You ask this question as if you were happy by marrying a poor scholar. Happiness is what you think in your heart, and outsiders can't help you measure it. I can only help you analyze some factors that make you happy and those that make you unhappy. If you are a child who grew up in a city, then your living habits are definitely different from those of rural people. If your future rural family income is high, then he can help you improve your living standard and satisfy the lifestyle you want. If his family's income level is not high, then you can only grieve yourself and marry the chicken.

In fact, rural people are much more open-minded and enjoy life in more ways than before. Now many beauty salons and health centers have been established in rural areas, which also shows that rural people are pursuing higher and higher quality of life. The only bad thing is that entertainment venues, large shopping malls and public facilities are still relatively few. Because rural areas are door-to-door villages, there are few families on a large area of land, which will make it impossible for developers to build these facilities in rural areas. Unless the country decides to level a certain area, these places are likely to become as prosperous as cities.

However, the scheming of rural people is relatively simple. Neighbors in the street meet, talking and laughing. After dinner, everyone gathered at the head of the village to chat, which was more human than in the city. Besides, the pressure of life is really small. Before going to college in the city, many people who are better than you often surrounded you, making you feel that you are a short and ugly person, and it is difficult to build your confidence. Later, when I returned to my hometown in the countryside, my mentality slowly recovered. Maybe I was born in the countryside and have a unique love for my hometown. Anyway, I can't adapt to the life in the city. Only in my hometown can I feel freedom and equality.