1, childhood ideals Let's talk about childhood ideals. This is a very interesting topic, which can not only relax and enjoy, but also enhance feelings. However, don't cling to the conversation. Let her talk. The happier she speaks, the better your chances. What should brothers and sisters talk about when they meet for the first time? Let's talk about parents. It's a little inappropriate. If her parents separate or divorce, it will cause her unhappiness. The usual topic is talking about brothers and sisters. Talking about brothers and sisters can deepen understanding and enliven the atmosphere. Moreover, if you want to know about her family and show that you like her, it is easy to win her trust. Don't mention her old love on the first date, don't ask her old love. If she doesn't mention such a topic, you can't speak rashly. She may still love him, or she may still be in the pain of lovelorn. When we meet for the first time, don't think that talking about her past lover, enlightening her and comforting her will win her favor, which is often counterproductive. If you want to please her, don't let her recall the past and talk about happy things. Remember, your purpose is to win her, not to wipe her tears. 4. Work situation If you have been working for some time after graduating from college, talking about work is a good topic. However, you should control the initiative and don't let her ramble about some trivial things that bother you in life. The more she talks, the more unhappy she is, and the more impatient you are. However, most people talk about work, even if they are bored, they will talk nonsense. It doesn't matter, you can at least know whether she will be a workaholic or a good housewife in the future. 5. What places of interest have you been to before? She is happy to answer this question and will not be wary. In order to make her talk, ask her to introduce you again. As long as you are a loyal listener, she will soon have a good impression on you. At this time, you can ask her where else she wants to go. If she says so-and-so always wants to go, your chance will come. Come on, I've always wanted to go there, too. Let's go together some day. Let's realize our dreams together. She will gladly accept your invitation. In fact, having said this, you will know a lot about her knowledge background and hobbies. 6. Hobbies like collecting stamps, singing or dancing? Do you like sports? What music do you like to listen to? You have to ask these questions, otherwise how do you know her hobbies? And she also wants to show herself, so why not? 7. favorite food if you are dating in a restaurant or bar, talking about your favorite food is a pleasant topic. Talking about food, we can not only understand her taste, but also find similarities, so we don't have to worry about no topic anymore. If she is good at her unique skills, please praise her first, and then ask her, \ It makes my mouth water. Let me be happy. Even though she knows you are praising her, she is very helpful. If you have hands, don't forget to invite her to taste your craft. 8. Friends around her talk to her about her friends. Maybe you don't know them, but it doesn't matter. She will be happy to talk about her friends, the details of their communication, the time and place of meeting. Maybe you are not interested at all, but don't worry. This is a good opportunity for you to get to know her. Do you want to continue with her? Start by getting to know her friends. 9. Future Plan Can you talk about your college life? Do you still want to go to school? She may be interested in these topics, talking about her student life, interesting things, various honors and so on. However, she may be indifferent, just saying that her current job major is wrong, and then changing the subject. However, no matter what happens, I will give you a good opportunity to praise her. 10, send an invitation. If she chats happily, her eyes will glow when she looks at you, and the distance between them is getting closer and closer, then there will be a game. You can talk to her about your plan and invite her casually, but don't be too hasty, it will scare her. But don't worry, if she is happy, she will be happy with you and won't refuse you easily. Talk about dating 2 talk about dating 1 Talk about family members and ask about the health status of girls' parents, what their parents like to eat, what their hobbies are, their common hobbies, and whether they like fitness. Can we get a fitness card together, then go to the gym after work, or what sports we like, get up every morning and go for a walk in the park, or go shopping and have a meal together? You can also talk about brothers and sisters to deepen your understanding and enliven the atmosphere. Moreover, if you want to know about her family and show that you like her, it is easy to win her trust. 2. Interesting things at work Talking about those interesting things at work can make girls curious about you, and can also make girls think that you are a person who loves work, so that you are a person who loves life and is down-to-earth. Of course, you must communicate with those interesting things at work, otherwise it will be boring. Don't be talkative and don't be silent. Chatting is like patting a ball, you should master the strength and rhythm. Probably everyone will follow the girl's conversation, so the main thing is to be careful not to become the monopolist of the conversation, take over the girl's topic and talk about something. You can deviate from the direction a little and throw the topic to girls again. This gentle acceptance and redirection can make people feel that the conversation is smooth and comfortable. 