This friend, fighting for the children is even more superficial. I have to admit that the present is the generation gap. You cannot refuse to accept old age. 1992 You are middle-aged, and Bian Xiao can go home to support the elderly. Now the line between 00 and 95 is so clear. Moreover, the gap between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is at least 20 years old.

Nine misunderstandings of the elderly with children, see if your baby has been recruited.

1, the child has too many clothes. Old people always worry that their children are frozen, three floors inside and three floors outside. In fact, heat is more risky than cold. Children wear too much, sweat easily after exercise, and their pores are open. Just a little wind will make them catch cold and get sick.

2. Feed the chewed food to the children. The elderly think that this will help children digest, but a large number of bacteria enter the child's mouth, and the risk of illness is greatly increased. Especially for children with long teeth, chewing does not promote the development of teeth. After chewing some starchy foods, the enzymes in saliva will differentiate, and the nutrients will be greatly reduced, which is also unlucky for children to excrete enzymes themselves.

3. Premature urination. Old people think that early urination can help children develop the habit of urinating on time. However, premature urination is extremely harmful to children, and it is easy to cause proctoptosis, frequent urination, urgency, and children's inability to urinate independently.

4. continue to feed the children. The old man is always worried that his children are hungry and keeps giving them food. However, the child's stomach needs to rest, and it needs to be on an empty stomach for at least 2 to 3 hours to digest the food in front. Eating constantly will increase the burden on the stomach, which is also unlucky for the cultivation of excellent dining habits.

5. Don't give your child a chance to train. Proper training is necessary for children to eat well, sleep soundly and be healthy. Many old people are afraid that their children will be tired and always hold them, depriving them of the opportunity to exercise. Let children do moderate exercise, walk, run and climb mountains, and they will love to eat more and sleep better!

6. Grasp everything at once. Old people should understand that taking care of children is just a help, not a complete takeover. Education is the obligation and responsibility of parents, and the elderly should not do everything. Establishing an outstanding relationship between children and parents is conducive to the independence and growth of children's personality. If the elderly do all the big and small things, children will have less time to contact their parents, which is unlucky for the cultivation of parent-child relationship.

7. Don't hold more children. Some old people think that children are used to it and are prone to dependence. In fact, hugging children more can promote their brain development and physical growth, and make them have a good figure and gentle temperament.

8. Intervene in children's education. Mom and dad are always secretive when educating their children. Over time, children will turn a deaf ear to their parents' education, hinder the development of their independent personality, and even make them rebellious towards their parents. For children's education, what suggestions can be communicated with parents and make their own contribution to their education?

9. Don't ask children for help. Children are interested in many jobs, but old people usually drive them away. "Don't touch the risk!" ""go away and don't make trouble! "This will only destroy the child's curiosity!