So far, Xiaoying's cousin has opened a third branch.
Xiaoying asked her cousin, aren't you upset that you failed?
Cousin told her: when you are proud, the truth you summed up is often empty, and success will make you go to your head. Only when you fail, the lessons learned are the most real. Therefore, when you fail, you must sum up in time, which is the best growth opportunity.
Every hardship is an experience; Every blow is a transformation; Every setback is a kind of growth, and every failure is a kind of wealth.
Zuckerberg also said: Don't worry that you will often make mistakes. Mistakes are where you can learn.
As long as we have accumulated enough experience, even Xu's assault can bear fruit. If you keep learning from failure, you can always leave the vortex of failure slowly.
"Great nutrition comes from many people's mistakes." From a teacher to a business tycoon, perhaps what Ma Yun deserves our study most is his strong reflection and perseverance. He once said: "I spend the most time studying how domestic and foreign enterprises fail."
Even Ma Yun, who has such a high EQ and IQ, can benefit from the lessons of failure.
In terms of cost calculation, my personal experiment failed. If I don't summarize, the income is almost zero.
If we can learn from others' failure experience and study hard, it will be zero-cost trial and error, which is simply too cost-effective.
The experience of failure is like the nourishment of growth. When you absorb enough nutrition, one day, you will also become a towering tree. Cheer up and always remind yourself: "Hey! I will do better next time. "
Believe me, I can really do better next time.