Although, sometimes, I think there is still a big gap with Ann. For example, sometimes, when he greets his classmates studying abroad, he pops out Italian, which sounds very confusing to me. For example, the last time he took me to Sanlitun for steak, my god, the steak with bloodshot blood really made me hard to swallow for a while, and so on, which also made me very unhappy. But I really like An An, so I quickly adjusted myself and shortened the gap with An An as soon as possible.
1, willing to try and actively integrate into each other's life circle. Because I have been studying in China, I am not familiar with many western styles of An An, so sometimes I don't get along well with him. But I took the initiative to collect the delicious food and scenic spots of the city where he studied, as well as the history and allusions of his school, so that I could naturally join the topics discussed at their alumni reunion. I even learned a few words of Italian from An An, and occasionally jumped out, which surprised An An.
2. Expand knowledge and cultivate hobbies that match each other. As an art student, An An has some petty bourgeoisie complex, such as what brand of red wine to drink when eating steak and what kind of white wine to go with when eating seafood. What style should his music studio be decorated in? Many of them are beyond my aesthetic ability, but I will read more books on this subject, and at the same time I will often communicate with An An to understand his thoughts. In this way, I can put forward my reasonable suggestions in time during the whole decoration process and get the praise of An An.
3. Be good at learning and discover a brand-new self. I was born in the mainland, and my family is very traditional and conservative. Since I was with Ann, I learned to ski, cook western food and go hiking with my backpack. These are incredible things in the eyes of family and friends, but I did it. At the same time, I also found a lot of beauty in life and the convenience and happiness brought by new skills.