Highlight: This is a book that every parent in China should read.
3, "Finding Children" [meaning] Panait Mariana, 37 languages, many countries have established Montessori associations or Montessori training institutions, and Montessori schools named after her are all over 12 biographical series "Helping the World". British educators praised her as a compulsory course in the class. China Youth Publishing House 2004-09
The birth of family education is also the most tragic reason for this situation, that is, they simply don't know the direct impact of their words and deeds. Some parents can find and correct these mistakes, which marks their gradual growth into good parents. But to make matters worse, parents woke up too late and have embarked on the wrong path. This book sounded the alarm for parents. Every chapter is full of warmth, sympathy and humor. In the story, it reveals the unconscious but clear information that parents unconsciously convey to their children. And beyond the story itself, dissect every story, carefully analyze the wrong information, explore its root causes, and list the possible logical consequences of wrong information on children's health and happiness. More importantly, this book provides concrete suggestions on how to correct these misinformation, so it conveys a more positive and growth-promoting lesson.
5. Awakening, written by Isabella Chow, Beijing Publishing House. Is there an educational method that can make all children as infatuated as chasing butterflies? 10 1 inspirational stories that touched children on the spot, by Isabella Chow, Jinghua Press, 2004- 10.
6.268 Wrong and Right, by Wang Jingdong, Beijing Science and Technology Press, 2003-06.
7. There are gifted babies in my family-multiple intelligence education to stimulate children's potential, by Masahiro Sakurai, Beijing Science and Technology Press, 265438+20th Century Discipline Law, 2004-0 1.
9. The Book of God, chesterfield, China Development Press 2004- 1 1.
10, sensitive period of catching children, July 2004
1 1, 14 capacity, Calvert, 2004-09.
12, What Every Child Should Do [America T. Dewandier: Lei Peng, Shaanxi Normal University Press,
16, Parents' Fault: A Mother's Educational Notes, Sono Ayako, Translator: Chen Yuguang, Haitian Publishing House,
17, "Son, you can do it: a scholar's father's growth suggestion" [America] Gleiter Quinn, translator: Liu, Central Compilation and Publishing House, 2004- 10.
18, how American parents manage their children, Elizabeth Guthrie, International Culture Publishing Company, June 2004.
Elizabeth Gooseley, MD, director of the Learning and Diagnosis Center of new york Varhala Children's Hospital, has nearly 20 years of clinical experience. She has three children and now lives in Valley Town, New York.
In the process of treating children with mental disorders, Dr. Elizabeth Gooseley was deeply shocked by the pain caused by improper parental education methods. She began a large number of investigations, studied various social and cultural factors, and analyzed the root causes of children's pain and parents' motives for bullying their children. Dr. Gu Selei criticized people's social atmosphere of excessively advocating success and expressed deep sympathy for those children who grew up with guilt.
19 "Your child is great: it is easy to correct your child's shortcomings", by Gan Yueming, Gansu Culture Publishing House, 2004-08.
As the cell of society, family is the first classroom for children's growth education and a greenhouse for cultivating children's good feelings and ideals. Therefore, the family's quality education for children has irreplaceable functions and special advantages for society and schools. However, tens of millions of parents are in trouble in family education, some are confused because of poor upbringing, and some are distressed because of poor upbringing, especially after their children make mistakes intentionally or unintentionally and have some shortcomings. What measures should parents take to correct their children's mistakes and let them walk out of the swamp and hold their heads high?
This is a pillow book that walks into children's inner world, and it is also a magic book about children's education. It provides a guide for children's healthy growth and opens a new chapter for parents' hope of success.
If your child cannot concentrate in class, you don't know how to remind him;
If your child's awareness of learning is not strong, and you don't know how to guide correctly;
If your child often lies and you don't know how to keep his self-esteem, let him know his mistakes;
If your child is rebellious, you don't know how to persuade him;
If your child is not good at expression, you don't know how to help him out of this dilemma;
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Please read this book carefully.
