1, be careful when using condoms.
Myth 1: Open the condom before use.
Condoms are mostly ring-shaped. When they are used, they are placed on the erect tintin and then slowly unfolded. However, some people will spread the condom by hand first when using it, which will make it appear redundant folds, difficult to wear and easy to slip off.
Myth 2: It's too late or too early to wear condoms.
Nearly half of people think that Tintin is safe from entering women's private parts. They will have sexual contact with their partners first, and then wait until sexual intercourse or even ejaculation before using condoms, which is very dangerous. Some people wear condoms long ago but don't have the same room, which will make the condom surface dry and make it difficult to enter women's private parts. The best time is to be caressed by both sides to improve the excitement and put it on before sexual contact.
Myth 3: The air at the front end of the condom is not emptied.
The seminal vesicle at the top of the condom will retain air. If the condom is not emptied before wearing it, it will easily lead to the rupture of the condom and may also lead to insufficient seminal vesicle space. The correct way is to squeeze the condom gently with your fingers first, and then stretch it out to eliminate the air inside.
Myth 4: Condoms are too tight or too big.
Condoms also have models. Using condoms that are too small or too large will not only affect sexual pleasure, but also affect erectile function, rupture or fall off. It is recommended to measure it briefly before buying, and then adjust the model according to your own feelings.
Myth 5: Use the wrong front and back.
Happy events are easy to ignore, which makes the wearer uncomfortable and easy to slip when sharing a room. Some condoms have signs to distinguish between positive and negative, which can be avoided with a little attention.
Myth 6: The thinner, the longer it takes.
Functional condoms with ultra-thin, floating point and fragrance are becoming more and more popular. In fact, for those men who ejaculate faster and are older, thicker condoms should be used, which is conducive to controlling ejaculation and prolonging sexual life. Don't be too superstitious about the stimulating effect of floating point, and the fragrance may also cause allergies.
Myth 7: Tear the condom package with your teeth.
Some people will tear the condom package with their teeth, which is full of teasing, but it is easy to cause the latex to break and crack. In addition, avoid opening the condom package with nails or other sharp tools.
Myth 8: Use the wrong lubricant.
Lubricants for condoms will be more comfortable, but lubricants with oily matrix will degrade latex and reduce the strength of condoms. You can choose a condom with lubricating function or use a water-soluble lubricant.
Myth 9: Tintin's exit time is improper.
About 3 1% of men and 27% of women admitted that it was too late to withdraw, and Tintin was completely weak before withdrawing, so the condom was easy to fall off in women's private parts.
Misunderstanding 10: Wrong storage.
Condoms also have shelf life and storage conditions. If they are placed in an overheated environment, in direct sunlight or in a car, the life of condoms will be shortened. So put condoms in a dry, dark and private place.
2. Practical contraceptive methods
First, oral contraceptives.
One of the most comfortable contraceptive methods, short-acting contraceptives, taken once a day or continuously for 22 days from the end of menstruation, can regulate menstruation and help improve symptoms such as premenstrual abdominal pain and irritability. Many women are used to taking short-acting contraceptives and accidentally find that their skin has become bright and clean.
In order to solve the problem of missing short-acting oral contraceptives, there is a very simple method for reference: make a monthly calendar of the month on the computer, cut and paste it on the bottle body of the medicine bottle, and make a corresponding mark for each dose, so as to remind each other between husband and wife to prevent forgetting.
The new generation of short-acting contraceptives has effectively changed the side effects of the old generation of contraceptives, such as obesity, acne, hair growth, etc., and has no effect on fetal development. In other words, as long as you are prepared in all aspects of body and mind and ready to have a baby, you can get pregnant immediately after stopping taking the drug.
Intimate tip: Of course, there is a misunderstanding about oral contraceptives that needs to be clarified. Many young girls don't do "preparation" work in advance because of the trouble of taking medicine every day, and don't go out to buy emergency contraceptives until they have sex. Gynecologists even called this young girl "Yu Ting".
In fact, this practice exaggerates the "magical effect" of emergency contraception. Almost all emergency contraceptive measures work by inhibiting ovulation and endometrium. Therefore, taking it repeatedly in the same menstrual cycle will increase the incidence and failure rate of menstrual disorders.
Second, the safe period contraceptive method
Comfort is also one of the highest contraceptive methods, which is most popular with men, because they are used to various contraceptive measures and can also enjoy a kind of pleasure that is only available in the Garden of Eden. However, many women are also intoxicated by its "barrier-free contact", but they are always uneasy about its safety. Especially women who win lottery tickets more than twice a year will gradually worry about this way, and their nervous state will not be relaxed until the next "old friend" goes to the appointment as scheduled.
Intimate reminder: Many women have a stable living and working environment, and their partners who get along day and night have a monthly menstrual cycle of 28 days or 30 days. Why can't they enjoy safe period contraception during the "foolproof" period? If you are still not at ease, with the contraceptive process of IVF, the success rate of contraception can be improved to the same level as that of male condoms.
Men don't object to coitus interruptus, because it is very exciting to have an "emergency stop" before surfing reaches its climax. Many men think that this implies that they can play back freely, which is the embodiment of determination and control.
Third, male condoms.
