It's a pity that you seem to live in a family without love. Your grandmother and father prefer boys to girls. This may be true. Your grandmother and mother have been at odds all the year round, which has also affected the relationship between your parents. Besides, your mother's house doesn't seem to be much better. Your grandmother is not a kind mother, and she is not very tolerant of you and your mother. Especially if you sometimes treat your children badly because they love them. The main reason is your dissatisfaction with your mother. Born in such an environment, we should treat it correctly, study hard, go all out and don't complain. It's not easy for your mother to raise you. You should be more patient. Dad, grandma and grandma are all your blood relatives. Although they may not care much about you, their blood relationship cannot be changed. Don't listen to your mother. I hope you can become a kind and caring person!