20. Why Grandparents Can't Take Care of Children, written by Song Yu, China Changan Publishing House, September 2004. Are you qualified to take care of your grandchildren?
The first book for grandparents to educate their children
This book is enough to shock all grandparents!
Nowadays, in addition to groupies, fanatics and computer people, there is a new family-Shuttle people. They were hot and cold, bathed in frost and snow, crossed the streets, and gathered at school on time. Day after day, year after year, has become a major landscape of life. In China, most grandparents have had the experience of raising grandchildren, but most of them don't know how to educate their children. According to statistics, more than 70% of grandparents can't teach their children well, in other words, the success rate is less than 30%. Grandparents have paid everything, why have they hardly gained anything?
2 1, "Give me your hand, my child", (America) Heim G. Guinot, Jinghua Press, 2004-09, topped the list of books in the United States for more than a year, and has been translated into 3 1 language, selling well all over the world. If there are any classic works about parents' education for their children, Dr. Guinot's works are the best, which have completely changed the way parents communicate with their children. In this field, it is a revolutionary work.
22. Learn to Talk to Children-Practice of Good Parents, Zhao Yulin, Social Science Literature Publishing House, June 2004.
The idea emphasized in this book is that the growth and maturity of parents is the premise of children's success, and the progress of parents is the premise of children's progress. The key to the difference between successful parents and bitter failed parents is that they are good at finding their own problems and actively correcting their shortcomings, so they can succeed in becoming relaxed and happy parents.
23. The Wisdom of a Father, written by Brown, China Workers Publishing House, 2004-05.
Since its publication in the 1990s, this book has been on the best-seller list in The New York Times twice, and has been a best-seller in the United States, and is called "the best gift for the younger generation and relatives and friends". In 1990s, this book was reprinted by Reader, the most influential magazine in China at that time, which touched a whole generation of young people in China.
24. Problem Children, by Li Qingyu, Shanghai Science and Technology Press, 2004-05.
The growth of children is always a big stone in the hearts of parents. This book is divided into six parts, mainly aiming at 18 common problems in children's daily life, including inattention, lying, swearing, staying in bed, indulging in video games, lack of sense of responsibility, disobedience, temper tantrums, impulsiveness, introversion, and great test pressure. And put forward some solutions to inform parents of the correct attitude. Through the different cases introduced in the book, readers can understand how to use the correct methods of discipline and properly handle children's behavior problems. This book is rich in content and operability, and it is a good helper for parents.
Teaching children well, by Li Qingyu, Shanghai Science and Technology Press, 2004-05.
As a parent, do you often ask yourself: What is your son thinking? Is he happy? What's bothering him? What is your image in his mind? Do you understand his behavior? Do you have any communication problems with your children? When you make such a request to your child, can you be his role model and give him the motivation to make progress? This book will tell you how to discipline and cultivate children, mainly describing the true meaning of discipline, the psychology behind problem behavior, how to establish a good relationship with children, the three arts of educating children, and the golden rule of educating children. This book will help you clear the fog between you and your child, cultivate your baby in the most appropriate way, and help him shape a personality and way of doing things that can promote his later life before his personality is stereotyped. This book is rich in content and operability, and it is a good helper for parents.
Problem Parents, by Li Qingyu, Shanghai Science and Technology Press, 2004-05.
This book is divided into nine parts, focusing on ten typical "problems" in life, namely, parents' incorrect attitudes and practices in educating their children, and answering why your efforts in cultivating children can't get good results, and where are the problems; Do parents always do bad things with good intentions unconsciously? What kind of family education is correct and scientific; What kind of role models parents should be, and so on. The methods introduced in this book are easy for parents to do in their daily life. This book is concise and practical, and it is a good assistant for parents.
