If you want to judge which stage of your life is the worst, I think it is easy for you to highlight "middle age".

But I don't agree with your point of view, because my point of view is more in line with the sentence mentioned in the above question, "Middle age is not the worst stage of life, the most bitter thing is getting poorer and poorer when you get old."

I am now 45 years old and can be described as a real "middle-aged man". In middle age, I struggled for decades, during which I tasted all the ups and downs, became more sober and naturally had more say. You said, right?

Middle-aged, compared with those stages, I agree with you to say "hard", but I dislike you to say "the worst" Don't think that being tired is the worst.

What I want to refute is that it is not the worst, but the most brilliant, the most proud, the most worthy of "talking about the past and discussing the present" in old age, and the most worthy of being praised and famous by future generations. In other words, most people's success and fame are almost created by their efforts in middle age.

Furthermore, middle-aged people have lost their shyness and ignorance as teenagers, and become mature, wise, calm and sophisticated, cautious and thoughtful, rational and calm, and far-sighted. When people reach middle age, they have broad vision, profound knowledge and rich experience. These are the foundations and necessities of career success.

Middle-aged, filial piety at the top and love at the bottom; Be both a housekeeper and an official; To be a man and live in the world, it is natural to work hard. But don't forget: it's bitter that makes it sweet.

Looking around, looking around the world, which celebrity is mostly middle-aged, and which one has not paid the hard work and fatigue that ordinary people can't?

To put it bluntly, life is a practice. Middle age, like the apex of life parabola, is undoubtedly the most critical and important period of practice.

Good practice, self-sufficiency in middle age, pride in old age, and talk about courage in those days. If you don't practice well, for example, if you make a comeback after an investment failure, you will still repeat the same mistakes, stop in tears and settle down. In his later years, he naturally lamented that he was "old and poor" at most. Nevertheless, at least in middle age, I put all my eggs in one basket. Otherwise, in my later years, besides being penniless, I am full of regrets and self-blame, and I will definitely fantasize about the afterlife. I can ...

Throughout a person's life, although middle age is a bit bitter, it is not the worst at all. In fact, no matter which stage of life, it is the best, the most fragrant, the most cherished and the least wasted.

What did you say?/Sorry? I look forward to having a heart-to-heart talk with you!

"The hardest thing is to be old and poor!" The first thing I saw was this sentence! The heart is very shocking! Special thanks to the questioner, it is alarming to ask such a question!

Some people say that 45 to 59 years old is middle-aged, and over 60 years old is old.

I just turned 60 this year and entered the old age. Looking back on these decades, what really surprises me about age is that in the early days of China's reform and opening up, the rich people or leaders in the past should be around 50 years old. Later, it was discovered that many people who came abroad to do business and set up factories were people in their twenties and thirties. That's shocking!

Looking back on my life, I really want to tell young people that before the age of 25, I must be clear about my development direction and master the core technology or operation methods in this field. Before the age of 30, you must complete the basic primitive accumulation of life. It is time to buy a car, buy a house and get married! After the age of 35 at the latest, don't work for wages! If you are your own boss, it must be because you are optimistic about the considerable profits of this industry; If you help others, you must be a heavyweight respected by everyone in the enterprise! It may not threaten the boss, but the boss knows that without you, the small planet of the enterprise can't rotate normally!

Don't wait until you are 45 years old!

Don't be poor when you are old!

If people are still confused in middle age, everything has been set and solidified, it is too late!

It's hard to be old and poor! Middle-aged poverty will inevitably lead to old-age poverty! So it's very important to be 20 to 35 years old 15 years! Decide fate!

As the old saying goes, three years old and eighty years old! Whether you are rich or poor when you are old may be decided at the age of three! Don't wait until middle age to wake up, it's too late!

The reason for this is the following：

Personal feelings:

What we have now is the cause planted ten years ago.

If hope is good after ten years, it is important to work quietly from now on!

I write these words to myself as encouragement!

Uncle Yang in our village is such a person who is unhappy with retribution. Uncle Yang's family has been poor peasants for three generations, and they have been poor for nearly 30 years and can't get a wife. Later, I earned some money by doing odd jobs for others and married an epileptic daughter-in-law with a bag of noodles.

Although Uncle Yang is poor, he is diligent. He worked harder after he married his daughter-in-law. When farming is busy, he goes to the fields first and goes home last every day. In his spare time, he doesn't like others chatting and playing cards at the head of the village, but goes to the town to find a short-term job.

With his efforts, life has gradually improved, but who knows that the baby is still epileptic. Uncle Yang gritted his teeth and insisted on seeing two girls. He earned more than he spent, and finally left no children. Her daughter-in-law did not withstand the blow and died soon.

The money saved when I was young, together with the rush for life, disappeared without a trace with the departure of the two girls. The root of the disease left by previous work has lost the ability to work and the source of income. Uncle Yang, who is nearly 60 years old, can only live on the government's subsistence allowance.

The hardest thing is to be poor when you are old. Thinking about it makes people feel powerless.

