After all, we are not one in a million, imposing and personable people, and we can't be liked by everyone. We only have a heart as simple as snow to rest in peace, or have a cup of tea, write a paragraph, or plant flowers, to nourish our hearts, delight our bodies and minds and nurture our health in ordinary days.
Ordinary life is just to make yourself interesting when you are busy and elegant when you are idle. Just to have a normal heart, why pay attention to the right and wrong in others' eyes and care about the simplicity and complexity of natural events?
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The rain in late autumn just stopped. When I opened the window, the air was filled with the fragrance of autumn grass. Dissolve a cup of coffee, sit by the window, immerse yourself in the scent of sweet clover in Qiu Guang, and read a few pages of relaxing books.
Sometimes I think that even if there are thousands of splendors in prosperity, it is not as beautiful as this faint freshness and simplicity. For me, this kind of happiness is a kind of enjoyment.
People live, not just to live happily and tastefully, to do more interesting things, to abandon distractions, to have things they like, things they like, people they love, pen and ink, flowers and plants, daily necessities, piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, sunshine all the year round, clear mood, peaceful mood, like water, flowing with beauty.
Many times, seemingly insignificant things are old acquaintances, and they are inseparable from the bits and pieces in this human fireworks. Either one is full of energy.
In fact, everything in the world has light in its eyes and joy in its heart. I like this kind of fireworks, which shows the ethereal and long time. Every trace will make life full of fun.
Buddha said that bitterness is not bitterness, and joy is not joy, but a temporary obsession. If you cling to an idea, you will be trapped in an idea; Once you put it down, it's in your heart.
If you learn to love life and the world, then things will change with your heart, the environment will be created by your heart, troubles will be born from your heart, and happiness will be born from your heart.
Some people, some things, can not be met, just follow the fate, if forced, but not, some are just pain.
Life is always like this, what you think is lost may be on the road; What you think you have may be on the way.
In this case, relax and let nature take its course. No matter when and where, we should have a normal heart, a relaxed heart, tolerance and openness.
Nothing can compare with the word "An". It is time and mentality. Every ordinary day we spend safely is smooth and gentle.
It's halfway through October, and I know everyone who should come will come. I don't need to be afraid and I don't need to refuse. I just need to wait in time. I will cook wine with poetry, write lyrics with breeze, I will be poetic, and I will be happy. I don't talk about coldness and self-knowledge, and I don't talk about vicissitudes.
Time flies too fast, life is too late, so I have no time to recall the past and dare not look back. I just run tirelessly with the years, shouldering the heavy responsibility of life, keeping silent inside, but my inner desire tells me that all expectations may come back in another way.
After vicissitudes of life, the memories of gathering and dispersing sorrows and joys and years leave only shallow worries. Finally, I learned to let go, heal myself slowly, accept everything given by the years, and then grow into what I like slowly in the time of getting old.
There are many stations in life. As long as you have peace of mind, whether you are standing outside the world of mortals and enjoying prosperity or in the fireworks, you will be more calm and calm.
Perhaps, when you pass a certain age, you will stop advocating nothingness and learn to be down-to-earth and content with the status quo. However, once the dreams and ideals, after all, is a colorful past.
Therefore, I will also leave a place close to the sun in my heart and give myself a bright future, because it takes a lifetime to understand the future.
In retrospect, I once wrote a poem of life with my heart. I spent half my life, for nothing else, just to live a happy life with a smile on my eyes and a fragrance on my lips and teeth.
Whether it is a dream or a romance, life is like a poem. Even though the years are weathered, there is no light in the fireworks. As long as there is hope in the heart, the world is cold and life is lonely, what should I do?
After middle age, you will find that life has been gradually taken back from the initial bow.
Because you see through the extreme and perfection, the real pleasure is to live outside life. If you can hear how time passes through your soul sharply, you can see that you have stood outside everything, calmly, smiling and making peace with everything.
In the realm of life, the prosperity of all beings is only an appearance, and all causes and effects are only an instant. One day, we must learn to make peace with time.
Then let yourself be an autumn flower, delicate and slightly cold, which can't become the atmosphere but fulfill your nature. Seeing the wild flowers blooming by the roadside, I thought of myself, because I really like autumn flowers.
Entering the broad mind of autumn, the wilderness is silent, the mountains and rivers are silent, the vegetation is low, and every life is humble. Since time is so affectionate, life goes deeper. I met my gentle self when I was sincere, and I met Bloom when I was walking, wishing I would be humiliated all my life.
In this life, the scenery is still ordinary; Wonderful or dull; Are trivial things; As long as it is safe and healthy.
At a certain age, there will be something awakening inside, including introspection, attitude towards life and understanding of life. We begin to know ourselves again, understand life, and start to be true at every moment.
If the heart is so big, there are too many things and too complicated, it will crowd out happy places. If the place is small, the pattern is small, and the mind is small, it will not prosper; Think too much in my mind, regardless of the past and the future. Maybe I want to do everything well, but I can't do it well in the end. The fundamental reason is that if you think too much, you can't notice the beauty in front of you.
Dissatisfaction in life, in fact, external factors account for a small part, often because they are cruel to themselves.
I have always liked Yuan Mei's poem: "The day is not everywhere, but youth has just arrived. Moss flowers are as small as rice and open like peony. "
In bright sunshine and cool places, it germinates as usual and thrives as usual. Even a tiny lichen, like a grain of rice, still blooms proudly like a beautiful and noble peony.
In the long river of life, each of us is just a dust, and time is the best proof.
In the corridor of time, everyone is practicing and cultivating a normal heart. If you can see through it and overcome it, you can enjoy it no matter what your situation is.
If you have read it, you will understand that people who have gone through vicissitudes, even if the world is prosperous, will not be confused, and they are pursuing a static world, which is exactly what Zhuge Liang said in the Book of Commandments: "A gentleman's trip is to cultivate one's morality quietly, to cultivate one's morality frugally, and not to be indifferent to Zhiyuan."
Therefore, the only way to understand the true meaning of life is to maintain a normal heart for the rest of my life. Always have a normal heart, look down on success or failure, not be fascinated by material desires, even if there is a little trouble, it will not be disturbed. Really clear thinking and strong adaptability.
Then make yourself a simple person from now on. Don't indulge in fantasy, don't bother yourself, don't miss the past and don't be afraid of the future.
With a normal heart, do what you want to do and pursue your life dreams.
Please also believe that a normal heart you have today will surely bloom quietly in the future.