1, chatting and cooking are delicious

! The elders have cooked for decades, and many of them are really delicious, which is a necessary item for dinner and reunion. They are interested in talking about this and have something to say. "The shredded potatoes are really well cut, thin and even, just like the chef's." "There are XX dishes outside, but they are not as delicious as grandma's."

2. Talking about health maintenance

! Discuss what food is suitable for eating: I want to eat radish in winter to clear my lungs and warm my liver; Eating ginger in summer can prevent heatstroke and eliminate dampness.

Health cheats: soaking feet every day is good for your health; Don't get up in a hurry, sit up slowly; Don't lift anything too heavy. It's best to use a trolley.

Step 3 talk about health

! The older you get, the more you care about your health. This topic will never be out of date.

How boastful: I'm getting better and more energetic than young people. It's normal for old people to have minor problems occasionally. Let's ask, talk about matters needing attention and express our concern.

Step 4 talk about hobbies

! Many elders have their own hobbies. If they can't find the same topic,

You might as well ask how to spend your time at ordinary times, and then grasp the extension of the topic. For example, if the other person likes fishing, you can ask about fishing skills and how to choose a good fishing tool.

Step 5 talk about family members

! 80% of the old people's social circles are their own families, so these are also their favorite topics to talk about.

Example: "Oh, look at your eldest grandson. He is so fleshy and cute. He is really hard to get. "

6. Make your elders happy

! Don't fool your elders when you speak, be perfunctory and frank; Don't be impatient, keep looking at your mobile phone and have fun.

The elders talk to you and agree with everything. Even if we don't agree, we should feed them properly.