25. Squat down and communicate with children, Wang Lu, Jinghua Press, 004-07.
Yes, parents squatting down and talking to their children at the same height can make children realize that they are respected people like adults, which is conducive to cultivating children's independent and self-respecting personality from an early age and can help children take their problems or shortcomings seriously; It is also to create a good mentality for children who are willing to receive education, rather than letting children listen but not hear or have rebellious psychology.
I think this is a very specific educational method, but it reflects the educational concept of how to treat the relationship between children and parents, and also reflects the ability and level of educating children from one side. If we always stand in front of our children, the distance between us and our children is not only tens of centimeters in height, but also the distance between one generation and another, and the distance between one heart and another. Squatting is a great concern and understanding for children; It is a way for us to care about our children's inner world; It also creates a democratic, harmonious and respectful relationship between parents and children. Parent-child communication starts from the moment we squat down.
What I want to say is, let go of the authority of parents, make friends with children, use love and respect as guides, and let children have a healthy and happy childhood.
26. I didn't raise you until I was eighteen, by Lao Zhou, Hainan Publishing House, 2004-06.
The author took his son 13 out of school, and 18 out of the house. From then on, he had nothing but everything. He thinks he has found himself ... The ending of the story may not be so beautiful, which doesn't conform to the reading habit of China people who pursue a perfect ending, but it may give you more ... This book tells a real educational story with promised words, which is shocking.
27, "Growing Wisdom", [America] William H. McGaffey, China Civil Aviation Publishing House, 2004-06.
This book emphasizes diligence, honesty, kindness and helping others, and shows people a beautiful picture of life with beautiful words. In 75 years, the sales volume of this book reached 65.438+0.2 billion copies, which had an unprecedented impact on the spiritual shaping and moral cultivation of American youth. Until today, it is still popular in the west in various versions. It is recognized by western countries as an excellent extracurricular moral education reading, and it is a "classic bestseller that has influenced five generations of Americans".
28. Growing Up-A Mother's Gift to an Eighteen-year-old Daughter, Wang, China Three Gorges Publishing House, June 2004.
Eighteen, an age as pure as water.
Eighteen years old, a dividing line for growth.
18-year-old children can have naive smiles and melancholy eyes at the same time, but they must bid farewell to childishness and dependence and move towards a mature and strong tomorrow.
This book "Mother's Gift to 18-year-old Daughter" records the roads that mothers walked, the falls they fell, and the advice they gave you. Now, I'll give them to you. I hope you can get ready with them, open the door with them, take a deep breath, face the dazzling sunshine and set foot firmly on the outside world. From this moment on, the whole world is yours!
Growing up-a gift from my father to my 18-year-old son, Wen Hao, China Three Gorges Press, 2004-06.
Eighteen, an age as pure as water.
Eighteen years old, a dividing line for growth.
18-year-old children can have naive smiles and melancholy eyes at the same time, but they must bid farewell to childishness and dependence and move towards a mature and strong tomorrow.
This book "Father's Gift to Ten-year-old Son" records all kinds of advice from fathers, as well as their own life experiences and wisdom. I hope this book can be a guide for you who are young and frivolous, so that you can know more, take fewer detours, bravely cross dangerous beaches and mud, properly grasp the measure and rhythm of doing things in your life journey, increase your self-cultivation and connotation, and become a person with excellent character.
29. Be Smart Parents, Hu Yushun, China Development Press, 2004-07.
This book has the following characteristics: 1. The author of this book has a solid educational theoretical foundation for 20 years and rich family education guidance practice. 2. Starting from the growth process of children and adolescents, this book puts forward the problems existing in family education and suggestions for solving them, including early childhood, children, adolescents and early youth. 3. The issues raised in this book are hot issues in today's family education, which are representative and contemporary. This book is not a panacea, but a suggestion for parents to educate their children for reference.
30. Mencius' Fast Reading: Confucian Conscience, Lin Zhenguo, Hainan Publishing House, Sanhuan Publishing House, 2004-06.
