Geography, economics, ethnology and administration also use the concept of neighbors. Although there are some similarities between non-sociological definitions and sociological definitions, there are also strict differences: all non-sociological definitions only pay attention to geographical relations and ignore the analysis of neighborhood social interaction; Sociology believes that neighborhood is an interactive system.
Where there is home, there are neighbors. There is an old saying that "a distant relative is better than a close neighbor". Neighborhood is as close as lips and teeth, and harmonious coexistence has always been advocated. Neighborhood disputes have existed since ancient times and are inevitable. When there is a dispute between neighbors, we should be more tolerant, more modest and cherish peace. With a peaceful mind, we can eliminate many unnecessary contradictions and turn hostility into friendship.
There is a story of "Six-foot Lane" in Qing Dynasty, which is a household name and is still a beautiful talk. It is said that two ancestral houses, Zhang Heye in Tongcheng, Anhui, are adjacent. When building a house, there was a dispute over the land, and there was no compromise. Mr. Zhang went to Beijing to write a book and wanted to intervene for the official's sons in Beijing.
The son wrote a poem to persuade his family: "A thousand miles to build a book is just a wall, why not let him be three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "So, the zhangs' initiative to retreat from the wall three feet. Ye Jia was deeply ashamed of this scene and immediately retreated the courtyard wall three feet. There is an alley six feet wide and one hundred feet long between the two houses. Although the alley is short, it leaves people with endless thoughts.
Neighborhood relationship, in the final analysis, is the social relationship between people, and it is one of various interpersonal relationships in society. As there are many differences in growth environment, living habits, economic conditions and personal cultivation, conflicts will inevitably arise between neighbors. As long as we give in to each other and understand each other, there is no problem that cannot be solved.
Otherwise, it will be counterproductive. For example, it is common for children in the neighborhood to "trip" when playing together. However, some parents can't let it go, and they are also "wrapped" in it to add chaos. Some time ago, two children in a community in our city quarreled about basketball, but their parents did not come out to stop the fight, but came out to help, and finally evolved into two wars, with extremely bad influence.
Being kind and partner with neighbors is the proper attitude among neighbors, and living in harmony and helping each other is the proper norm among neighbors. Neighborhood must be more understanding, tolerant, considerate, caring and sincere. This is an important guarantee for neighborhood harmony, and it is also the cornerstone of community harmony, urban harmony and social harmony. No one can underestimate it.
Only when everyone regards close neighborhood relations as a responsibility and obligation, and everyone stresses harmony and promotes harmony everywhere, will our community, city and society become more and more harmonious and beautiful.
Extended data:
Neighborhood relations are getting colder and colder.
Everyone knows that neighbors should help and care for each other, but it is easier said than done. Yao Ming is just a stranger, living just across a wall, and the unstoppable noise and stench can only be carried hard.
Instead, the result is friendship and mutual assistance. Many neighbors are like powder barrels, and everyone has a bad stomach. If you don't agree, quarrel first and then use force. Even if they can't afford conflict, they will stay away from their neighbors. Earlier, both the United States and Australia had their own neighborhood surveys, which echoed the indifference of modern people to their neighbors.
Weak neighborhood relations will lead to mental health decline from middle age to old age. On the contrary, maintaining good relations with neighbors can greatly improve the mental state of middle-aged and elderly people.
References:
Longcheng Shi Gang News Network-Neighborhood Harmony Won 1000 Yuan.