1. Don't worry. Emotional things can not be satisfied, can not be anxious, can not choose to make do because of anxiety. Many realistic examples show that the more anxious you are to end your single life and find it, the easier it is for people to see the essence of the other half blindly, resulting in bad consequences. 2. Be sure to keep calm. A 30-year-old woman has a certain experience, a certain economic foundation and a stable social circle. After all, people have feelings, and there will always be times of loneliness. In any case, a 30-year-old should know how to control and adjust his mentality and keep calm. 3. Be sure to keep fit. A healthy body can keep a healthy heart, always be in the best state and have the clearest mind. A 30-year-old woman who exercises regularly is very attractive. That kind of femininity emanates from the inside out, just like a blooming peony, attracting people to stop and watch involuntarily. You can't stop teaching yourself. When you have enough single time, you should organize time to study hard and enrich yourself. Reading and studying can enrich our spirit, and also give us the ability to distinguish right from wrong, guide us when we are confused, and prevent us from losing ourselves in loneliness. How to deal with single women in their thirties? First, don't refuse a blind date arranged by your family. Whether it's a blind date arranged at home or an object introduced by relatives and friends, don't refuse. If you don't meet, you never know if it's appropriate or not. Maybe many people think blind date is quite shameful, and think that only people who are not wanted will go blind date. Or there is a misunderstanding about blind date, thinking that people who can go on blind date are all left by others, and they are not excellent. Actually wrong, often blind date is more reliable than talking to yourself. What is a blind date? Is to give you a chance to meet people you can't contact or know. Meeting doesn't have to be together, just like meeting a new friend. If you think it's a hit, just look around. If you feel incompatible, you are incompatible. When you go on a blind date, you can try to relax, be natural and not fancy, and you can consider getting married there. How can I put it? I'm just helping you get to know someone. If you want to get married, you have to wait until you have a certain emotional foundation. Second, go out for a walk when you are free. My own menstruation is 32 years old and still single, mainly because she hates her house. I can't get in touch with any new friends at work. You can't make new friends when you go home from work. Because of the particularity of my work, I seldom talk to people at work and have few friends. Also, originally, she was introverted and didn't like excitement, and then the more she stayed at home, the less she liked excitement and only liked silence. When you meet a stranger, you can't even talk, don't want to talk, and don't know what to say. The more you do this, the more you have to exercise yourself and challenge yourself, so don't always close yourself up and get in touch with the outside world. It's probably a coincidence that I met my "the only thrill", and no one can say for sure. But you can be sure that your "the only thrill" won't come straight to your door. Third, we should learn to reflect on our own shortcomings and deficiencies. Everyone has shortcomings, but we can't be proud of our own shortcomings. I always said I was like this. I accept what I like, but I don't. With what? Why do people have to please you and cater to you? Everyone is the same, there is no reason at all! We can be imperfect, but we can constantly improve ourselves and realize our own shortcomings. This is the real great wisdom. Some women, it is not that they have never met the person they like, but that their personality makes people unable to get along. Eccentric, willful, selfish, powerful, overbearing, and so on are all possible. You may not be excellent, but you can't stop yourself from becoming excellent. Nothing happens for no reason. People like you for a reason, and people don't like you for a reason. Ask yourself, if you are a man, would you like to find a girlfriend like you? Fourth, there is no real and absolute fit in this world. Some women, who are still single at the age of 30, are really picky and always choose their spouses by perfect standards. Regardless of whether others are perfect, are you perfect? If you are not perfect, who is qualified to ask others to be perfect? Even if we meet a perfect person, do we deserve it? In this world, there are no two identical leaves and no two absolutely suitable people. The so-called appropriateness is just that one knows how to tolerate and accommodate, and the other knows how to stop. Finally, such a woman looks at one mountain after another. If she is high, she will not be low, and she will become more and more confused. Think clearly about what you really want and cherish what you should cherish. There can't be anyone or anything that can satisfy you. Reduce your own desires, give others more tolerance, and don't let yourself become a hedgehog. Being too harsh on others is also a kind of harm to yourself. How do single women in their thirties solve 3 First, seriously review their own problems. People should be confident, but not arrogant. They should learn to face up to their own problems and constantly optimize and improve themselves. I am most afraid that you never feel that you have any shortcomings or defects, or even feel that you are perfect. Even if there is a problem, it is someone else's problem. A video that became popular on the Internet some time ago came from the line of Fan Wei, a "vicious social person" in Ma Dashuai: "Anyway, you will follow me slowly, and you can find your own reasons if you don't get along well." It's not good to laugh at jokes like this and never learn to take them seriously. Generally speaking, a 30-year-old single woman may have extreme personality and temper. Either too introverted or too proud. Sister menstruation belongs to the former, she doesn't often deal with strangers, and her life circle is relatively small, which leads to her ignorance of what to say and her exclusion. Like quiet, like to be alone, but also a person without emotional appeal, very boring. Tell me more about the proud ones. It is difficult to get along with people who are too picky and arrogant and have many small problems of their own. You know, without a certain emotional foundation, it is not enough for people to tolerate you and accommodate you. Second, don't exclude blind date. In fact, blind date is quite reliable. After all, some relatives and friends around me introduce each other, which is well informed. Nowadays, people are too good at pretending and packaging themselves, so if you know someone yourself, it is difficult to know who the other person is and what the situation is if the time is short. I remember watching a news before. A young girl stayed with her boyfriend for two years and didn't know that her boyfriend had divorced and had children until she got married. Maybe many people have prejudice and misunderstanding about blind date. I think only people who don't want to go on blind dates. I think this is very fall in price and disproportionate. Or it is difficult to accept the current form of blind date. What is a blind date? Think of it this way. Is to give you a chance to meet people you don't usually get to know. Either meet people and stay together, or meet new friends through intermediaries. Perhaps, you will come into contact with people with different qualities, but the more people you know, the greater the chances. Third, take part in more group activities. It doesn't mean that you have to participate as long as it is a group activity, but you can participate in more positive and healthy group activities. Relatively speaking, in such group activities, the quality of people you know will be higher. They all say that "love meets the corner", but it is not. You never know when you will meet the right person. On the one hand, it is good for the body and mind, on the other hand, it can expand the circle. Why not? For introverts, it may be difficult to take this step. Actually, it's nothing. Our life is a process of competing with ourselves. Once we find happiness in it, we will soon be addicted to it. People cannot be changed. The environment and atmosphere in which you live, including the people you come into contact with, will exert a subtle influence on you. Don't always shut yourself in your room. Although being alone is also a kind of enjoyment, if you want to find another person, there is no need to say that the right person will fall from the sky in your room! Even if it suddenly appears, you will only feel frightened and scared. Fourth, cultivate your hobbies. If you want to expand your communication range, it is usually nothing more than through work and friends. But this, the effect is not big, as if to expand their own circle. In fact, you still haven't stepped out of your own small circle. Only through hobbies can you discover a new world. In a sense, people who share your interests are easier to get along with. At least you have the same interests and hobbies, and you will also have the same topic.