This series of books are accompanied by the original book or the essence of the original book, which not only emphasizes that the original book can not be abolished, but also attracts interested readers, step by step, from the shallow to the deep. I hope that our readers, in addition to drawing inferences from others, can go to the original classics layer by layer, conduct deeper research, create richer achievements and spread the incense of Chinese culture to the whole world.
The book you choose here, whether you are ten, thirty or seventy years old, you must always read it once in your life! China culture must-read bibliography. Select 60 classics from the voluminous collection of ancient books, and for the first time, comprehensively interpret the features of China's 5,000-year culture in the form of easy and quick reading. The famous authority on Chinese studies in Taiwan Province Province takes you into the "China Cultural Museum without Walls" in 2 1 century.
3 1, "Participating in Parents' Homework-Educational Methods for Lower Grades", by Tony S. Bicart, Aerospace Press, 2004-0 1.
Reading this book is a pleasure. It covers a lot of information that parents want and should know. Under the comprehensive and balanced educational thought, parents can find practical educational strategies. It is an educational Rubik's Cube that guides children to learn all the important knowledge in class. Observation tables, charts and straightforward questions are good guides to help parents, which can not only enrich their own experiences, but also make their children's experiences at school lively and interesting.
32. People Teach Children, edited by Han Yan, seismological press, 2003-09.
This book will tell you that if you love your child, if you expect your child to become a talent as soon as possible, then please-give him a goal and let him pursue it firmly; Listen to his story and communicate with his heart; Spread out your hands and let him learn to walk by himself; Give him some exercise and let him learn to be a strong man in life; Sow the seeds of kindness and let love grow with him; Explore his potential and make him full of confidence; Give him a space and let him create freely; Create a harmonious atmosphere and let him grow up happily; Get out of the godson's misunderstanding and don't let him be destroyed by "confused love"; Face up to bad habits and let him embark on the road to prosperity!
33. Self-confident life insurance-children's growth plan, (America) kevin lehmann, translator: Wang Yajie, Aerospace Press, April 2004.
This book will teach you how to make children have self-confidence and self-worth. At the end of each chapter, you can find some suggestions suitable for your family. Self-assessment questions will help you reflect on what kind of parents you are. In addition, the Q&A section gives the fastest solutions to some specific problems.
34. Financial Management in Spring Buds-A Classic of Parent-child Financial Management Education, Peng Zhenwu, Machinery Industry Press, April 2004.
As a parent, what will you teach your children as they grow up? What kind of life choice advice would you give them? Maybe you can find inspiration from this book and be inspired. If we can read this book with our children, our hopes will be realized faster and better!
Financial management education is by no means a simple education on how to spend money. Parents' education on children's financial management is a systematic project step by step, which requires parents to start with dolls and determine different educational objectives, contents and methods according to their different life stages, so that children can form positive personality, good habits, indomitable will and creative spirit through role models and subtle influences. As a parent, what will you teach your children as they grow up? What kind of life choice advice would you give them? Maybe you can find inspiration from this book and be inspired. If we can read this book with our children, our hopes will be realized faster and better!
35. Growth is a beautiful pain, Liu Yong, Relay Press, 2002- 10.
Liu Yong, painter and writer. A person who lives seriously and always wants to surpass himself. He used to be resident artist of Dainville Art Museum, resident artist of St. John's University and associate professor of St. Vincent's College. He has published more than 60 Chinese and English works and held nearly 30 personal exhibitions around the world.
His creative principle is "to speak for himself and the times"; The principle of life is "live up to my heart, live up to my life". Now host Shuiyunzhai. I have a fiery heart, a pair of cold eyes, a pair of diligent hands, two busy legs and a very free mood.
36, "How to Cultivate Children's Right Brain", (Japan) Qi Tianzhen, Science and Technology Press, 2004-03.