If the old people around you have no pension and no savings, life will be very difficult. To tell the truth, there are not many filial children, and my daughter-in-law has hardly seen them. I have some savings in my hand, but I don't have a pension every month, so life is still difficult. If your son buys a house, your wife will scold you if you don't take out your savings. Take it out and your body will be empty. Your daughter-in-law still has reason to ignore you. Enterprises retire for two or three thousand yuan a month, and the children who can't eat are relatively stable, and occasionally they can subsidize a little, which most daughter-in-law will ignore. The best life is to get more than six or seven thousand dollars a month. My son and daughter-in-law are very filial. They all know that every day an old man lives, his family will earn another day.

Many people say that filial piety is a son's business. The reality is that the daughter-in-law is not filial and the son cannot be filial. Can't he quarrel with his wife every day?

Of course, there will be many daughters-in-law who actually do a good job and will oppose my words. I hope the more such people, the better!

If a person's life is divided into youth, middle age and old age, then each stage will be like this: youth is full of vitality; Middle-aged and steady, with a successful career; Old age is a single thing, just to be remembered.

Middle age is the golden period of life struggle, and you are strong. You can still make money whether you are engaged in physical or mental work or starting a business. It's nothing more than bitterness and tiredness. Even if you don't do well, there will be no problem in supporting your family, and it won't be the worst stage of your life.

In old age, if you have some savings in middle age, providing for the aged will not be a problem, and you will still be very happy without major health problems. On the contrary, if you don't plan well in middle age, there will be economic crisis and disease, and it is inevitable to live a hard life.

Therefore, when you are in the prime of life and can earn wealth in middle age, you should make good plans, set aside enough pension funds, take good care of your health, and let yourself enjoy and be happy when you are old.

The most feared thing in life is being old and poor, and the most bitter thing is being old and poor.

Life, from birth to old age, is a natural process of life and death. When you are a teenager, you study, find a job and work hard. When you reach middle age, you will have all the basic stereotypes.

But when people reach middle age, no matter how they mix, they still can't mix well, and they have almost nothing. This is not the most sad hurdle. It should even be said that it is not the worst and most unbearable stage.

Because you are still strong, you can fight for your life and livelihood, fall asleep after a hard day, dream, and even eat delicious roast goose in your dreams. ...

Only when you are old, weak, poor, poor, widowed, lonely or even sick ... At this time, if you want to earn money by working, your heart is willing but unable to do it. You are so poor that you can only sigh, so poor that you can only get by-being old and poor is the most bitter!

It turns out that neighbors are so old and so bitter.

When he was young, he was quiet, almost never married, and had two sons and a daughter. But life is so hard, it's really hard. However, he is optimistic because he is still strong. When you get old, you should be relieved, right? I don't know, both of them don't live up to expectations, have no ability, and have no ability to exercise. Also depends on labor to make a living. Daughter, far away from home, never heard from ... until her wife died, her neighbors were old, and there was no way to earn money. Their financial support is also very limited ... Later, they applied for subsistence allowances. But he still has a great addiction to cigarettes-even if he smokes very cheap cigarettes ... it's really unbearable to see his thin figure, scarred clothes and coughing and kicking all day. ...

Therefore, middle age is not the worst stage of life, but being old and poor is the most bitter. ...

Let me talk about my understanding of this sentence from the perspective of financial management.

First of all, I think this sentence has some truth. The hardest thing is to be poor when you are old. Why? Because people lose their ability to work and earn wealth when they are old, they are miserable when they are old.

I believe everyone has heard a saying: "Don't bully poor young people". Why? Because teenagers have unlimited development possibilities, maybe you are the boss today and see a poor teenager, but don't bully him, because in a few years, he may become a billionaire or your boss.

As Degang Guo said in a comic dialogue joke, it doesn't matter if you don't bully the young and the old in the comic dialogue industry. Said the same thing.

It is not wrong to say that providing for the aged is the ultimate goal of financial management. Because people create wealth when they are young, but they lose their ability to create wealth when they are old.

Therefore, it is necessary to keep part of the wealth earned when you are young until you are old. This is actually a basic process of financial management.

But in reality, there are many people who "drink today and get drunk today", and the moonlight clan is like this now. Many of them made a lot of money, but they didn't leave a penny. Because they think they have spent all their money this month and can make money next month. But I often don't think that one day, I will not make money.

Therefore, financial management, it is best to start from an early age. If you didn't manage money when you were young, start now.

We need to think first, why are there old people who are poor? Are you not good at financial management and have no stable income? It's still about social security.

In Singapore, Japan and South Korea, I saw some teachers aged 60-70 working in restaurants, post offices and other places, and some old people driving taxis. I wonder, what is the reason? I inquired about it and found that my income was low when I was young. With the rising prices, I had to support myself in my later years.

Some people are unemployed in middle age and have to continue to work to ensure their own lives.

What kind of reflection should we have on this? First of all, cherish the current work, especially in the case that the consolidation of the world economy is not satisfactory, and you can't ride a donkey or abuse it. Secondly, we need to be able to improve our ability, even in the post, we should also have the consciousness of deliberately improving our ability to resist the risk of workplace changes with competitiveness. Third, we need to have a sense of planning ahead. Even if the income is not high, we need to divide the income into three parts, one for financial insurance, one for survival and one for storage.

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