3. favorite food if you are dating in a restaurant or bar, it is a pleasant topic to talk about your favorite food. Talking about food, we can not only understand her taste, but also find similarities, so we don't have to worry about no topic anymore. If she has a skill, she should praise her first, and then ask her, "Let my mouth water. Let me eat it some day. " Even though she knows you are praising her, she is very helpful. If you have hands, don't forget to invite her to taste your craft. 4. Your future tells me what you think about the future, what you want to do, your goal and your inspiration. Girls will like boys who know their future clearly and work hard (although they haven't done it yet). Please say it with your own natural and passionate emotions. After all, this is your future! Goals are not always ambitious, but as long as your goals are meaningful and worth pursuing, girls will appreciate your determination. 5. Talking about personal hobbies Everyone has appropriate hobbies and is not afraid to say it. And talking about these can help us understand each other's interests, which is an important topic in the future and easy to cause laughter. Just pay attention to the scale, don't laugh wildly, and let girls think that you have no culture. More importantly, if you two share the same interests, we can open another deeper topic for you. Of course, when talking about hobbies, don't always focus on her hobbies in the conversation. This will show that you have a strong sense of demand for her. You should lead this conversation. Knowing her doesn't really help you attract her. Chatting topic of dating between men and women 3 and chatting topic of girls 1. As the saying goes, "Food is the most important thing for the people". Nowadays, many girls are foodies. Talking about food directly with girls will definitely open the channel between you and make you familiar with girls quickly. 2. Fitness With the rapid development of society, people's requirements for life are getting higher and higher, so many people have joined the health care team now. In fact, the best way to keep fit is exercise, so when chatting with girls, it is better to talk about your recent fitness plan. If girls are also fitness enthusiasts, maybe I can give you some advice. 3, gossip Almost all women like gossip, so when an honest man doesn't know what to talk about with a girl, talk to her about the entertainment gossip you heard recently. The girl will definitely be very interested and will take the initiative to share the version she heard with you. 4. Make-up Since the Li Jiaqi fire, many girls who love make-up have fallen madly in love with this devil. In fact, it is very common for boys to make up now. When you can't find a topic to chat with girls, you can talk about your views on makeup, or ask girls which skin care products to use. Girls will definitely be happy to recommend it to you. 5. Childhood Everyone has a different childhood. There are many interesting things in childhood, which makes people linger. Therefore, chatting with girls you like about each other's childhood can quickly bring the relationship between them closer and give you a feeling of "meeting each other late". 6, interest and favorite girls chat, you can talk about your hobbies or women's hobbies. See what she is interested in and what her hobbies are. If her hobbies happen to be the same as yours, maybe she can hit it off and finish something she has always wanted to do but hasn't started yet. In the process of sorting out, your relationship will become more and more intimate and ambiguous. 7. Women's instinct has always been contained in their favorite women's hearts, so when they meet their favorite animals, they will have a whim, and their maternal instinct will overflow and then let go. So when you don't know what to talk about with girls, you can start the topic according to pets, which can not only show your caring side temporarily, but also get familiar with girls quickly. 8. Shopping In today's society, there is no girl who doesn't like what buy buy bought. Women are natural shopaholics and always have some hidden shopping desires. So, if you talk to a girl about shopping, she will definitely talk to you endlessly. 9. The topic of dreams depends on your actual relationship. After all, when the relationship is not particularly good, girls will not casually talk to you about these topics, so if you want to talk to girls about their dreams, upgrade your relationship first and let girls put down their guard against you. 10, traveling is particularly popular now. It doesn't matter whether you are happy or not. The important thing is whether you can walk away. It is said that a person must travel once anyway, because only by going out will you know the beauty and colorful of this world. So when chatting with the girl you like, you can share some of your travel experiences with her, and the girl will be very interested.