As anxious and unruly as before. Especially when talking to adults, you often have a bad grasp of the scale. As a father, in the place of boys.
When you are upset in adolescence, try to ensure that you can
Like friends calmly.
Don't use words to get along with him.
Violence in words or actions
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restrain
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Help him spend his adolescence safely and healthily.
Director Wang of Beijing Adolescent Mental Health Research Center pointed out that adolescent boys are in the transition period of body and mind, and their mental health status is not optimistic.
Thought and behavior are still there.
unsteady state
In this process, especially after being influenced by the outside world, restless emotions often occur. such as
If not handled properly, this kind of emotion will escalate, which will further cause adolescent boys' rebellious psychology and speak ill of their fathers.
Even ran away from home.
From the above materials, we know the causes of adolescent boys' irritability, so we can eliminate adolescent boys' irritability.
Emotion is not so easy, and there is still a lot of learning in it. In addition to the precautions mentioned above, at the same time,
The following points should be noted:
First, create a warm family atmosphere.
The relationship between parents should be harmonious, and if possible, they should often go out to play together to make adolescent boys feel at home.
Warm.
Second, dad should communicate with boys often.
Actively encourage and guide him,
Simple preaching will only make him more disgusted.
Especially don't take him as problem of juvenile to educate.
We should make friends with him and encourage him in the way of friends. Don't constantly deny him, discourage him.
Third, dad should help adolescent boys find confidence in learning.
If he can have strong feelings for his classmates and teachers.
agree with
Feel the success brought by good grades.
Feeling has laid the best foundation for his future study, which will be a virtuous circle in the future. So how to cultivate his interest?
It is the same theme for father and teacher. The warmth and care of the family, the recognition of school teachers and classmates, these are all adolescent men.
The best guarantee for children to overcome irritability.
Fourth, dad should pay attention to his tone.
Dad should be patient when communicating with adolescent boys, speak kindly and peacefully, and don't use the tone of instigation or command.
Fifth, we should pay attention to the influence of adolescent boys' hobbies on their emotional changes.