For women, this method of contraception is second only to oral contraceptives and safe period contraception. Although your boyfriend complains loudly about "trouble" and "scratching boots", the contraceptive effect of disposable condoms is as high as 99.6%, and its "discomfort" is only a little "slightly spicy" when plastic products rub against women's private parts. I believe that men's physiological feelings are the same, and their discomfort is 100% psychological.
In the most open universities, a small game in the physiology class is the "Blowing Condom" competition. The purpose of this game is to dispel people's mysterious impression of condoms and let male and female students know the benefits of using condoms: safe contraception, prolonged ejaculation time and prevention of sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS.
Intimate tip: In fact, in the process of contraception, this custom with male feelings as the main body should be changed. Contraception must take women as the main body, because it is they who unilaterally bear the sexual consequences. Wives can find opportunities to talk to their husbands and try to reach an agreement on the use of condoms for contraception. Of course, when talking and doing things, don't "just talk", don't let the other person feel that he is doing his duty and making sacrifices unilaterally, but emphasize the humor of "wearing a condom". All kinds of colorful fruit-colored condoms, ultra-thin and concave-convex condoms may bring a fantastic color to the boudoir. The key is how to induce him to finish this vivid foreplay with him.
Fourth, ligation and contraception.
Of course, ligation is uncomfortable, and there will be local pain and redness, but this "surgical sequelae" will disappear in two or three days. At this time, a feeling of "once and for all" will make both sides enjoy the "second spring" that was impossible when they were young. Every time you have sex in the future, you will become "unburdened" and very comfortable. In Japan, vasectomy is considered as one of the ways to liberate married housewives, which also makes their satisfaction with sex life much higher than before vasectomy. "You don't have to endure the pain of induced abortion anymore, and you can enjoy the happiness of' purity' from now on."
If both parties agree to become Dinks, ligation is the best contraceptive method. Ligation will not affect the level of sex hormones in the body, it just blocks the channel where sperm and eggs meet. Therefore, there is no need to worry about eliminating people's secondary sexual characteristics or letting the ligator enter menopause in advance.
Intimate tip: Relatively speaking, tubal ligation is more difficult than vasectomy, because women's sexual organs are deeply hidden in the body, and it is more painful to do this operation. Once they want their husbands to have surgery, both sides should fully communicate and understand their temporary mood swings. After all, after the operation, he will feel a little "special" and have the mentality of making sacrifices for each other. In addition, especially sensitive and neurotic women should not use this method of contraception, because she will be inexplicably worried about the health and safety of the only child and think that ligation is "a dead end." If there is such a hidden worry, other contraceptive methods should be adopted.
Five, intrauterine device
A rather uncomfortable method of contraception. The operation scale of placing IUD is similar to that of induced abortion. I also used a cervical dilator, and my whole waist was sore and swollen, which made me feel painful. The contraceptive effect after placement varies from person to person, and it also depends on the doctor's position and technology when placing.
A few women will reject the implanted "metal ring", which is characterized by more menstrual flow, longer menstrual period and aggravated menstrual abdominal pain. Ordinary intrauterine devices are valid for 5-8 years, and it is also very painful to take them out. You have to use a cervical dilator. When the "metal ring" adheres to the uterine wall, it can also cause pain and bleeding.
Intimate tip: However, in about 8% of cases, the rejection of the uterus is too strong, and a large amount of menstrual blood gushes down, even the placed IUD can be washed down, which women themselves don't know. In this case, the possibility of unintended pregnancy is very high, because many couples have no other contraceptive AIDS after the woman takes this measure.
3. Several auxiliary methods
Exercise is very helpful.
Exercise has a good effect on promoting desire, not only because exercise can enhance physical fitness, but also improve body shape and self-confidence. Moreover, modern sedentary lifestyle, obesity and other factors will affect male reproductive health. ED (erectile dysfunction) is directly related to sedentary lifestyle and obesity.
Therefore, it is suggested to do more exercise moderately to promote good health and increase desire. If you don't have time to go to the gym, you can do some small exercises at home, which is good for improving your desire, such as squatting and tiptoeing.
Lubricant additive
As women grow older, their private parts become dry and their desires decrease. In order to make women feel comfortable and smooth, lubricating liquid can be used. Durex Pleasure Pack is a body lubricant, which can bring refreshing pleasure, comfort and smoothness, make women's desire soar and experience a flood of moisture and happiness.
To create love, you can also try high-quality virgin coconut oil or professional lubricating oil. After use, you can regain the smoothness of your youth and make your roommate more comfortable. But there is a disadvantage: it is not suitable for use with condoms, because coconut oil can degrade latex.
Love hotel is helpful
When in love, couples may go out to get a room, and naturally have sex at home after marriage. But since we want to help and create love, we need to change and innovate. When the happiness of the same room is corroded by the daily necessities at home, when the desire is filled with bills and it is difficult for couples to relax, how can there be desire?
The best way is to leave this room that ruined your desire and go out to stay in a romantic hotel to relive the happiness when you are in love. First of all, the change of sex location makes couples more relaxed and more focused on the same room. In addition, the love hotel has a warm environment and various auxiliary props, so that couples can enjoy the perfect room.