There is still a way out for anything in this world, and that is to let go. It's already like this. What else can we do? That's it, right? You must figure out what you want to do.
Second, from a certain point of view, the world is balanced. If you really find it difficult and can't persist, then you should give up. Once you give up, don't complain, "Why didn't I get it?" So life is like this. If you want it, you must pay first. If you want to give, you must learn to persist, and you must believe that it will be too late, because you are the youngest at the moment.
Everyone will have a particularly difficult time, the embarrassment of life, the frustration of work, and the fear of love all day long. If you survive, your life will be suddenly enlightened; You won't succeed. Time will teach you how to shake hands with them, so don't be afraid. When the sun rises and the moon sets, there will always be dawn.
Three long trees grow roots first, establish people first, roots are the foundation of trees, and virtue is the foundation of people. People always have the blessing of virtue and heaven, and come for good, not seeking happiness.
Fourth, respect differences and learn to put yourself in other's shoes. Many times it is not wrong for us to stand in our own position, but if I ask each other from my point of view, then I am wrong. When we look at other people's behavior by our own standards, the other person is never qualified, but we often forget that everyone is different.
Now some people, even if they are 40 years old, have not figured out a truth, that is, no outsiders in this world will teach you how to make money. Don't trust others to teach you how to make money. If someone is willing to take you to make money, it must be that you have a skill, a specialty, can create the value others want, can be used by others, and can make money for others. Otherwise, others will draw you a cake and dream for you. As the old saying goes, the world is bustling for profit, and the world is bustling for profit. If you have no skills, who will take you to play? Unless you are your own parents, even so, if there are many children at home, most parents may choose who is the most fashionable and favorite, not to mention outsiders. Open your eyes, think calmly, recognize yourself, and don't dream, which is maturity.
As the saying goes, "the master is in the people", in fact, many talented people have not done their own careers, so it is difficult to have a bright future. Not everyone can have the luck to dream in the bed that suits them. It is a great blessing for a person to find a job that suits him best.
Seven go to the supermarket to buy things. Generally, there are five things you can't buy. Try not to buy them: one is frozen fish and shrimp, because you don't know how long it has been frozen; Second, the ground meat stuffing is basically neck lymph meat. Third, most of the cut boxed fruits are bad; Fourth, hard tomatoes, looking fresh, are basically mature; Fifth, most of the hot pot balls in bulk are pectin and additives. So, you really don't want to?
There is an old saying that "stand at 30", and 30-year-old luxury houses and luxury cars are all beautiful women. This is not a 30-year-old man, but a teenager who has achieved something, but often has great misfortune. Then "stand" what? The 30-year-old Confucius saw the road of life clearly and had a clear and stable value system and ideology. This value system and Tao are interlinked, and you may feel nothing. However, more than 90% of people, even those in their forties and fifties, do not conform to the value judgment of Tao, so they are easily tempted and disturbed by this colorful world, and they will be half-hearted. Can I succeed? Can I live the life I want? A 30-year-old man knows that the road he has chosen is right, the road is long, and it belongs to Xiu Yuan, but he is still willing to go up and down, the road is long, and travel will come. Although there are thousands of people, I will go! This is a firm belief and confidence that must be achieved. Only in this way, in the life after the age of 30, talents will not be confused, hesitate, wander, envy or hate, and will not be knocked down by difficulties!
Don't pursue perfection, don't pursue perfection excessively, it will only make your life more imperfect. Take a closer look at those unhappy people around you in marriage, feelings, life, health, career and time management. Most people are unhappy because of their excessive pursuit of perfection. This is too much! Learn to accept imperfections and life will be better!
10. Failure in life is not pride or laziness, but one of them. Diligence will eliminate all shortcomings.
1 1. It is very important to maintain health at ordinary times, and it is very important to persist. If we pay attention to some small details in our daily life, such as walking, sitting, lying and walking, we can take care of our bodies through some simple gestures. Taking a nap with eyes closed can nourish the liver, sitting and rubbing your knees can keep your legs healthy, and walking and clenching fists are good for your brain. You often use yang to beat your back, comb your hair, rub your face and blood, which is easy to digest.
It is wrong to ask for grades without knowledge. As the Awakening Era said: "Don't ask if you have knowledge, just strive for scores. After the exam, put the book on the shelf, don't ask questions, have a diploma, and you can join the society. Time is wasted, and there is no study. This is a mistake! "
Thirteen likes a passage that Mr. Jiang Yang said: Time is quiet for a while, and chicken feathers are everyday. Even if the world is cold occasionally, the heart should be prosperous. Shallow joy, quiet love, deep understanding, light release. From a distance, it is the scenery, and from a close look, it is life. I only wish this life, and the years are innocent; Only talk about warmth, not sadness.