? She didn't learn how to make up or fix her hair in the video. She rode a spinning bike in the gym and broke the bike seat, which attracted ridicule. She went to a fashion shop to buy clothes. The waiter told her that there was no size she could wear. She works in the basement of a famous cosmetics company and will never make it.
? She envies the model who works out with her. She has a devil figure and has been accosted by handsome guys.
? The inherent thinking caused by growing up experience is that because of ugly appearance, life is always unpopular and there is no good luck.
? She has been looking forward to the miracles in life, such as throwing a coin into the wishing pool when the lightning flashes and thunders, expecting to get up the next day and have Victoria's secret figure and beauty.
In the past, scenes similar to movies were all women. After the devil's training and unremitting efforts, she finally succeeded through her own efforts. However, this movie is not!
? One day, the hostess Renee went to the gym to spin her bike as usual, and the fitness teacher in class that day told them with passion and fighting spirit:
Girls, have you seen yourself in the mirror?
What do you see?
What you see is not what you are now, but what you want to be. BLABLA is giving the hostess chicken blood.
The hostess is getting more and more excited and fighting spirit.
? Just then, the woman fell face down and her brain was out of order. When she woke up, she was suddenly as confident as her brain, and she saw her "expectation" in the mirror (in fact, she was still the same).
Yes, the figure and appearance of the female host have not changed, just looking at herself from another angle.
If her previous self-acceptance was 3 points, at that moment, she reached 10.
She is serious and has no doubt that she is the most beautiful girl in the world. Her eyes are full of light and heat and self-appreciation.
She began to dress herself in various confident ways, with bright colors and appropriate collocation;
At the dry cleaner's, I was sure that the other person was seducing her (the male match was also puzzling at first, and soon she was cute and attracted by her unique self-confidence);
That night she challenged the bikini beauty contest in the nightclub. Among many girls with devil figure, because of her confident and bold performance, all men have changed from "abrupt", "incredible" and "exclaimed" to applause and affirmation.
She boldly recommended herself to the front desk position of a well-known cosmetics company. (Knowing that the front desk is the facade of a fashion company) At that time, two examiners crossed their hearts when they first saw her.
One of the examiners told her directly and euphemistically, "You are not our best candidate".
But it doesn't matter. Renee confidently and calmly explained her understanding of this position, her love for the company and her brand concept, and confidently and firmly told me that I would be the best person in this position.
Finally, I won the curiosity of the CEO and decided to give it a try on the spot.
In fact, she did very well. She understands the preferences of each executive customer visitor and prepares intimate drinks and drinking methods for them in advance.
She is confident, generous, kind, humorous, good at thinking, witty and calm, all people-oriented qualities, and even won the favor of brand founders.
Just when everything was going well, the plot changed dramatically again!
He began to doubt himself because of his distractions about the grandson of the brand founder (a male god in the play).
When "self-doubt" occurred, she suddenly turned around and magically bumped into the glass.
After such a collision, when she woke up, her "brain damage" was hit again.
She went back to the old Renee and saw that she was dissatisfied with everything and thought that only beautiful girls could succeed.
She avoided everything before and insisted that she was ugly again (in fact, her appearance and figure have never changed)
Until then, she saw herself on the right (foreground photo) and herself on the left (basement photo) on the big screen.
She was shocked herself: "God, I have never changed. I just do my best with this pair of skins. "
Yes, the plot is a little meaningless and can be challenged, but what do you see at this point in the story?
The "looks" in the play can be understood as the two most common things we usually do:
1, others' comments on us;
2. Our evaluation of ourselves.
Reminds me of the "inherent thinking" and "growth thinking" mentioned by Carol Dwek in her book Lifelong Growth;
When we were babies, we learned to walk, talk, fall and make mistakes, and we were not afraid or ashamed.
Later, we learned more, but we stopped because we were afraid of this and that.
Why? Because we changed our thinking mode.
As our acceptance of ourselves increases,
When we get rid of the interference of "self-doubt",
We will be "the person I want to be".
Are you ready? ^_^