Premarital sex will bring serious psychological conflicts. College students' premarital sex usually occurs on the premise of impulse and loss of self-control, and there is no contraception. It is easy to be in a state of fear, anxiety and self-blame afterwards. Girls, in particular, are not only afraid of pregnancy, but also worried about the pressure of study, and generally dare not tell others or parents. This huge psychological conflict will seriously form some sexual barriers or perverts, which will bring hidden dangers to the happy marriage life in the future. The research of sexologists shows that the initial sexual experience has a great influence on the future sexual life, and the unhealthy psychological and sexual behavior formed by the first sexual intercourse will greatly affect the harmony and perfection of the future sexual life of couples.
Premarital sex can lead to bad feelings. People who love each other maintain a hazy, mysterious, implicit and sacred aesthetic feeling, which is extremely attractive. However, premarital sex can easily destroy this feeling. After a qualitative leap, the relationship between the two will be zero distance. Zero distance is easy to cause friction because of trivial matters, and frequent conflicts will make each other not cherish their feelings; There will be suspicion and distrust between two people. In the long run, both sides will feel that you are flirting with others by having sex with me so rashly. Especially influenced by traditional ideas, boys will think that active women are not worth cherishing.
Premarital sex will reduce the quality of life after marriage. Most premarital sex is carried out when love is immature. After a long time, you will find that the other person is not suitable for you. However, after several years of contact, you have spent a lot of material and spiritual resources, and often you have to barely maintain a relationship. However, this kind of love has lost its former glory and beauty. After marriage, you will live in regret, or you will easily have a third party, or you will eventually choose to divorce.
Premarital sex has caused great physical and mental harm to girls. Many college students are curious about sex and don't know how to protect themselves. After they got pregnant unexpectedly, they were afraid to go to the hospital for abortion. Some people don't even know they're pregnant. When they understand it after two or three months, they can't do early pregnancy abortion, and they can only induce labor in big months. Whether it is early pregnancy abortion or induced labor in big month, it brings great physical and mental harm to girls, and some serious cases cause lifelong infertility.
Premarital sex can also bring about the spread of sexually transmitted diseases. Some college students who have sex in places with poor sanitation often cause reproductive diseases. What's more, according to the statistics of the United Nations Population Fund, about 6,000 young people around the world are infected with sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS every day, and half of them are aged 15-24. Women are more vulnerable to HIV infection. Female college students must be cautious about premarital sex.
In our traditional culture, sexual function is not only the pursuit of sexual pleasure, but also the responsibility of maintaining sexual health and inheriting future generations. For the future, parents, schools and society should guide college students to the road of sex science, sex civilization and sex health.