I don't know what you saw, but I seemed to have enough courage when I was young. Dare to participate anywhere. Although it is called long knowledge, some of it may not necessarily produce benefits. It is not difficult to see that not all mutual affection is worthwhile. Once a person reaches middle age and has experienced many things, he should also accumulate some intelligence. At this age, smart people know how to avoid these three kinds of parties, which makes no sense.
Sancha is the woman with the highest value in our family and has been loved since childhood. Always arrogant. When she was young, her favorite thing was to travel around and make new friends. I still remember that at that time, her parents kept urging her not to attend some unnecessary parties. Because some of Third Aunt's good friends are not necessarily good people, most of them are just your wishes. For this matter, the whole family is worried that she has been addicted to this kind of interpersonal communication, and then life will be very sad. Unexpectedly, although Sanyi was pampered and grew up, she was thoughtful and had her own limits.
When I was young, my third aunt wanted to go to any party, whether it was good or not. But in middle-aged and elderly people, the three meanings changed in an instant. I found that Sanyi would never go to these "gossip meetings" again. Before that, Sanyi especially liked to get together with her sisters to discuss the advantages and disadvantages of others and the length of people.
But now, no matter how enthusiastic her sisters are, she won't attend any more. Moreover, Sanyi is in the middle and old age, and most of the parties she attended were from the Health and Wellness Bureau. Before, she especially liked to go where she wanted to play, but now she hasn't been there since. Today, Sanyi is really the luckiest person in the whole family. Although single, she refused to attend the blind date party.
In the words of Third Aunt, there is no need to act like you can't find a boyfriend. In middle-aged and old age, she is no longer the woman who regards marriage as her life. Although Sanyi had broken her heart before, she got better and better after getting into middle-aged and elderly people, which made everyone envy her. I think this should be inseparable from her "giving up".
Once people reach middle age, smart people will avoid these three kinds of parties, which is meaningless. When I was young, I had endless time and energy, and I liked curiosity. I can't help staying a little longer when I see something new. I also like to make fun of other people's shortcomings. However, after middle-aged and elderly people, you will find that people around you are becoming more and more stable, and everyone has their own life and family. It must not be a fuel-efficient lamp to discuss the length of others with you again.
Young people get together, and the theme style of most parties is actually leisure and entertainment. Don't talk too much about depressing topics. But if you go to this kind of party again after middle-aged and elderly people, you will find that you will only get deeper and deeper, and eventually even you hate yourself.
Many people are middle-aged and elderly. Or single men and women, they will gradually panic. Later, many people will gradually attend all kinds of boring blind date banquets. But actually, have you thought about it? This blind date banquet is actually meaningless. Because love can make people lose their minds, and adults before losing their minds often despair of love. If you meet true love, the result is of course beautiful, but if you meet the wrong person, you are likely to lose everything.