Professor Makoto Seven, a Japanese education expert, believes that the right brain of human beings has incredible ability, but this ability gradually disappears in the process of growth. Therefore, in order to make children become geniuses, it is very important to educate children in early childhood. This book advocates "spiritual education" while correcting parents' one-sided parenting education. As parents, we should not only pay attention to children's "sense of existence", but also pay attention to their right brain education. The method of developing children's right brain introduced in the book is simple and feasible; Some parenting experiences can be used for reference. This book is suitable for parents and educators of babies.
37. No child is a poor student, Qing Zhou, People's Literature Publishing House, 2004-04.
The term "poor student" really can't be verified when it came into being, but its existence is like a "magic wand", which leads to how much inner darkness and how much childlike innocence is annihilated ... Who created the "poor student"? An ordinary primary school teacher tries to solve many puzzles of the problem of "poor students" from his own practical reflection, and warns schools, families and social groups that may create "poor students" with his educational ideals and pursuits, work experience and feelings; Inspire our teachers, our parents and everyone who affects students' physical and mental growth with touching cases.
38. How to Cultivate Positive Children, [America] Craig Ziegler, Translator: [Taiwan Province] Huang Aishu, Kyushu Press, 2004-05.
"The seaside is definitely more fun than class. There are sea, wind, boats and many trees. It is sunny every day, and there is a big sun. If Mommy can take me, it would be great … "The innocent language of children is the most beautiful language in the world. However, do you remember the last time you listened to a child? When was the last time you played games together?
Children are the pride of parents, and there is no parent who doesn't want his baby to be an active, cheerful, intelligent and enterprising super baby. However, there is not a pair of parents who are not troubled by one problem or another in parenting. Mr. Ziegler, a famous American expert in children's education, specially sorted out his many years' teaching experience and collected relevant examples to provide parents with a set of effective parenting methods and help young parents cultivate positive and sound children, not only in life, but also psychologically and emotionally.
You may worry that you don't know how to discipline your children. Or maybe you are at a loss because your child is sexually harassed? Do you even doubt your chances of winning when your child grows up? In view of these parenting problems, the author sets almost all possible situations for you, and provides you with feasible solutions according to the differences of each situation, so that readers can follow them at all stages of children's growth.
39. How to help shy children, Dr. Philip, Kyushu Press, 2004-05.
People need to grow, and growth needs love and care. With love and care, we can face others and society bravely ... but shyness is the shackles of growth.
Shy and silent imprisonment is really a terrible nightmare for children, which prevents them from learning how to work and play with others, as well as expressing their opinions. However, is this phenomenon common?
According to the author of this book, Dr. Felix. Zimbardo found that shyness is not only a common phenomenon, but also a worldwide phenomenon in the study of students from eight countries (the subjects are between the ages of 18 and 2 1 year). As far as the United States is concerned, 44% consider themselves shy, compared with 365,438+0% in Israel, 43% in West Germany, 55% in Taiwan Province Province and 57% in Japan. Therefore, shy people are not alone.
However, this does not mean that shyness is commendable. What Dr. Philip mentioned in his book only shows that this is the same problem for children, which deserves further discussion, because a shy child is like a bright pearl, tightly hidden in the shell of "self", even if he has a beautiful and agile life, I believe it is difficult to shine brightly.
So how can we help children get rid of this annoying burden and stop being shy?
In this book, the author will tell you in detail from the beginning with his unique experience and theory.
40. How to Help Children with Emotional Disturbance, Zheng, Kyushu Press, 2004-05.
This book presents the experience of localization of sensory system therapy-the example and process of sensory system therapy in Taiwan Province Province, for the reference of parents, special education teachers, class teachers, counselors, staff of educational psychology department, medical college students and people interested in this field.
This book contains six articles about cases of sensory system therapy. The first two articles are true stories, telling how to help talented students who are clumsy but only emotionally troubled. The last two articles describe the actual process of helping children with learning disabilities. The last two are the experiences of parents and special education teachers in treating autistic children. Each article has a more detailed description of the treatment process and results than ordinary case reports, with comments and annotations. I hope that parents and teachers can guide their children or students to do treatment after deeply understanding our views, treatment methods and achievements in helping gifted students with general emotional distress, learning disabilities, autism and clumsy hands and feet.
4 1, How to help children with learning difficulties, Zheng, Kyushu Press, 2004-05.
This book is adapted from the book Sensory Integration and Children written by Dr. Ayers of the University of Southern California, USA, and introduces the principle and treatment of sensory integration disorder in easy-to-understand language. In addition to adapting to the feelings of the people as much as possible, the content also adds a large number of cranial nerve anatomical maps and a revised sensory integration disorder checklist in terms of difficulty, discrimination, reliability and validity. I hope that teachers or parents can get a preliminary understanding of the severity of sensory integration disorder and brain-nerve integration of children with poor adaptability after examination In recent 20 years, the clinical diagnosis, treatment and research in Elsboto clearly show that occupational therapy can help children with sensory integration disorder improve their academic performance and establish a better self-image; But she found that the biggest difficulty is that parents, teachers and other experts don't know enough about sensory integration. In her career of diagnosis, treatment and research, Elsbotu found it difficult to explain the whole picture of sensory integration therapy to parents in a short time, and it was also difficult to help parents and teachers understand sensory integration disorder and its treatment with the book Sensory Integration and Children written to experts earlier.
However, it is not easy to understand and apply the principles of this book. I hope to improve my understanding of the original spirit through rewriting and reading and discussion in line with the people's feelings. Among them, some terms are quite unfamiliar to ordinary parents, such as vestibular system. Many parents think it is the forehead above the eyes, so they tried to replace it with "inner ear vestibular balance" (system) from the beginning. And the original meaning of the word "proprioception". Most people don't know what this means. The author uses "muscle joint sensation" to represent the sensory system of body muscles and bones to detect movement and position. I hope that after a period of time, everyone can gradually understand these terms and meanings.
42. Teaching Children to Learn to Think, written by John Langer, translated by Hu Jun, Shaanxi Normal University Press, 2003-0 1.
In the traditional sense, "thinking" means asking the brain to remember information for later recall. This concept has influenced our school education. However, with so many electronic devices and network means to help find information today, we urgently need to master some new ways of thinking. Teaching children to learn to think is helpful for them to master the skills of thinking, so that they can get out of simple knowledge memory, be good at association, dare to judge and be brave in creation. There are more than 200 exercises in the book, which cover a wide range and are very interesting, suitable for children aged 6- 15. Through these exercises, students will master: brain management and organization ability, analytical thinking ability, critical thinking ability and creative thinking ability. The answer is attached at the end of the book, but it is for reference only. It allows children to be creative freely.
43. "Tell your child that you are great! Lu Qin, Changjiang Literature and Art Publishing House, 2004-04.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. Family ties make family education play an irreplaceable role in school education and social education. In the new historical period of Chinese nation urinating, children's education has attracted the attention of millions of parents more than ever before, and it has also become their anxiety and confusion. The rapid progress and changes of society provide unprecedented opportunities and unlimited space for children's future, but also bring extremely severe challenges. How to help children prepare well, be good at coping and strive for the best future can't help worrying parents. In fact, when the child is born, parents are probably not fully prepared. Mencius said a long time ago, "Learn to adopt a son before you get married." Now that the one-child policy is implemented, even if we gain experience from the first child, there is no way to improve the education of the second child. What's more, it is impossible for people to grow up, not to do experiments, but to succeed without failing. In case of failure, the price is too high. In the new historical period, new things keep coming, children live in a new environment different from their predecessors, and the contradictions and problems they face often exceed their parents' existing experience. As a result, many parents will inevitably feel distressed and confused. They often think that their expectations for their children cannot be realized. I am puzzled that my education for children can't work or even get the opposite result. In this historical period, it is very urgent and welcomed by the society to strengthen the exploration and research of family education theory and the dissemination of family education knowledge and experience.